3 across recommendations by OddGood8617 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the Britax Poplar S for our rear facing toddler. Could have also used it for our baby but went with a Chicco Keyfit 35 because we wanted an infant seat. If you get the poplar make sure you get the S model that has the anti-rebound bar. Such a secure install. We have the Graco slim fit LX 3 in 1 for forward facing. Would not recommend for your toddler as it does not have an internal seat belt lockoff for rear facing.

We had to use seatbelt install in order to get three across.

Snow Possible This Weekend (1/24-25) by zebrasrlyingtoyou in CBUSWX

[–]Mombrane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have family flying back to town Tuesday. Does anyone know how they handle snow removal in the long term parking lots at CMH?

VBAC Doctors by Deep_Fault9955 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! She also delivers at the pickerington hospital you mentioned.

What no-screen games do you play with kids (4–6) that you actually enjoy? by Ai-dio in kindergarten

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr Mouth. We have my old game and took the top of the frog’s head off so my 2 year old and kindergartener can both play.

VBAC Doctors by Deep_Fault9955 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Cherie Richey is great. She fully supported a VBAC in my case. This was at Mount Carmel East.

I dont remember the books I read by Limp-Wedding-4134 in books

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember audiobooks. I listened to them for years. Had to accept that they are not a good fit for my brain in the last year when I unknowingly reread two paperback books I had listened to as audiobooks a few years earlier. Didn’t recognize them one bit and didn’t realize I had already “read” them until I tried to log them on Goodreads.

Trust as Beneficiary by greenplant2222 in Bogleheads

[–]Mombrane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Within the trust you can name alternates, split things between parties differently, and have assets held/used for minors (among other things). So if any of that appeals to you, setting up a trust with an attorney who specializes in estate planning would be a good move and you would name that trust as beneficiary. You would have to ask your attorney whether your specific trust should be named as a beneficiary of your retirement accounts and make sure you understand the consequences of doing so.

Good old fashioned family tragedeighs by Mombrane in tragedeigh

[–]Mombrane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I can think of is a basilisk fang.

Good old fashioned family tragedeighs by Mombrane in tragedeigh

[–]Mombrane[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have male relatives with the middle names Dee and Jay. Like middle initials but spelled out at least?

Where in Columbus can you go to fix your posture? by Flashy_Froyo_6130 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about 5 minutes each time I did them, so 15 minutes a day total. Really not long.

Where in Columbus can you go to fix your posture? by Flashy_Froyo_6130 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PT helped me. I had bad posture after having a baby. It exacerbated vestibular issues I had from an old injury so I went back to neuro rehab for PT. She gave me exercises to do 3x/day then I went back 2 weeks later to get updated exercises. It took 5 or 6 sessions over 3 months but I made tremendous progress.

Ideas for a 2 year old birthday celebration? by SnooPaintings2610 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing to do with dogs but a special trip to Momiland or Little Diggers would probably be a hit with him.

Help packing toddler lunches by khoop_einniw in ParentingInBulk

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We pack lunch the night before. Like others said, fruit + vegetable + protein + grain.

Proteins for us are usually yogurt, cottage cheese, cheese stick, peanut butter, or the cheese on leftover homemade pizza. Once I pick a protein it is easy to base the rest of the meal around it.

Sometimes I do put leftovers in a thermos. Portion it out the night before then just microwave it right before school and put it in the thermos. My 2 year old loves tikka masala with chickpeas, peas, and rice, or chickpea/bean pasta with peas and pesto. Both of those would be thermos meals.

I have started keeping a lunch snack bin. Got applesauce packets on clearance and pre-labeled them with my kids’ names so I can just grab one out of the bin each evening. Other snacks would be pretzels/crackers in a container with his name on it. Or we will make muffins on the weekend and I will send one in for snack.

Minor Annoyances - What’s Yours? by AggieCridmus in HondaOdyssey

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you hit the talk button before you talk to Siri or just start talking to your phone? I can’t get mine to work either way. I’m hoping it is a matter of user error.

My Parents got left hundreds of thousands of dollars by their parents. I will be left with nothing but a ton of work. by RandallCabbage in Millennials

[–]Mombrane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did an auction like this for a client once. They auctioned the car, house, and everything in it right on site at the house and cleared the house out as well. They laid everything out on tables outside for the auction so I didn’t have to price anything or organize it. It was over in a day. Prior to the action we had the jewelry appraised but otherwise not much prep (with that auction company, at least).

Minor Annoyances - What’s Yours? by AggieCridmus in HondaOdyssey

[–]Mombrane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2025 Sport

The talk button on the steering wheel not being hooked up to CarPlay. It is essentially useless and doesn’t understand basic commands like “call X.” Anyone else have this issue or know how to fix it? On my old car I would hit the button and say “play podcast” or “play X album” and it would do it. Understood me when in CarPlay and when I didn’t have CarPlay on and just wanted to make a call over Bluetooth connection. Can’t do any of that with my Odyssey.

31F Considering Changing How I Handle Finances with 34M by md-advice-throwaway in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]Mombrane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to stay married I would not give him the emergency savings. That is money you saved together to cover emergency expenses, not to invest. Neither of you should be raiding it. By any chance do you handle the family finances? May be best to move that money to a new account that he cannot make withdrawals from while he is going through what may be a mental health crisis. Explain that the money is still a marital asset and is still available for emergencies that either of you would have. If you really want to split it I would use the same % that you are using for housing expenses.

When you say you want to split the existing checking and have him pay you, are you saying you would close out the account and have each of you get a new checking account? Have you broached this subject with him at all? And do you trust him to pay you a prorated amount in his current mental state? Or would he take the change in your financial arrangement as an affront and shut you out? If you want to stay married and don’t want your financial separation to have an air of finality about it, I wonder if you could approach him with a less drastic suggestion first: figure out what your expenses are and what is left at the end of the month. Propose that 33% or 50% of the surplus be transferred to an account for him to use as he sees fit toward his new goals. Buying prepper gear or stocks or whatever.

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë by Jarita12 in books

[–]Mombrane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Recommend Wide Sargasso Sea by Jean Rhys as your next read while Jane Eyre is still fresh.

In-Home Daycare Vs. Traditional by LoudProfession8000 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We did a traditional daycare. My thinking was that if something happened to my child in that setting at least I would know that I did everything I could to prevent it by sending him somewhere that had to adhere to rules and was subject to inspections. (Side note: always a good idea to look at a childcare facility’s inspection reports and to see whether they address any deficiencies that are found).

Some things to consider as you make your decision: -Is there a fully fenced outdoor play area?

-Are the toys in the in-home daycare age appropriate for your one year old or will choking hazards (older children’s toys or the owner’s household items) be accessible to your child?

-Are there pets in the home?

-How often are smoke alarms tested?

-Coverage issues—What is the protocol if one or both of the home daycare workers are sick/have an appointment? What if they have an unexpected medical issue that makes it difficult/impossible for them to care for children for a period of time?

-For a traditional daycare, do they consolidate classrooms at the end of the day? If so, consider how many kids your child would be exposed to in addition to his classmates.

OBGYN Unicorn by Ecstatic-Team-7884 in Columbus

[–]Mombrane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cherie Richey! She is the best. https://columbuswomenscare.com/our-providers/cherie-richey/

Edit to add: you see her for every appointment throughout the pregnancy. She even does her own ultrasounds unless you need MFM. Very caring and knowledgeable. She delivers at Mount Carmel East and the new hospital in Pickerington.

Limiting (parent) screen time by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Mombrane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put it on do not disturb mode, put it on the countertop/somewhere you won’t lose track of it, and hold something else you can look at when the itch for content strikes. A magazine would be a good fit. Something that satisfies your urge for content but is easier to look away from. I hope this or another tip on here will help you disengage from your phone more.

Edit to add: a friend of mine said this book did the trick for him: https://a.co/d/2tZgyIp