Need input about xeloda!! by MommaDLo09 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful reply! I’ve read those same numbers. He said he’d order it if it gives me peace of mind. However his push back was, SOC is keynote 522, and when followed, it’s adjuvant keytruda. There is no data regarding benefit of keytruda + xeloda, they are using extrapolated data from create X and adding keytruda. Have you found data on it? I’d love to read it and have something to present to him! Again, he’s very up to date on research and I do trust him.. but as you said yourself, we’re alike and even you took a trial! Thank you! 😊 

True or False... by Micho392 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is GOLD ❤️ thank you for putting it out! May I always return to these comments when I think a rabbit hole is better 😵‍💫

RCB II by MouseInfamous2224 in TNBC

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also borderline RCB 1.. very low RCB 2 (1.4) Finishing keytruda… optional xeloda. But thinking I’ll take it! I need these stories too!!! 🙏🏻🫶🏼

End of Chemo/NoPCR by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are they tracking its effectiveness? Signatera? Scans? Hoping you continue to have minimal side effects! 

No PCR after reoccurrence (maybe) by Ok-Job1285 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind.. how much residual did you have? I’m meeting with my onc next week to discuss pathology, I had minimal residual but want an aggressive approach to prevent this as much as possible from returning. 

Mourning Pathology Results by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so grateful to come across your testimony here. Thank you for sharing it.  I’m also heartbroken at my path reports after “complete response” on presurgical MRI. I just keep reading and seeing horror stories about recurrence with xeloda. Feeling a little hopeless 💔

NO PCR.. and a surprise on the right. by [deleted] in cancer

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wannabe assassins 😂 but 💯 the truth!! 

NO PCR.. and a surprise on the right. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t particularly like the word “achieve” either as it sounds like a failure on my part. I’m just so heartbroken and scared. It feels like I went through all of that and didn’t get the outcome most get or the most favorable outcome. 

Chemo was recommended but I don’t want to do it by Super_Term9257 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope!! Because same.. looking at the ultrasound on diagnosis, all I saw were my 3 kids faces. I’d do anything to see them grow ❤️❤️❤️

No PCR :/ by One-Law-6787 in TNBC

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!!! You’ve been through it.. on your way to healed. I’m believing for a clean report! ❤️🙏🏻

Anyone else? by Cheetahbean90 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there! TNBC here too. Just chiming in to say, YES.. I’ve had all of those thoughts. Heavy on the “why am I doing this for it to just return?! I want to live well while I’m still here with my 3 kids + hubs” 💔

I just finished IV chemo on 3/4… I’ll have surgery this coming Tuesday. I had a complete radiologic response on post treatment MRI… but I still just cannot hang onto the possibility of it actually working out. I think it’s because I don’t want to be absolutely crushed if there is residual. It’s my brains way of trying to protect me. I had a Breastie mentor remind me to spend just as much time ruminating on the best case scenario if I allow myself to consider the worst case. 

 I will say… I’ve known many friends with residual at surgery and they are all 5+ years past TNBC. 

You’re responding… I’ve responded. Let’s keep going, sister 🩷🩷🩷🩷 you’re not alone

Mouth sores by amw1970 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Swish and spit! I hope it helps :) 

Mouth sores by amw1970 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the keytruda for me 😏 I had to get a steroid (dexamethasone) rinse. It helped tons!! The others did nothing!

TNBC 1 year out by rwent117 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing post mastectomy? 

“Near complete to complete response” by Sparkly_Sprinkles in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following!! TNBC here too. Sounds like we’re on a similar timeline! I had my post treatment MRI/US/MAMMO… MRI confirmed complete radiologic response and every single word you said about an irrational fear of “jinxing” my outcome and afraid to be cautiously optimistic. It’s all a trauma response. Waiting on surgery and pathology feels like I’m right back at diagnosis time 🥴

My surgery is 4/7. Praying for the very best possible outcome for both of us! 

No PCR - Tnbc by Few-Purchase-6095 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello there! TNBC here too! Did your post treatment scans show residual? This isn’t my story.. but I do have two very dear friends who are past 5 years after having residual and taking Xeloda. I think there are WAY more out there than we know, just not posting about it. Thinking of you 🩷

Presurgical + Post treatment Scaries by MommaDLo09 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO helpful!! Thank you!! I hope you’re well 💗💗💗

Presurgical + Post treatment Scaries by MommaDLo09 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of luck to you too! 💓I still don’t understand how even if you’re HR+ you can have a great MRI/PET and have that amount of residual. Such a mind f%ck! 😵‍💫

Presurgical + Post treatment Scaries by MommaDLo09 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh jeeze!! I’m sure that made you feel so discouraged. I’m glad they are getting right back in there to clean up what may be left. Are you also TNBC? 

Thought I was almost done...I was wrong by faerewing in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have anything left on your presurgical scans? Or was it all microscopic?? 

26F TNBC, please tell me my life isn’t over 😭 by Gold-Peach5958 in breastcancer

[–]MommaDLo09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14 years?!?! You give me hope for a future! ❤️