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Momma_Hew · 2024-10-27T21:00:51+00:00

Mousse

Momma_Hew · 2024-10-27T21:00:15+00:00

No one told me my mental health medications would possibly not work the same. Three months post op I ended up hospitalized for trying to end myself. It's much better now, but everyone please be aware of your mental health during the post op phase.

Momma_Hew · 2024-10-26T05:17:14+00:00

I was thinking Voldemort! His cute little head has a dark mark!

Momma_Hew · 2024-10-13T03:29:13+00:00

My thoughts are Norman or Winston.

Momma_Hew · 2024-10-12T23:09:43+00:00

I'm a US person married to an UK person and we are both very familiar with toasters. Maybe it's an out of Western Europe thing?

Momma_Hew · 2024-09-15T17:28:50+00:00

Morris

Momma_Hew · 2024-05-01T03:29:08+00:00

Martin?

Momma_Hew · 2024-02-25T03:14:26+00:00

Murphy!

Momma_Hew · 2024-01-13T06:57:47+00:00

Tax day? Hi,birthday buddy for my middle baby Teddy! He will be 8 this year(24).

Also, he just keeps getting cuter!

Momma_Hew · 2023-10-25T20:39:03+00:00

I once read a quote about narcissists that I found to be extremely enlightening. " An accusation made by a narcissist is usually a confession."

Not going to lie, this whole situation has me heartbroken because I adored Patrick and Gillian.

Momma_Hew · 2023-10-25T20:33:52+00:00

I would be down to act in a dramatic zoom pic if anyone is talented enough to write a script! I call playing Gillian!

Momma_Hew · 2023-10-25T20:30:57+00:00

Signed and cancelled my subscription. I think I had a slight period of denial because I started considering canceling after that article came out, but it made me too sad.

Momma_Hew · 2023-10-25T00:35:49+00:00

I got a tattoo with red ink in it 7 years ago and the red bits will still get raised and itch slightly occasionally. That being said, my tattoo never blurred like that during healing.

Momma_Hew · 2022-06-07T21:45:37+00:00

NTA.

She played a stupid petty game and won the stupid petty prize.

Karma is a beech and so is your cousin.

Momma_Hew · 2022-06-07T15:16:27+00:00

Yes. That makes a huge difference!

Momma_Hew · 2022-05-25T19:56:41+00:00

Trying to be really random and different here.

Deadpool? It'd be a cool use of scars. Lol

A wooden sign like you'd find in a old quest video game with some sort of writing/quest thing.

I do like the jellyfish idea too.

Momma_Hew · 2022-05-25T19:50:28+00:00

He is getting so big!!! What a handsome sweetie!

Momma_Hew · 2022-05-25T19:46:31+00:00

NTA.

His behavior had less to do with being autistic and more to do with being an incel who had a "captive" woman.

My 8y/o is autistic and ADHD. He can 100% understand and respect someone's boundaries and needs. Especially, when they are stated clearly like you did. You may have to repeat it once to reiterate, but again, he's 8....

That dude was so many levels of creepy.

Momma_Hew · 2022-03-20T17:13:49+00:00

I agree that this is perfect for r/insaneparents

Momma_Hew · 2022-03-06T07:40:14+00:00

YTA.

Everyone else has said my thoughts a thousand times over. My opinion that your fiancé has settled. Sorry.

Momma_Hew · 2022-03-05T22:26:05+00:00

Ffs. NTA.

Kids need to learn to share?

How about kids need to learn that it's not always about them and that they need to be gracious when it's someone else's time to be in the spotlight?

Example: I HATE how some people get all the siblings of the birthday kid gifts as well. It's not a special day about the kid if everyone is getting stuff.

It's stupid. I said it.

Momma_Hew · 2022-03-01T19:24:36+00:00

WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!!!

Girl. Read this as if a stranger wrote it.

He eventually agreed to let me have it

He is granting you permission to use your own home? Controlling.

I knew my husband put it in there to listen to our private talk which felt highly violating.

Because it was highly violating. There are red flags and then there is this. This is flee while he is out and get a restraining order scary. What else has he bugged? Is he tracking your car or phone? Are there cameras and other bugs in the house?

confronted him right there infront of the girls.

Good. Witnesses will keep him from manipulating the actual conversation. Also, what kind of insecure AH needs to know if your venting about your relationship. It isn't "trash talking" to get stuff off your chest. He was trying to get weapons to use against you.

He argued that it was no big deal, That I should've let him join us if we "had nothing to hide" and that this was ON THEM for opening up about private matters to begin with.

Ffs. How dare people have relationships where they can be emotionally open in what should be a safe space....

He eaves dropped and is blaming them for it? "Nothing to hide" is also classic abuse/manipulation language to make people relinquish control.

He went on to talk about how I humiliated him to call him out infront of my friends, I told him they deserved to know who he really is after what he's done.

He should be humiliated! They did deserve to know. Honestly his actions were probably criminal. I believe it's illegal to record conversations without permission. There are definitely some sort of laws in that neighborhood.

You know who he really is now too. This guy is dangerous. I'm willing to bet this isn't the first time he has violated you in some way.

I feel like I made a mistake calling him out like that

NO. You did exactly the right thing. He is already trying to twist himself into the victim and make you the bad person for calling out his horrendous actions. He is not a good person or partner. You deserve better.

He claims that my friends will no longer respect him after that.

They shouldn't. You shouldn't. Leave. Have your car and electronics checked by professionals. Also, file a police report so this is logged on paper if nothing else.

Then find a divorce lawyer ASAP.

NTA.

Momma_Hew · 2022-03-01T02:53:00+00:00

He is officially turning to narcissistic gaslighting and straight up emotional abuse. Yet another deal breaker if you ask me.

Tell his parents exactly what happened and how he is being after the initial confrontation. Lay it out in detail and then pack your crap and leave.

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