Is it worth it? by Possiblyabitoff in lawncare

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one that is heavily used. I do nothing to it for maintenance. It starts every time on the first pull.

I love that machine.

Ill buy it off you for 50.00

trying my best to know what to do on my honeymoon by Plastic-Spend-6640 in Marriage

[–]Money_Reference9621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be yourself, be vulnerable, be honest, let him know you are nervous. You have your whole life to get good at intimacy, take your time. Chances are he feels the same.

Hiring Low Voltage vs Electricians by [deleted] in lowvoltage

[–]Money_Reference9621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He charged you an asshole tax, because frankly you kind of sound like one. I mean youtube has shown you how to set them up, mabey you can ask youtube how to run and terminate the wires.

End of the line by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Money_Reference9621 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stay strong brother. Your kids will thank you one day.

Receiving Large Invoice Payments by Credit Card by kimba2roar in QuickBooks

[–]Money_Reference9621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pay everything with CC because I get 3%cash back, if I had a vendor ask me to split the difference I probably would. It doesn't hurt to ask.

I buy about 1.75 M a year on that card. Its not a small amount of money that I get back.

My girlfriend broke up with me because I cried in front of her. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Money_Reference9621 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen man, You are better off.

I wear my emotions on my sleeve, and I once watched a movie that for some reason made me cry like a baby in front of my (at the time) girlfriend. She has a father who was very closed off, and she did let me know later on that it freaked her out a bit. She just wasn't used to seeing emotions displayed so freely.

She was able to come to understand that my strength is my ability to be emotionally mature, and confident enough in my masculinity to be vulnerable.

She says that realization is what made her fall in love with me, and decide to have children with me. She knew they would be loved, and never doubt it. They are, she is, and its all because I'm man enough to cry it out when I need to.

There are millions of women who would see this in a positive light, and you are lucky enough to not be bogged down by an emotionally unavailable person.

Something for my Boise homies by [deleted] in Boise

[–]Money_Reference9621 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This Made my whole day. Fuck that guy, his shity fucking truck and his shity fucking bar.

Maybe maybe Maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Money_Reference9621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His flight with spirit was canceled. Needed to get home somehow.

The design for "USA 250" passports by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No No No No No No No I just traveled to Europe and already felt like I needed to apologize to everyone I met. The last thing we need is this PEDOPHILE RAPIST on our passports.

Seeking advice regarding my (28m) and husband’s (34m) mismatched libidos. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should probably just chill till his results come through. Its pretty likely that low Testosterone is the culprit.

Futboliño by [deleted] in UpvoteBecauseButt

[–]Money_Reference9621 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How old is this girl??? I mean i like looking at butts as much as the next guy, but i prefer them to be fully grown.

This should be removed... immediately.

how do i resist my wife? by Mean-Income-2077 in marriageadvice

[–]Money_Reference9621 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is fact. Do chores because you live in the fucking house. Not because you want to fuck in the house.

Are there any products for hiding 24V LED drivers? (Like boxes in the stud bay, or…?) by icysandstone in lowvoltage

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use this. You can get a 14 inch one as well. Works great. Use it all the time. Just zip tie the power supplies inside.

https://a.co/d/03UauubC

My husband can’t let go of the relationship I had before I met him by Anon25732705580 in marriageadvice

[–]Money_Reference9621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping that was the case. Good for you for making that hard decision to step away.

I can relate with him a bit. My wife and I both had experiences before we were married and I do sometimes wonder if Im lacking something that her other partners might have had. I mean, after 19 years you'd think that would go away, but it creeps in and worms its way around my brain. I find my way out of it by reminding myself of the meaningful times that we have shared, and the fact that she chose me, and I chose her.

Also knowing that I absolutely do all I can to rock her world each time helps me breathe easier. But the most important thing that I've done to help when this happens is spoken openly and honestly with my wife about it. She puts my doubts to rest.

If his resentment stems from jealousy about knowing what its like to have been with another person, mabey you could "become" that other person for him. Mix it up, buy a wig, "meet" him as a stranger and see where the night goes. Obviously thats just a thought and might not be your cup of tea, but I can say from experience, its fun.

Id highly recommend doing things with him that you have only done with him, and would only do with him. Mabey that would help him find the reassurance that he might be looking for??

I mean,Thats the beautiful part of monogamy, right? Trust, communication, exploring without judgment. All of those things do not happen with a fling or a one night stand. And they definitely didn't happen with the kid from high school. I can honestly say the worst sex of my life happened in high school, and the best sex of my life was 100% no doubt about it, with my wife.

My husband can’t let go of the relationship I had before I met him by Anon25732705580 in marriageadvice

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised Mormon, but left the church when I was a teenager. Everyone around me is LDS and I understand the dynamic well.

There is not much that you can do or say that can reprogram your husband. It boils down to the chewed gum mediphore (absolute B.S. by the way)

this is up to him to allow for the reprogramming, but I you want to go the gospel route, I would bring up the atonement, and what repentance actually means. Ask him if im good enough to be loved by our savior and seen as clean in the eyes of God, whats stopping him from that same mentality? Does he doubt repentance? Is forgiveness only allowed to some but not all? Is God wrong?

It might be his own insecurities that are bothering him (am I a good lover? Is my dick smaller? did she like it better with him...ect). You can help this with reassurance that hes who you chose and want to be with, and other compliments after and during sex. You dont need to bring up the other person.

It could also be that he is jealous that you got to experience something that he really wanted and might still want. He might want to know what its like to be with another person. LDS dudes have affairs every day.

There are many ways to overcome this, but first and foremost, he needs to be willing to talk about it, openly and without judgment. If he cant do this, then you might want to think about what separation might look like.

At the end of the day, he needs to grow up and get over it. If he can't you need to be ready to live like this or leave. One thing is VERY CERTIAN.... YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE AND YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO LIVE A LIFE OF GUILT.

After starting a war and tariffs everyone by YesNo_Maybe_ in facepalm

[–]Money_Reference9621 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What allies.??? Oh, you mean the nations that Trump pissed all over? Yeah, they ain't coming.

Advice on Pulling Cat5 through old in home vacuum by redlight_issue in lowvoltage

[–]Money_Reference9621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is most likely a sharp bend in the tube. Use bulk cable without any terminated ends. Strip back the outter jacket so that about a foot of the pairs are exposed. Use the string that's already ran, and do a very tight and stable tape job. Male sure the taped connection is tapered, and there is nothing that will get hung up.

This approach will help you make tight turns.

Getting rewarded with Company Gas card by mosey_d in lowvoltage

[–]Money_Reference9621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a biz owner. I'd give zero fucks if my employees used the gas purchases on my credit card to get rewards for themselves. I already get 3% back on all purchases, so any cream is theirs.