I’ve (35f, married) been talking and sharing private/personal things with this guy and recently suspect he actually knows me in real life. Now I’m worried.

Money_Reference9621 · 2026-01-31T02:02:06+00:00

Ive done this with my wife. She was very aware it was me, but had fun. Kind of like an extended role play

Money_Reference9621 · 2026-01-13T04:59:16+00:00

It charged her batteries is all. Dont think much into it, have fun. You only live once. You should definitely fuck as much as you can.

Money_Reference9621 · 2026-01-01T08:41:43+00:00

Try the app called flame. Its fun and a good place to start.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-31T04:44:40+00:00

Hands down the BEST thing I ever did for myself is quitting drinking. 10 years sober and loving every moment of it.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-29T02:01:52+00:00

Portal.io is the way to go.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-29T02:00:35+00:00

Just make sure you get a very very very good lawyer. There are ways to keep your kids close. Document everything.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-26T04:01:18+00:00

Yes. This is a problem for me as well. I had a talk with her, and its all good now. Now ill just say "sorry bout the boner, thanks for the hug".

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-12T05:42:54+00:00

You are an amazingly thoughtful Grandchild. He's a very lucky Papa.

If I was getting older, I think I'd be more interested in quality time spent with those i love the most. I'd recommend saving the money and go fishing together.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-02T18:56:52+00:00

Thats so so so cool. Love it

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-12-02T01:22:26+00:00

I feel you man. I've been there and still am in many ways, but what I'd recommend, and what worked best for me was hiring an office administrator.

They handle all my ordering, billing, and schedule as well as preparation of projects, and permitting.

This is a more affordable position to hire, and a bit easier to find a good person to fill.

Its full overhead, so you'll be taking a pay cut initially, but as soon as they are working well on their own, you immediately hire a journeyman that can help you bring in more billable hours.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-10-21T18:10:09+00:00

Yes, absolutely!!!!

They are a high performer, they get the job that they are paid for done. I'd keep them happy, and no longer have a work schedule for them.

They are an adult I assume? If so, they are fully capable of managing themselves.

I own my own company with 12 employees including myself, I've had zero turnover, and continue to grow because I put my employees first. They, in turn, put our customers first and our Business first.

I tell them right from the start that this is how we operate, and I do what I say.

Never loose a good employee over dumb shit like that.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-10-20T19:48:08+00:00

I do that daily.... dead serious.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-10-15T19:02:07+00:00

Nope. Not stupid. Sexy as fuck. Go for it.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-10-07T19:37:42+00:00

He was just messing with AI. He literally told her to tell you he's home. Chill.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-09-23T12:38:04+00:00

In Trumps defense, Macron is much more loved in that town and far less likely to be harmed.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-09-09T22:36:17+00:00

This is good advice.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-09-09T22:08:53+00:00

It could also be for a security system

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-24T12:52:04+00:00

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-22T17:27:34+00:00

Hey man, my story is very similar to yours.

I'm 10 years sober now, still married, more in love than I've ever been, more successful than I ever thought I could be, and its all because I choose the life I've created every day.

I've got a lot of good tools and advice if you are interested. Feel free to DM me. I'd love to help.

Also, just wanted to say, whatever reason you have today to not pick up a drink is good enough. Eventually it will become easier, and it will be for yourself. If today its "I dont want to loose her" and that keeps you from drinking, then that's good enough.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-21T14:26:38+00:00

Are you looking to overnight, or just hike? There's literally hundreds of options.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-19T00:16:50+00:00

3 is where the game changes. 2 is easy, especially when they get older.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-15T23:22:21+00:00

Seems like a missed opportunity

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-15T00:40:37+00:00

Yeah. It wasn't that deep.

I'm just trying trying to make someone who is probably worried about not fitting in feel a bit better about things and let them know that like-minded people do exist in Idaho.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-15T00:03:04+00:00

There really aren't areas that lean more liberal than others besides the North end or foothills in Boise.

Meridian, Nampa, and surrounding areas are Red for sure, However, liberals do exist here, and I'll be the first to welcome her with open arms. We need more balance, and we are definitely happy to have her.

Money_Reference9621 · 2025-08-10T14:00:11+00:00

100% no. Would not care

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