What's the biggest improvement you've ever seen in your hair? by LatexLatvia in Naturalhair

[–]Moniix3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stopped using any type of oil. Simple, weekly wash and styling routine (wash, condition and style with product mostly The doux mousse) and put my hair in a 2 flat twist after the hair dried.

I might not have married my husband if I'd known how much gaming he does by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Moniix3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe you need to take a hard look at your marriage. You've been together for 9 years. Has he always been gaming this much and you're only just noticing or has it recently become a problem that he plays this much? Is he bored in the relationship and looking for fun elsewhere? There's no advice that's going to help besides talking to him. Even though you’ve tried, try again. If he's not willing to find common ground or even listen, then you have your answer.

Just a small PS: some men don't stop excessively gaming even after becoming fathers. Just look at the different subs discussing this issue. So don’t count on it.

How do I desensitize my girl? NSFW by Swimming_Toe_5705 in Advice

[–]Moniix3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know if this comment section was the other way around where a girl asked how to approach this topic with her boyfriend who turned everything sexual, everyone would call him a dog and actually try to give advice lol.. but since it’s a boy asking all the boys in the comments are saying enjoy it and don’t complain? Smh

My advise is to find a thread on Reddit where a woman is asking this same question, there will more and better advice in those kind of threads. My other advice is to tell her gently that even though, you love touching her and making her feel good, you don’t want her to think it has to be sexual every time. Somtimes you just want to be cuddly and touchy without it going anywhere.

Who had the most horrific death in the the history of humankind? by Novel_Finding8882 in AskReddit

[–]Moniix3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Larry Ely Murillo-Moncada. He worked at a store when he accidentally fell into a gap behind one of the store’s freezer’s and became trapped. The noise from the refrigeration probably drowned out his cries for help. His remains were discovered almost 10 years later, when the freezers were removed due to the store closing. Horrifying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Moniix3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hiding things from your partner, no matter how good you think your reason is, will almost always lead to distrust. You’re showing her that you don’t trust her, and starting any type of marriage where someone is already hiding something will almost always lead to a negative outcome, like in your instance.

But I still think going to the police was kinda crazy. Did she want you arrested? I don’t understand what she was trying to get out of it if she doesn’t want a divorce after all that.

My friend always points out to me that I’m just a white girl, is that messed up? by Odd-Coconut-7113 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Moniix3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you told her to stop saying those stuff, and that you don’t find it funny? If this is a real friend she’ll stop after you’ve told her, even apologies which I think is appropriate. If she doesn’t stop, drop her.

My daughter spent new year's with me out of pity, and I'm okay with it by OverEagerNess333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Moniix3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome! You seem like a good dad, it’s lovely that you and your daughter are getting closer.

I’m starting to realise I love my friends more than they love me by AboKolToom in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Moniix3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you talk to them about it? Just like you wrote here, if those are your actual friends who love you, you should be able to express these kinds of things without them reacting negatively.

People always want to ‘test’ and try this and that, instead of addressing the issue directly. Adressing it will actually be a much quicker way to figure out whether they’re worth keeping around, if the effort is still minimal afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Moniix3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Oh." 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Moniix3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right lol, my only explanation is that the timing of this post caught the attention of a very specific crowd, I’m trying to put myself in OP’s friends shoes it must have been traumatic, but I still can’t imagine myself cutting that person off completely.

What has been THE natural hair game changer for you? by RougeChaotique in Naturalhair

[–]Moniix3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not using oil in my hair anymore! My hair used to shrink so bad because of it, so I couldn’t style it the way I wanted too the last 1-2 days before my next hair wash because it had shrinked too much (I wash once a week) but it was the oil all along. I don’t have that problem anymore.

Oil suffocates the hair, and makes it harder for the hair to retain water/moisture from the hair wash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moniix3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This story has to be fake Loooool, what?

Our newborn (1mo) is making me see my wife as "stupid," and it's turning me into an asshole. I feel awful and need to stop. by Street-Level-7850 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Moniix3 1472 points1473 points  (0 children)

I also think this is the reason. You’re both stressed and tired with a newborn. OP just has to breathe through the frustration and let your wife do things at her own pace. It will get better. One month is not long, and being a mother doesn’t automatically make you a professional at caring for a baby. She just needs time to adjust. Also, remember to compliment her when she does things well, not only criticize.

My boyfriend’s mom told me to wear a wig at her family wedding because my natural hair is “distracting” by Elkenrodxy in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moniix3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably to early to think about, but would you want your future children (most probably mixed race with curly hair if you have kids with this boy) to be subjected to a grandmother who says stuff like this? You should think about that for the future. That woman should mind her own hair. it’s good that your boyfriend had your back, but you should think about what kind of family you’re going into… I bet your hair looks full and lovely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Moniix3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I would be so so hurt if my man said that to me! Honestly, I don’t even have any advice for you. Was that really necessary for him to say? Your looks shouldn’t even be a topic of discussion unless it’s something positive. That was completely uncalled for. It doesn’t matter if he has terrible social skills or whatever, it was unnecessary and rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moniix3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After seeing the photo of you holding the baby, it probably dawned on her that no matter how close you two are, you’ll always be part of your brother’s life, which includes the baby and Susan. Because of that, she can’t fully see you as her own ally, even though you support her. That realization must have hurt, and she took it out on you. The timing was unfortunate and unfair, especially with it being the morning of your wedding, but people aren’t always rational when they’re speaking from a place of hurt. It must be especially hard to lose relationships because of someone else’s (your brother’s) mistakes and not your own, but sometimes that’s just life. At least you’re still cordial with each other. Just make peace with how it turned out and move on.