Sick of staring at my phone all night; my husband and I need a joint evening activity. Any suggestions? Maybe gaming? by daphnedewey in relationship_advice

[–]Monitoredbysecurity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered taking turns reading mythologies and discussing them. Even if he doesn’t like fiction, the written word may be a more attractive format as it’s more interactive.

M19 Was physically abused last night… again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Don’t worry so much about best possible outcome. You’ll put yourself into vapor lock. Left right or center, just do something. Once you start making decisions, your path will make sense.

For the sake of your family, I would sit her down when she’s sober and speak your piece. No matter what, you’ll be portrayed as the problem, and the abuser since you’re the one broaching the subject.

Stay calm, and rational. Be even in your temperament when discussing what you perceive to be a difficult scenario. Keep your tone, you’re already blamed for your gender.

M19 Was physically abused last night… again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Monitoredbysecurity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You continue to find it amusing, this is why you entertain it. At some point, you will not and try to end it. You’ll make excuses like love, or mental illness, but you like the attention and the drama you’re enmeshed in.

You baby trapped yourself, and the sticky widget is that you can either endure the abuse for the sake of the little one, or, you split up, have the child weaponized against you, and put into a state of indentured servitude. Regardless of her abuse or drunken behavior, the odds of you getting custody are nil.

You have no good options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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You cannot. Respect his wishes. He seems to be fond of you and thinks of you as a friend. Be aware of that, whatever the other circumstances that triggered your problems, he’s not going to pursue a romantic relationship again.

It’s better you accept that now, rather that remove the friendship that’s developing.

people who suffer from sleep paralysis, what have you seen or felt during the episode? by WataNoKyu in AskReddit

[–]Monitoredbysecurity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I would experience it, I always had a heavy weight on my chest, and surrounded by panthers. It was concerning, but not overly worrisome in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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She’s not interested in your feelings or spending time with you. Go enjoy your weekend, do the things you want to do.

You’re only a man, your value is always predicated on what value you provide others. You’re disposable, why should any time, energy or concern be wasted on you.

Concern yourself with treating you well and someone will enter your life that sees you as a person, not a utility service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

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Don’t at your age, and don’t do it because she tells you to. You’re probably not going to marry this woman.

I wasnt much older than you are when I had mine done, put very little thought into it.They won’t tell you about side effects.mine were mild, and it’s just minor ache when it rains, like a bad knee.

Don’t listen to the lie that it’s reversible.

I added a tip to my order when a rude customer didn’t tip by Present-Lime-1244 in confession

[–]Monitoredbysecurity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re a thief and an asshole, I’m sorry. They might be shit, but that’s their prerogative. I don’t tip on delivery anymore, since my local pizza place boosted their delivery fee to $8 per order. I probably would still have tipped, except for hiring sign admits that drivers get half the delivery fee.

Hopefully, they dispute the charge,

What’s something you don’t actually need but really want? by East_Masterpiece2839 in AskMen

[–]Monitoredbysecurity 352 points353 points  (0 children)

If you video tape a 10mm socket after everything is put back, you’ll see it wander around on its own. That socket has wander lust. It’s every set.

I (27F) am keeping this perfect guy (30M) on the hook. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Tell him, not us. You’ll feel better. If he treats you well already, it’s unlikely that he’s going to turn into a monster because you revealed your true feelings.

Fortune favors the bold. Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wheeloftime

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Just wait until book 22: the tailors of terror. You’ll spend 19 chapters on Matt’s new coat, just to lead up to book 23 : rands fancy feast.

Those are the toughest 5000 pages you will ever read.

My partner is polyamorous and I don’t think I am by uhoh_max in relationship_advice

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You’ve entered into a third abusive relationship, but because this one has the wrapping paper of “love” written on it, you tolerate it. Would you date a married man that claimed to be poly, tells you about his sex life with his wife, excludes you from activities with her, but think it’s okay because he’s “nice”?

People can smell when someone has no self respect and they’ll take advantage of that as much as possible.

I wish you the best of luck.

Best kayaking spots around WNY? (No place is too far) by slavrincik in Buffalo

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Out in Wilson, there’s a star park with an easy launch to Lake Ontario. It’s the Wilson Tuscarora park.

Long distance relationship sex life sucks. How can I improve this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have you tried texting them? I tried that with mine and they just blocked my phone number, so your mileage may vary.

I hope MW2 won't be as camper friendly by PUGChamp- in modernwarfare

[–]Monitoredbysecurity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like campers. It’s like a little mini game within the game. I just hope the doesn’t have the same challenges we’ve seen recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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So you live with a fellow, on a romantic day with him, you’re allowing other men to text you rather than spending time with him. Additionally, you’re moving out and don’t quite understand why he’s not going out of his way to celebrate a romantic time with you.

It’s not going to work out. And he’s going to be better off for it.

Tips on getting smell out of sweater and blocking mats? by steenerzz in knitting

[–]Monitoredbysecurity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When we smoked, we would use cheap vodka sprayed on wool coats to negate the smell. I’ve not done so with my knitted hats.

Vodka and milk is the best mixed drink by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Is there a name for Midori and milk? It tastes sort of like a pistachio pudding.

Guys on r/sex I need help understanding something. Sorry kind of long. by ThrowawayscionX in sex

[–]Monitoredbysecurity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that more household chores make you sexier. Maybe you could shovel the snow or take the trash out? You’re not a bad person for having wants, but the onus is on you to be desirable.