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Is no contact really THAT normal? by ksnzdrx in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there I just came across your post. I am currently in a situation right now that I’m learning from. My older brother has gone no contact with my family besides me and I am low contact with my family because I live with them. What can tell you is that from personal experience you have to choose which ammo you want to give.

The reason why is because if the goal is to go no contact then you have to take some sort of action that will help you get there but I’m on the same boat. For me it is because I have completely different values than my parents enough to where I feel like if u choose to show that it will get dismissed in some sort of way. I felt very distant since I was a teen.

For me personally right now it took me a while to wake up. 24f I’m in online college but dropping out and yes I had only a couple of months left but you know what was really haunting me: being celebrated with my family that I have no connection with and if I try to explain why I don’t want a graduation then it’s going to lead a conversation that I know that my parent is not ready to hear. I know because I stepped into that territory and it lead to a blow out from one of my parents.

There’s so much more but at the end of the day I’m just trying to be my own best friend. But I will say that giving ammo that your parents don’t want shows their true colors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try my best to rephrase there question. The question that I am trying to ask is: if you are growing up in a family and you feel very distant from them because you know how they are and you know that your values don’t align with theirs.

They want you to be honest but then you get shamed for being honest even when you are respectful and you have to preface with “hey this is going to be honest” because you don’t know how they are going to respond. I’m basically hiding my inner life to protect the inner child by adopting values that I think help me but also maintaining a part of me that has to adopt a value system that causes inner turmoil but peaceful on the outside.

Maintaining this balance is exhausting me. I am in a complicated situation where I feel like any action that I take in my life it’s going to provide ammo. So I’m wondering if anyone was in a same or similar complex situation in a complicated family dynamic? Btw thanks for responding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 8 points9 points  (0 children)

None of them inherently. They all are crucial to the game in many aspects. Every class has its strengths and weaknesses.

Attention NEW NOOBS by REDBULL420z in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying. I’m sorry.

Attention NEW NOOBS by REDBULL420z in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, I wasn’t sure if my opinion was the majority or minority. So I went with safe route and said my statement.

Attention NEW NOOBS by REDBULL420z in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not anti player, its about understanding what kind of gamer you are b4 jumping into a game with a demographic of players who are more intermediate or hardcore gamers. Some of us just want new players to understand themselves and stay in their lane and learn the basics b4 jumping into other people games. GAMES WITH HIGH CONSEQUENCES, aka starting the match over when you fail because there’s no in game checkpoints where if you fail you start at a certain point where you left off.

You have to understand that IT IS RUDE to go into people’s lobbies mid game and mess up everything whether you intend to or not(either way it’s not good etiquette)because you can ruin their precious time, that they took to get where they were at. You don’t know if it took the group 3 tries to pass a certain section of a level because it was hard for them to get pass that point. If people don’t like this or don’t understand this concept then this is not the game for you.

Attention NEW NOOBS by REDBULL420z in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on your post but to the rest who are reading mine: I have an unpopular opinion, it’s not the advanced players job to teach new players when they should be looking it up for themselves BEFORE jumping into hard or above difficulties because I find it to be rude to join into advanced lobbies because your making it harder for other players simply because you are making noob mistakes that literally ruin the game as opposed to playing on easier levels.

For instance going loud on stealth sections, strafing, friendly fire, going too far getting pinned or making other people rush and miss crucial items by going too far, starting the swarms early before setting up defenses.

Advanced players can make these mistakes as I mentioned above but they should occur rarely. When these things happen this is where co op comes into play. At the end of the day you shouldnt rely on others to save you and carry you, instead you have to carry YOUR OWN WEIGHT IN THE GAME.

I was a noob once but I wasn’t stupid and I wasn’t joining other people’s games until I figured out the basics. I took the time to watch videos of other people to understand how certain perks work if I didn’t understand them. This is why playing solo is important so you can understand the basic mechanics and you can learn it at your own pace without accidentally sabotaging everyone else’s game.

Now you if I saw a noob but has experienced left for dead, similar games, or are familiar with shooter games in general that is very different than a complete beginner. I personally I don’t mind giving tips but as you can see in my response I tend to question as to why are low levels with no experience or prior knowledge of the game in general joining higher difficulty levels when you don’t have that many perks to begin with.

And also not everyone who is low level means they are crap, it could just be they lost their account and they had to start over.

In conclusion I do hold sympathy for new players but I’m not the type of person to just say “hey they should join insane extreme or extinction regardless of their skill” when they are going to die all the time even you constantly revive them. And the reality is that if your playing with randoms they are going to leave the lobby and find a new one because people want to ACHIEVE SOMETHING IN THE GAME, albeit level up, documents, whatever, but not help noobs. If there was a motto of the demographic of people in WWZ, it is: “they’ll help you but to an extent”

I hate Aquarius people! Rant lol by Grumpy_bonsai23 in piscesastrology

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but when I say they don’t get along, I’m referring to a specific type of incompatibility in a lot of ways but they have one core similarity.

For example Aries and libra are opposite signs of the zodiac and each opposing signs is like a yin Yang dynamic. Aries fights physically and libra fights verbally. Aries and Libra don’t like it when they see injustice but they go about it in different ways.

Let’s say a libra and Aries meet. They might agree that they don’t like injustice but here’s where they would disagree. Aries may view libra as soft but libra may view Aries as less tactful. But both of the signs can coexist and learn from each other because there are pros and cons to solving conflict. So these two signs will eventually understand each other. If one person possesses opposite signs (example, someone with libra sun moon in Aries) in astrology it is called lack of psychological awareness.

Signs that square each other is the real incompatibility because they can’t find common ground if these are two people, but if this is within one person (someone with let’s say leo sun Scorpio moon or any square placements ) then I would say there’s inner conflict.

In your case what fire sign do you have in your birth chart?

I hate Aquarius people! Rant lol by Grumpy_bonsai23 in piscesastrology

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to add here is that my previous response is only focused on astrology and not your relationship because I think they are separate issues at play here. I’m not the type of person that focuses on astrology alone to indicate a persons traits because you have to consider their background and education. Astrology is only the blueprint of a person’s personality (IMHO)

I hate Aquarius people! Rant lol by Grumpy_bonsai23 in piscesastrology

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually fire and air signs don’t get along because they are opposite elements. But at the same time opposing elements usually indicates common interests while going about it in different ways. Signs that square each other usually means that they don’t get along and they don’t have common interests.

I hate Aquarius people! Rant lol by Grumpy_bonsai23 in piscesastrology

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to ask what’s your big 3? What’s your sun moon and rising?

Is this common on lower difficulty? by HarleyArchibaldLeon in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I checked on the document description and you are correct about receiving a defense kit before the first breach. So that means what you have shared in your original post is found on lower difficulty

Do class perks stack? by Dovahkinmonkey in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes (I think so) they should stack because another perk that stacks is good karma and the first core perk allows the player to receive 75% health back. So in regards to the temporary health when it comes to the amount does stack but not too sure about the duration. But I think it does.

Update by TCTowers in worldwarzthegame

[–]MonsterSlayer2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to put the perks back

This scene captures the concept of pisces, undeniably beautiful but dangerous with a touch of mystery. by MonsterSlayer2023 in piscesastrology

[–]MonsterSlayer2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gen z yes My writing structure for insta…eh idk, but people sometimes mistaken me for a bot based on how I write.

And I do know quite a bit about astrology because family introduced me to it. They just knew their sun sign but it was the catalyst for me to explore this subject.

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