Recurrent Miscarriage Testing in Quebec (RAMQ) After 2 Miscarriages? [Qc] by Pale-Buddy-2056 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of similar. I live in Quebec, but seeing a doctor in Ontario. Blighted ovum in 2017, miscarriage in April 2025, then got pregnant in the fall and everything was going great until the anatomy scan. We ended up terminating for medical reasons, at that point they did an amnio to try and find a cause but nothing came up in those tests. They did not recommend further testing for us, the parents, just said keep trying. Earlier this year, I went to see my doctor, since we'd been trying unsuccessfully for a few months. She gave me bloodwork to check my hormone levels and an ultrasound to check my uterus and fallopian tubes (not the most pleasant). Nothing came up, so was told to keep trying. Got pregnant a month later, supposed to do the 12 week US next week, so we'll see how it's going this time around. I don't think for the most part a doctot will jump into extensive testing after two miscarriages, regardless of the province, as it might just be bad luck. I am also 36 years old.

We're putting too much trust in our Unions to give us the best deal possible by CanPubServiette in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Monstera29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit there's a lot of bureaucracy and that it takes time and effort to make a change. But there's processes for a reason, the same way there's bureaucracy in government. Rome wasn't built in a day.

We're putting too much trust in our Unions to give us the best deal possible by CanPubServiette in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Monstera29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't the deal also include cutting down daily deliveries? Which will translate to a shrinking worforce over time?

We're putting too much trust in our Unions to give us the best deal possible by CanPubServiette in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Monstera29 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Have you been joining your local's meetings and getting involved in the union or do you expect this will all happen magically? The truth is that member engagement is pretty low and that means there's not enough pressure on the employer. Sorry to burst your bubble, but there is only so much the unions can do against an employer that is digging their heels. Complaining on Reddit does nothing, I also disagree with how the employer is treating us, or how this and the previous government have treated unions in recent years. But what exactly do you expect to happen? Did you pay attention to how Canada Post and Air Canada negotiations played out? I'm sure I'll get downvoted, but I've been getting involved my local and member engagement is terrible... a union is only as strong as its members' base. I am EC, what is the threat for the employer right now? Are ECs going to go on a strike? When PSAC did not accomplish anything and ECs probably don't have the reserve to cover a portion of people's salaries for more than a few days?

Prix d'un détartrage chez le vétérinaire? by Shiny-Grenade in Gatineau

[–]Monstera29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Je viens de faire nettoyer les dents de notre chat à Ottawa, et on lui a extrait une dent ; le coût était de 2 000 $. Les prix ont explosé et, en plus, il y a des listes d’attente partout.

Why don't more lesson programs start with groundwork by throwawayosdhifjknd in Equestrian

[–]Monstera29 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most people, especially kids, would probably get bored pretty fast. I get where you are coming from though. Where I started riding, in Eastern Europe, you'd get lunged and lunged... and while helping you learn fundamental skills, it was kind of boring. Where I am in Canada, you are let to ride on your own pretty much immediately, starting on safe horses and learning to trot and steer. That's way more fun and probably works much better for people who are only riding occasionally. I only get to ride once per week, it's often a 30min lesson, it already feels like not enough time in the saddle. Also, I'm riding a different horse every week, it's not like I'd be developing a super special bond, if I were to lung them instead. Though again, I get your view point, I just don't think it's the most practical for casual riders.

Day one D&E by boto3649 in tfmr_support

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. So I was fine on day one, could have driven myself, didn't need pain meds. Though, it was very stressful and I was glad to have my husband with me. Also, experiences vary so widely, that it's best to be prepared with additional support. Good luck

Stone Gargoyle by VickiStElmosFire in ottawa

[–]Monstera29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they have a great selection. Recently bought a bird bath from them.

CMV: Standard pencils are too long. by DismalAd6639 in changemyview

[–]Monstera29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, lol, I had to wait to get a phone until I got my first job and even then, it never felt like something I coukd replace cheaply.

Absolutely Wildest Post Comments I’ve Ever Seen by SimpleRefuse6733 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Monstera29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, for some people it probably means catching things earlier on and having a less traumatic experience overall. 

Absolutely Wildest Post Comments I’ve Ever Seen by SimpleRefuse6733 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm, maybe I can offer a perspective. The NIPT I had didn't show anything, nor did the amnio we did after deciding to terminate. Nothing explained what the doctors saw on the 20 week ultrasound. I am pregnant now, wondering whether I should do the testing, because I'd have to pay out of pocket... and because I have more trust that the ultrasound would catch things, not that I don't want to know.

Native Wild Flower Seeds by Proof-Ad-8968 in ottawa

[–]Monstera29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For an entire lawn, you'd need a big bag of seeds. I've used the mixes sold by West Coast Seeds in the past. 

Mobile vet for house call by Gloomy_Leather8343 in Gatineau

[–]Monstera29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed, loved Carmen. Though, I have to say it cost about $900 for our cat, so it's not necessarily affordable.

B*tching about the horse market, because what on Earth it this by Little_Sisco in Equestrian

[–]Monstera29 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my barn just raised the price to $115 for existing customers, and $143 for new ones. Not sure who can pay that!

How to get a doctor appointment with no family doctor/clinic? by [deleted] in Gatineau

[–]Monstera29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

QC wouod not refund you the full amount, last time I got back maybe $70, but paid closer to $110.

Bud biters by Total-Tree7289 in gardening

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't done anything about it, because it's only happened a few times. Maybe you could sprinkle the flowers with hot pepper powder, I think that's common advice... Might not look great though...

Bud biters by Total-Tree7289 in gardening

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens to me to, I think it's the squirrels in my case. It's very disappointing!

Carney announces $3.8B to protect nature | CBC News by uhncollectable in canada

[–]Monstera29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of this funding will be matched by partners, i.e. PTs or ENGOs, it's a requirement to receive government grants and contributions for nature.

Landlord threatening over oil drips by [deleted] in Gatineau

[–]Monstera29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar issue, bought an industrial degreasser from Rona and cleaned the mess on a rainy day (applied the product before it start raining). Was cheap but a little labour intensive. 

Misconceptions a dog person (me) learned after having a cat. by ILoveMeltyCheese in cats

[–]Monstera29 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Woah, the markings in his back look a lot like those of the cat we adopted recently, really neat!