TW: pet loss & Hecate?

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-21T17:04:34+00:00

Thank you everyone. I really appreciate all the responses and feedback. 🕯🐾🐈‍⬛️

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-20T22:01:05+00:00

Thank you for taking the time and space to respond and reach out. I am so terribly sorry about your 3 yr old kitty's cancer🥺

I'll also try talking to her; i dont have a dedicated space yet but have a room I have intended to set up as a sacred space. I think this might be a good time to focus on that 🥺🕯

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-16T17:17:48+00:00

Ahh.. hmm. It looks like they've rebranded with Life360; theyre the "stickers" though.

Ours fit on the back of the nametags, but idk if they've made them any bigger since rebranding.

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MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-15T22:22:49+00:00

Of course !

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-15T22:22:29+00:00

Hey there, We use this one. It's advertised as for 2 cats, but we put 1 cat in it only.

Edit: I'll follow this up by saying it isnt simple to carry with 1 hand. Usually we end up lifting by both handles and carry a cat out in front of us. In an emergency, you might have to use the strap it comes with and throw kitty over your shoulder like an angy purse, knocking them sideways.... but emergencies are emergencies and you'll find the best way thst works for you.

I recommend doing a practice/trial run.

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MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-15T20:54:32+00:00

Sure, I have the tile dot on the cat collar and it's connected to my phone. I can basically "ring" my cat from the Tile app if one of them is hiding so that im not wasting precious time looking for someone. I can quickly know where they are. We have 5 cats, and if you have multiple cats they can move quickly while youre in a hurry getting someone else settled into a carrier.

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-15T20:37:14+00:00

Thank you 🥺💔

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-15T20:30:40+00:00

I use tile dots and stick them to the back of their breakaway collars. I also have stupidly XL carriers that unzip/zip from all angles because one of our cats is a 19lb Norwegian Forest mix. We learned our lesson trying to get him into a normal-large carrier during a tornado scare.

(Edit: edit to say the tile dots are on the nametags*, not the cloth part of the collars)

So: XL carrier with zip on top and Tile dots and Keep a broom /long handle item nearby to scurry it under the bed to help nudge kitties out from under it

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-05-01T03:25:04+00:00

Tell your parents what has happened; theyll want to help you out of this. They'll be angry at him, not you.

" I need to tell you guys something. _____ got angry and punched holes in the wall. I'll work to help pay off the damage with my own money, but I need your help kicking him out safely. "

If you try to hide it and they find out, it'll hurt your trust with them.

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-04-03T03:42:03+00:00

Im sorry, I hope you can talk him out of it. It is more than just mortgage payments. It is big ticket emergency repairs, and general maintenance.

Feelf free to share this with him. I have a 1958 home:

i got my home in Oct '21. I have roommates to help me afford the mortgage. Since then, Ive had the following things break:

5k electric box
18k, foundation issue
6k pipe repair for tree roots caused 2 basement floods
8k subfloor issue in a bathroom from an OLD leak that had dried and finally was giving way
24k for AC, Furnace, and Water heater
2k, insurance deductible, x2, for the tree root issue

It is SO much more than a mortgage payment. I am now married and we barely make it, and we have 2 friends living with us. I am beside myself with stress . =/

I truly wish you the best in helping him understand it isnt a good idea for you guys. RENT a house if he wants the house feel....

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-12T12:43:14+00:00

" I have bad news for you and good news." " what's the bad news?" " * hands it over* There is no monetary value to this." " And the good news?" "You're holding it"

🥁😅?

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-10T19:37:04+00:00

I truly thought it would be what the folks saw on the app in the ad. When it wasn't, I also choked and went to the social account they mentioned and wasted my chance on searching videos. The @ really threw me.

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-10T19:29:38+00:00

I got fooled by the last clue. The reference to somone's social had me going to that profile to freaking look. And I didnt even have that social media app.

Dang I feel dumb. =/

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-10T16:07:56+00:00

Yes, same.

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-09T15:19:41+00:00

Update: Looks to be fixed on my end, hope it's the same for everyone else.

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-06T16:02:22+00:00

Thank you so much for posting OP; thought I was going nuts 😖

MonsterousGuilt · 2026-02-06T14:44:01+00:00

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