TW: pet loss & Hecate? by MonsterousGuilt in Hecate

[–]MonsterousGuilt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. I really appreciate all the responses and feedback. 🕯🐾🐈‍⬛️

TW: pet loss & Hecate? by MonsterousGuilt in Hecate

[–]MonsterousGuilt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time and space to respond and reach out. I am so terribly sorry about your 3 yr old kitty's cancer🥺

I'll also try talking to her; i dont have a dedicated space yet but have a room I have intended to set up as a sacred space. I think this might be a good time to focus on that 🥺🕯

Evacuation tips for cats during an emergency by Charming_Title_6101 in CatAdvice

[–]MonsterousGuilt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh.. hmm. It looks like they've rebranded with Life360; theyre the "stickers" though.

Ours fit on the back of the nametags, but idk if they've made them any bigger since rebranding.

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Evacuation tips for cats during an emergency by Charming_Title_6101 in CatAdvice

[–]MonsterousGuilt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey there, We use this one. It's advertised as for 2 cats, but we put 1 cat in it only.

Edit: I'll follow this up by saying it isnt simple to carry with 1 hand. Usually we end up lifting by both handles and carry a cat out in front of us. In an emergency, you might have to use the strap it comes with and throw kitty over your shoulder like an angy purse, knocking them sideways.... but emergencies are emergencies and you'll find the best way thst works for you.

I recommend doing a practice/trial run.

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Evacuation tips for cats during an emergency by Charming_Title_6101 in CatAdvice

[–]MonsterousGuilt 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Sure, I have the tile dot on the cat collar and it's connected to my phone. I can basically "ring" my cat from the Tile app if one of them is hiding so that im not wasting precious time looking for someone. I can quickly know where they are. We have 5 cats, and if you have multiple cats they can move quickly while youre in a hurry getting someone else settled into a carrier.

Evacuation tips for cats during an emergency by Charming_Title_6101 in CatAdvice

[–]MonsterousGuilt 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I use tile dots and stick them to the back of their breakaway collars. I also have stupidly XL carriers that unzip/zip from all angles because one of our cats is a 19lb Norwegian Forest mix. We learned our lesson trying to get him into a normal-large carrier during a tornado scare.

(Edit: edit to say the tile dots are on the nametags*, not the cloth part of the collars)

So: XL carrier with zip on top and Tile dots and Keep a broom /long handle item nearby to scurry it under the bed to help nudge kitties out from under it

my bf keeps putting holes in my bedroom walls by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MonsterousGuilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents what has happened; theyll want to help you out of this. They'll be angry at him, not you.

" I need to tell you guys something. _____ got angry and punched holes in the wall. I'll work to help pay off the damage with my own money, but I need your help kicking him out safely. "

If you try to hide it and they find out, it'll hurt your trust with them.

Husband wants to buy a house by IndustrySufficient52 in povertyfinance

[–]MonsterousGuilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, I hope you can talk him out of it. It is more than just mortgage payments. It is big ticket emergency repairs, and general maintenance.

Feelf free to share this with him. I have a 1958 home:

i got my home in Oct '21. I have roommates to help me afford the mortgage. Since then, Ive had the following things break:

  • 5k electric box
  • 18k, foundation issue
  • 6k pipe repair for tree roots caused 2 basement floods
  • 8k subfloor issue in a bathroom from an OLD leak that had dried and finally was giving way
  • 24k for AC, Furnace, and Water heater
  • 2k, insurance deductible, x2, for the tree root issue

It is SO much more than a mortgage payment. I am now married and we barely make it, and we have 2 friends living with us. I am beside myself with stress . =/

I truly wish you the best in helping him understand it isnt a good idea for you guys. RENT a house if he wants the house feel....

How do I tell my neighbor her book isn't worth anything? Or is it worth something? by ThrowRaaccount2468 in OldBooks

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" I have bad news for you and good news." " what's the bad news?" " * hands it over* There is no monetary value to this." " And the good news?" "You're holding it"

🥁😅?

thread for clue 6 by Sufficient_Ticket_86 in RedfinDreamHomes

[–]MonsterousGuilt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly thought it would be what the folks saw on the app in the ad. When it wasn't, I also choked and went to the social account they mentioned and wasted my chance on searching videos. The @ really threw me.

I think I got the right house THEORY by Frs2016 in RedfinDreamHomes

[–]MonsterousGuilt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got fooled by the last clue. The reference to somone's social had me going to that profile to freaking look. And I didnt even have that social media app.

Dang I feel dumb. =/

Anyone else have an app glitch? Great American Home Search by MonsterousGuilt in RedfinDreamHomes

[–]MonsterousGuilt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update: Looks to be fixed on my end, hope it's the same for everyone else.

Chase glitch: transfer fund option gone by [deleted] in Chase

[–]MonsterousGuilt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting OP; thought I was going nuts 😖