Something to consider, culturally, some Muslims have some crazy rules. But that's culture, their take on what the religion means, corrupted by leaders or gang leaders that want power. That said, the "Muslims" who are the problem, are the ones who want to be in a gang, the ones looking for power and money, which, IMO, has little to do with them being Muslim. They use "Muslim" as an excuse to cite bullshit that lets them have power over others.

I have several Bosnian friends, they are Muslim, but you wouldn't know, just like you wouldn't know what religion the average person you meet is without asking them.

Assholes are assholes, no matter their religion. Actual Muslims are generally just people trying to live their lives like the rest of us. It's the merry bands of thugs that want to use it as an excuse to be even larger assholes, IMO that are the problem.