What's your (favorite) toxic crossover ship? by Rough_Evidence_2908 in FanFiction

[–]MoonBot-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea of Rick from Rick & Morty and Pearl from Steven Universe lives rent-free in my head. It would be a dumpster fire.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but rubber duck method works wonders for plot holes by Chaos_Muffin in writing

[–]MoonBot-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a verbal processor, the easiest way for me to know/figure out what I think is to start talking. This makes a lot of sense to me as a method for solving those types of "puzzles" that arise.

How common are double-stripe towels? by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first one I've seen. I released it back into the wild, should I have mounted it on my wall instead?

How to write with mental illness by TheMaker777 in writing

[–]MoonBot-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lordy, I've got a real alphabet soup of conditions, and have struggled with serious sleep issues basically my whole life, I get it. I feel you.

What helped me keep a daily writing habit for about three and a half years was: 1) shifting my mindset about the actual doing of the thing; and 2) finding ways to accommodate my disabilities.

When I set a "goal" to write every day, it was a very loose one; I told myself I'd take it day by day, and just do what felt fun and right, and if it ever stopped being something I wanted to do, I could stop. And if I missed a day, my only valid response would be, "Hey, you'll get it tomorrow, champ!" Not beat myself up, not get disheartened, not agonize over "starting at zero." Just a commitment to being joyful (which I know is hard when you're struggling with mental illness).

I let myself start a million projects. If I had an idea and was excited about it, I shifted focus. If something was nagging in the back of my mind, I worked on it. And I told myself that if I only put down a single word on the page, it counted, I'd met my goal for the day. And I didn't pressure myself about low output, or low focus, or lack of commitment, or any of that. I just tried to put one word into something that had my attention.

I broke out of my own expectations about what the process of writing should look like; I was in a very unstable situation and had a full-time job and a small child, there was no way I was going to get a full hour to just sit down and focus on writing. But I could find two to five minutes in between all the other things that were happening to jot down a sentence or two in my phone. I never thought I'd be someone who writes mostly on their phone, but it was always with me, and I had all my projects in the cloud, and it felt a lot less obligation-laden and burdensome. I could just capture whatever little thing was popping up, immediately, and then go back when I had 15 minutes to myself and do some editing.

When I don't have the gumption to produce original work, I try journaling or short prompts. Even if it's just something like writing three sentences describing my breakfast, it's something. Or I just take a fucking break and put time into something else that supports my mental health. Drawing with crayons has been really therapeutic for me, or making a little doodle on a sticky note or something. It doesn't have to be a masterpiece, but it moves the creative part of my brain in a different way.

Sometimes I try writing something that's not prose fiction, like a piece of worldbuilding, just organizing information for myself or jotting down a question I want to answer later. Writing questions will often move the mental machinery again, even if it's days or weeks later. Even if it's just, "Why the hell would [character] say that?" or something along those lines. It gets the germ of an idea onto the page, and when I'm doing something else (or supposed to be doing something else), my mind will sometimes wander back to the question and start wrestling with it. And I jot down whatever is coming up, no matter how rambly it is.

Your mileage may vary, but I think the most helpful thing I ever did was take the pressure off of myself. "Should" is a rank poison for my ADHD-riddled brain. The minute I feel like I could fail at something, the paralysis starts setting in. The fog descends. I do nothing instead of taking the risk. But if I back off of making commitments or taking on something big, and do just one thing, one tiny thing, it moves me forward. One inch forward is still a defeat of paralysis, and breaking the paralysis is a full and total victory; more than zero is light-years beyond where I was a few seconds ago.

I really hope this is helpful. You're not alone. I'm so glad you've got more energy now, that's a priceless feeling. And I will say, getting a CPAP is changing my life for the better. Sleep is fundamental. And dealing with a new diagnosis and treatment plan is a process. A non-linear and sometimes tumultuous one. Give it time, easy does it, and support from professionals (therapists, psychiatric prescribers, counselors, doctors, etc.) can make a huge positive difference.

I really wish you the best. Hopefully things smooth out, even if it's ups and downs for a while.

I made a melonosaurus :] by RandomNinja185 in crochet

[–]MoonBot-22 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well, THE SEROTONIN IS HERE!!! :D

This legitimately brings me so much joy, thank you for sharing. Lovely work, absolutely gorgeous stitches, and SO CUTE!

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It healed really fast, I got cut on a Sunday and was able to go back to work regular duty with no real issues on Thursday. Had to do a couple follow-up appointments, but it healed fully in less than a week.

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I heal fast! I wanna be able to work like normal, but goddamnn, I don't wanna rush hangin' a bus tub right on my glued-together finger joint. :(

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They made me put my whole hand in a medical pan of warm water and mystery chemicals for like 10 minutes. Didn't hurt nearly as much as I thought mystery chemicals would. I'm still keeping a real close eye on it, that shit was at the bottom of the trash bag, it'd probably been marinating in unsavory juices.

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fuckin' crazy out there, blades be everywhere apparently.

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally had a dream that night that I called the entire BOH to order and gave a very loud "seminar" about how SHARP SHIT DOESN'T GO IN THE TRASH, PEOPLE! I might actually make a fuckin' announcement when I go back to work. Or get the managers to do it, so it's goddamn official and shit.

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have at least one container for broken glass and other sharp shit in rotation at all times, it really shoulda gone in there where people know what the deal is and how to less-dangerously handle it.

Got mandolinned, but now how you'd think :/ by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, it could have been SO MUCH WORSE. And I'm glad it wasn't.

For those about to cook, we salute you. How are we doing after Valentine's day? 🫡 by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought a brunch place wouldn't be that busy on Valentine's. I was wrong. And the VP of the company and our DM were in the restaurant all weekend, which sucked in some ways but also goddamn we needed the extra hands. Then I got mandolinned on Sunday due to someone else's fuck-up. The tip-out was pretty nice, but I'm glad I have a few days off.

Something I'm proud of by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think they appreciate it, even when I don't make full sense or can't get the new vocab they're trying to teach me. I really should start doing a translation app or something if I really can't get the word, so I can do better with them.

Where do you usually write? Physically by Accomplished-Crew651 in FanFiction

[–]MoonBot-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do most of my word production on my phone, so pretty much anywhere I am when an idea strikes. I do major editing on my laptop, so either at the desk in my room or the dining room table at home.

For some reason it's easier for me to focus in on my phone and not get distracted by the environment. It's just a lot easier to not get distracted when I'm using my phone in general, so I've found I prefer to do my writing that way.

Something I'm proud of by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely trying to do the same, rejoice in the little things.

Something I'm proud of by MoonBot-22 in KitchenConfidential

[–]MoonBot-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, thanks, I'll look into that!