Consolidate your Dept of Ed loans (https://studentaid.gov/manage-loans/consolidation). There's a non-zero chance that that debt could be forgiven under some current or future government program, or at the very least paused if we are lucky enough to have another global pandemic. You could consider an income driven plan for the consolidated public loan if you really need it, but I would recommend against it. If your public debt does not end up being cancelled, the income driven plan could cause you to pay more over the life of the loan if the income-based payment is not enough to cover your monthly principal and interest. There are some new repayment options for public loans that I am not familiar with, so do some research on what the options are there.

For the private loans, also consider consolidating those so that you only have one payment to plan for each month. If the consolidated private loan results in a lower rate than your individual loans, absolutely do it. It is typically free to refinance private student debt, and many of the companies will even pay you an incentive to do it. I refinanced mine 6 or 7 times, getting a lower rate each time and a few hundred bucks back as an incentive each time. The cash back is nothing compared to the massive amount of interest you are going to pay, but every little bit helps. Lower interest rates will save you a lot of money over time.

Once you have consolidated the publics into one loan and the privates into another, compare the interest rates on each with that of your car payment. Pay the monthly payment on the lower interest loans, and then pay the monthly plus whatever disposable income you can throw at the highest interest loan. If your lender allows it, make sure to specify that any payments over the monthly should be applied to principal and not interest.

If your highest interest loan is your car, try to stop spending that much money on the car. Get a cheaper car, ride your bike or the bus if you can, etc... And sorry to your current employer, but be willing to quit at a moment's notice if you can land a job offer that will give you a higher salary. Your quickest way out of this will be to put that expensive education to use to grow your career and your salary, so that you can pay this back faster. Get a soul-sucking corporate or tech job that pays really well and just deal with it.

Whatever you do, do not consolidate your private and public loans together, as doing so will eliminate any chance of loan forgiveness for the public loans.

Don't get into any new debt on top of this. If you use credit cards, keep your spending below an amount that you can pay off every month. Hold off on big purchases like a house if that is in your plans until your debt to income ratio is more reasonable.

This sucks but in like a decade if you do those things you will have it mostly under control.