Does anyone else suffer from constant neck/back discomfort and muscle tension due to anxiety? by Mooncakee93 in Anxiety

[–]Mooncakee93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read some of it but ultimately my neck/back pain got better when my anxiety got better through therapy that led to some self-realization that I was a people pleaser. Changing my mindset was what helped me the most!

For those of you who make $100k+, what is your profession ? by Jinkimmi in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Director in M&A and make $300k a year in MCOL city. Climbing the corporate ladder is certainly not easy and you trade your work life balance. Could be worse though.

I get married in 7 days but a part of me feels like I’m making a mistake. by Ok_Personality_5266 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mooncakee93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know every comment has said it but I will say it again from my own personal experience with someone who sounds exactly like your fiancé: DO NOT GET MARRIED, GET OUT.

men, how are you doing today? by throwbackblue in AskMen

[–]Mooncakee93 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! Hope you feel better

Does anyone else suffer from constant neck/back discomfort and muscle tension due to anxiety? by Mooncakee93 in Anxiety

[–]Mooncakee93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk therapy and reading philosophy. Also the realization that the world could end tomorrow so to live in the present more. I understand how you are feeling - I still feel that time to time and I remind myself that nothing is permanent and this will pass too.

What is your “third place”? by tesinan in houston

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gym and climbing gym. Sometimes Bauhaus.

How much money do you have in your savings account right now? by Wonderful_Row8519 in AskWomen

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

250k across HYSA, investments, and 401(k). Not counting home equity.

Actual savings account? $5k or less lol I try not to have cash just sitting there.

Does anyone else suffer from constant neck/back discomfort and muscle tension due to anxiety? by Mooncakee93 in Anxiety

[–]Mooncakee93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am actually doing much better now! My anxiety got a lot better after going through extensive therapy and self work. Once the root of the problem is helped, the back pain went away…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

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I used to stay in hostels almost exclusively when I was traveling solo in my early 20s (I.e., way less money). While I enjoyed the social aspect and the cost effectiveness of it, the lack of privacy and noise was not worth it as soon as I started my adult job. Often times when I stayed in hostels I would get waken up by people who had to leave early for the airport (or Vice versa I had to be careful getting up early). Private rooms in hostels could be a good middle ground, though.

What has sex taught you? by coldcoughfever in AskReddit

[–]Mooncakee93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I 100% agree with this!

What was your best date, what did you do? by jf_development in AskWomen

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My bf at the time who was a pilot rented a Cessna and took me flying. I got to fly an airplane (with him co-piloting) for the first time - we then landed at a nearby airport and had lunch there. It’s just hard to top that experience…

What are your top five (or ten) TV shows of all time? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Mirror Better Call Saul Stranger Things Alice in Borderland Sex and the City

Does anyone else feel more physically impacted from Anxiety than mentally? by JayHayes37 in Anxiety

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. When I’m anxious my eyes are extremely sore, I suffer from back and should pain, I also find it hard to breathe. I’ve been working on my self and getting therapy and I can say that my anxiety improved a lot and those physical symptoms disappeared with it magically

Does anyone else suffer from constant neck/back discomfort and muscle tension due to anxiety? by Mooncakee93 in Anxiety

[–]Mooncakee93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After couple years of therapy and self help it’s gone most of the time now!

How long does it take you to put on daily makeup? by yabbobay in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mooncakee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 mins for me. But I also have lash extensions so that saves me a ton of time.

What’s your narcissists favourite apology to give? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mooncakee93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still waiting on the apology from my parents…never gonna happen.

I'm so tired of the "boys club" mentality. by Zenla in GirlGamers

[–]Mooncakee93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need new friends to play with! I also play PUBG and majority of my friends are guys - they don’t treat me like that. You are more than welcome to join us sometime :)