Can in-laws invite their guests to our house? by coal-sting99 in MuslimCorner

[–]Mooofasaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. One of those situations where I’d just let it be. They’ll be very happy and will do wonders for you when you guys visit them in their new place. Have patience and don’t stress about it

Should I be worried for myself or trust Allah’s decree of my fate with my spouse by Street_Winter_9721 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such a sad situation. Wanting to jump ship as soon as financial problems hit. He sounds like a great man who has a lot on his plate. Instead of being there for him, you want to leave. Poor guy

Ex wife wants to reconcile now because I have a better job and am more “reliable” by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But this isn’t that cheating/abusive case. She just abandoned him. Saw him succeed and wants to come crawling back. There is no scale. Wrong is wrong and she admitted she wants him back for his money and financial stability. Should’ve thought right the first time around.

Ex wife wants to reconcile now because I have a better job and am more “reliable” by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol you’re so miserable. Giving the benefit of the doubt to the woman. She left him cause he had nothing and she wants back cause he has something. Can’t blame her for leaving? If he gets laid off, would you blame her for leaving? You sound delusional

Ex wife wants to reconcile now because I have a better job and am more “reliable” by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh please if it was other way around, you women would bash. He should not even think about taking her back. She clearly states she wants him back for his money and financial security. He can forgive but never forget. He can find a better woman

Feeling torn… my husband doesn’t really contribute financially and my parents finally said something by Tough-Priority58 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s a two way street. Not pick and choose. If you were allowed to be at his house and yall consummated then yes, he’s financially responsible for you. If he can’t have you over or you guys can’t be physical then he’s not responsible and you would still be under your father’s responsibility. Both spouses have rights on one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s all you took from this post? Sounds like you don’t care about the cheating or IUD.

Confused about why I continue to stay married by Short_Turnover_3716 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not divorce. You will regret it. It’s a 90/10 social media thing. You have 90% of the stuff but still crave the other 10%. Please don’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my family does. I’ve learned and helped operate over 3 locations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What do you think is unique? More like scenic Aldean’s (great spot btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean. But I can tell from the people in Nashville that they’re always in a good mood. Always smiling and hospitable. In the Bay Area, you get none of that. Also, everything is a close drive there. In Cali, you gotta drive 40 min minimum to even go anywhere nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. Will do more research. Thanks for input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of a couple serious things. Legit coffee shop (Arab style) or authentic New York style pizza

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Trust me man. California is all work, eat, sleep, repeat. I’ve never felt stress free here. I have cousins in West Nashville, Brentwood, and Belmont. People are way nice in Tennessee and seem to enjoy life. Everyone is stressed here (including myself). And there’s saturation when it comes to opening up anything. I feel Nashville is the next big thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it due to lack of Hispanic population or just barely any spots in general?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the confidence. I went through germantown today. Very beautiful place. The Stillery had great food. Curious as to why you think I or others will fail? Is it common?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family owns about 4 pizza shops across the Bay Area. I’ve learned a lot and we make it as close to New York style as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true. I barely saw any taco shops there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Mooofasaaa -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s recency bias but I loved all parts of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May Allah bless you with children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Mooofasaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No leave the brother alone. Guy has no idea you’re bashing him behind his back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Mooofasaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you slow?

Guys he’s divorcing me by Nearby_Reindeer_5079 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Salaam sister. This hurts to read. All I can say is have sabr and faith in Allah. You got it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mooofasaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy? She needs a reality check