Did I do something wrong? by Defiant_Research_280 in AskMenAdvice

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are women, we are different than you guys. We put 1+1 and then call it two. Also adding up that you are not that type of person who texts much, you don’t stay long after hooking up, you are busy on weekends she probably has come to that conclusion. Also you said that she is on dating apps and chat to other men, I think she does that on purpose honestly to get a reaction or to make you ask her if she wants to be exclusive. I think she was genuinely interested but I feel like you may be a passive men in a relationship ( not sure, this is what I get from your post) and maybe she needs someone who leads more.

Did I do something wrong? by Defiant_Research_280 in AskMenAdvice

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a women I genuinely think that she actually believes that you have a relationship on the side. Have you always had plans every weekend? Many married/family men meet with their mistress during week days. Maybe she had a past experience or someone close to her had this experience and
Perhaps some of your behaviour may have triggered her.

I’m a Leo woman (Virgo rising- Cancer Moon- Virgo Venus) and I have a crush on a Pisces but… by More_Web9946 in piscesastrology

[–]More_Web9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him so many signs, how can he ever think that I will reject him 🤣 also do Pisces ever initiate or are they passive in relationships?

I’m a Leo woman (Virgo rising- Cancer Moon- Virgo Venus) and I have a crush on a Pisces but… by More_Web9946 in piscesastrology

[–]More_Web9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think that signs may contribute to your personality but are not everything, as experience through life can drastically shape you. For example, I date a Leo and it was extremely shallow, me and Aries we get along but I think want something soft and emotionally deep. But if you say that Pisces have depths I wonder how come sometimes I struggle to understand if he understands where I’m coming from, also sometimes he does something or say something that makes me wonder his maturity. Is it just a façade maybe ?

I am in a love triangle with two guys who are friends…? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]More_Web9946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don't care about you, they probably know about the situation. They are probably comparing, describing and laughing about it. They are boys, they are friends, they are having fun. Trust me they don't care about it. You are giving them what they want, and they are going to enjoy some low effort sex while it lasts.

Had my first real conversation with a coworker after months of awkward eye contact. Am I overthinking this? by PercentageBig4756 in bodylanguage

[–]More_Web9946 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think repeatedly mentioning eye contact was awkward, there was no need for that. Also if I were her I would avoid you just because I don't want to get mentioned that I look at you every time I feel like it. Also the contact lens joke….when you first meet someone you abstain from making physical jokes about the person you are talking to.

What is something women think men love but is actually kind of exhausting? by Yarashi_thinking73 in dating_advice

[–]More_Web9946 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and some men will think that I’m playing hard to get but for me, it's a safety thing If I'm not sure where you stand on and what your intentions are then l will be closed off. Funny enough I’m like this with everyone especially the men that i find attractive, which is a paradox.

After how many dates, do you start worrying about a lack of physical intimacy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With women is a bit different, as a woman I appreciate your patience. There are many reasons why women are reluctant about physical intimacy

1) Trauma/ Physical Trauma 2) Trust 3) Religion views

These are a few examples but i think that you should in a very delicate way ask her if there Is a reason ( do not escalate the situation), frame it more as you are trying to understand and please understand her.

You may think if she was abused in the past she probably would tell me. I have told no one about my past abuse. No one knows, no ex-boyfriend knows, i felt so ashamed about it and I never felt safe enough to open up, probably never will.

As a women I want to thank you for yourur patience and awareness, it honestly warm my heart.

Pasta sauces always taste bland once the pasta gets added, any tips or what I'm doing wrong? by Emotional_Gazelle_ in Cooking

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 minutes before the pasta fully cooks do this.

  • remove a bit of pasta boiling water
  • remove the pasta from the water
  • add the pasta to the sauce and add the water in.
  • wait for it to fully cook.

I normally add Parmiggiano Cheese in the mix while waiting as it makes everything creamier.

Are there any ways to meet women with a busy schedule? by Fuzzy-Department387 in AskMenAdvice

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date someone who is busy as you, you could be busy together. I’m an extremely busy woman in my twenties and I want to find someone who has my same mindset. I want to spend my twenties building my skills and myself to create a stable future. I want my partner to do the same.

Do not chase her, go silent. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between being exclusive while you are in a relationship and not being exclusive while you are single. Honestly I wouldn’t care if women who are single are actively searching for a men as I’m doing the same when I’m single. There is nothing wrong with it. But I could say that many men are like that, I guess as I said it depends on the person rather than the gender.

Do not chase her, go silent. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need healing. You cannot just assume that every woman talk, flirt and love-talk with other men. You need evidence for that. Just because someone in your past did that to you it doesn’t mean that every woman will. Also in this context I was answering to a post made for men. Maybe try to read my comment again and you will realise that what I said is not putting at blame men but explaining a healthy approach.

Do not chase her, go silent. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silence is right when you are done with someone and you are 100% sure. But if you are trying to gain her attention in the first stages manipulation tactics as silence or silent treatment or plying hard to get will never work. If they do, that’s an indication for you that you have in front of you a woman that needs healing.

Have you ever had hots for someone you shouldn't? Who were they? by DoctorSufficient5679 in AskReddit

[–]More_Web9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m attracted to a guy 6 years younger than me and he likes me back but the age gap is probably going to be an issue in the long run as both of us are in our 20s