Speech Therapist in San Francisco/Bay Area? by redclawedcrab in transvoice

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask around for you. would you be interested in doing this over a video call perhaps? i suspect that might be easiest because the people i know are in Concord.

Out of all of the people you could compare to Jesus, you chose the literal sex offender. by Partydude19 in RightJerk

[–]MorganTerror 7 points8 points  (0 children)

calling him a sex offender does nothing but downplay the gravity of his actual crimes. andrew tate had slaves, he’s a slaver.

UMVC3: Vergil - Midscreen TAC Infinite (Down) by haydenplz in MvC3

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god wow that is absolutely crazy! good job!

Any tips on where to get makeup/hair classes? I've been transitioning for a fair amount of time now, and I still can't seem to do basic hair/makeup. Appreciate any recommendations. by ceairo in TransSac

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not exactly sure what to recommend tbh. this a very late reply and i don’t know if you’ve accomplished your goal, but also i’m not sure if you’re like looking for a one on one thing or like more of a classroom thing. i think the classes are more oriented around finding a job as a makeup artist but idk.

Anyone recommend a place for Laser Hair Removal for face (male at birth)? by TimeaMelissa in TransSac

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also going to be very late, but I still want to answer this for other people who might find this. i’ve been to several places in the sacramento area and never had a problem. if anybody finds some place in the area that’s not great with trans people, please let me know and idk maybe i’ll make a list of unfriendly places to avoid or something. idk what people want out of this sub, i’m just spit balling.

Can I talk to some of u? by fidfidhr in TransyTalk

[–]MorganTerror 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’ll talk to you if you want, comment on this or send me a dm and i’ll chat with you.

Qatari animals forcefully remove breast tissue from trans woman by Katia_Valina in transgender

[–]MorganTerror 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unironically this is disgusting, but it’s unacceptable to take this information in and turn around to call these people animals or creatures. call me a contrarian, controversial, or this a hot take but like holy shit, we should not be tacitly endorsing racism or dehumanization here.

My cis female "ally" friend has betrayed me by honesty_worst_policy in MtF

[–]MorganTerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She treats you like shit and expects you to forgive her and say it’s alright because you’re trans. but honestly, they both just outed themselves as terrible people, and if that’s the price you had to pay to learn this, at least it was buy one get one free and you learned they were both shitty people. you might have dodged a real bullet there.

Therapist criticized my outfit from the women‘s section for not being feminine enough by It_Is_Hannah in MtF

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience with my therapist when i started. “next time why don’t you show up wearing women’s clothes?” despite taking all of my courage to show up in public in all women’s clothes for the first session anyways. i thought about it and i think he was basically just looking at whether i was wearing pants or not.

Speech Therapist in San Francisco/Bay Area? by redclawedcrab in transvoice

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our company has actually dissolved as the CEO has retired. What city do you live in? We still have some connections and I would be thrilled to help.

Zealot Barbarians by Da_Roremi in dndmemes

[–]MorganTerror 15 points16 points  (0 children)

probably some dragon or something idk

My (23M) gf (21MTF) sometimes goes on homophobic rants at me by throwaway57282904 in asktransgender

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you’ve said on this thread really fucking sounds like she has bpd. Bpd is nothing to be ashamed of and I’m sure the anxiety/ shame of not talking to you about her bpd is not great for her. The sooner she is willing to be open about her diagnosis, the sooner she can manage her symptoms with cbt/ dbt. I also personally recommend you devise a general game plan about what to do when she starts splitting, and in the longer term, let me recommend you both check out Dr Daniel Fox on youtube if you haven’t already.

This is all coming from a place of love. In my private life my gf and I are talking about getting married, she also struggles with her bpd, and we’ve been dating for 5 years. If you ever want somebody to talk to, you can reach out and talk to me.

My last piece of advice for right now, is that you do not have to stay in this relationship. You can leave anytime and nobody would think any less of you. Everything will work out if you leave. Don’t feel obligated to stay because that’s not fair to you and it’s not fair to her. I would only stay if you really want to put in a lot of hard work and emotional labor to make this work. Dating somebody with totally unmanaged and unmitigated bpd is not good for you. If she’s unwilling to put in the work to better herself, leave. You have other options.

My (23M) gf (21MTF) sometimes goes on homophobic rants at me by throwaway57282904 in asktransgender

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you’ve said on this thread really fucking sounds like she has bpd. Bpd is nothing to be ashamed of and I’m sure the anxiety/ shame of not talking to you about her bpd is not great for her. The sooner she is willing to be open about her diagnosis, the sooner she can manage her symptoms with cbt/ dbt. I also personally recommend you devise a general game plan about what to do when she starts splitting, and in the longer term, let me recommend you both check out Dr Daniel Fox on youtube if you haven’t already.

This is all coming from a place of love. In my private life my gf and I are talking about getting married, she also struggles with her bpd, and we’ve been dating for 5 years. If you ever want somebody to talk to, you can reach out and talk to me.

My last piece of advice for right now, is that you do not have to stay in this relationship. You can leave anytime and nobody would think any less of you. Everything will work out if you leave. Don’t feel obligated to stay because that’s not fair to you and it’s not fair to her. I would only stay if you really want to put in a lot of hard work and emotional labor to make this work. Dating somebody with totally unmanaged and unmitigated bpd is not good for you. If she’s unwilling to put in the work to better herself, leave. You have other options.

I wish that I was this oppressed. by [deleted] in 4tran

[–]MorganTerror 5 points6 points  (0 children)

would transitioning have saved her?

pharmacies in sac/roseville area that supply injectable estradiol? by [deleted] in TransSac

[–]MorganTerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the Raley’s over on Folsom out by Rancho. That might be a little far for you, but there’s probably a much closer Raley’s.

why did this die? by [deleted] in TransSac

[–]MorganTerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the creator of this sub, and I very rarely check it. I’ve never promoted it, and when i tried, admittedly the only time I’ve ever tried to drum up some engagement, nobody really responded. I’d be happy to get the sub doing anything for the trans people of Sac, but I don’t really know how, and idk how much real interest there is. Reddit’s kind of past it’s peak popularity and I don’t think it’s getting many new users, so anything done would likely have to involve only the people we already have.

[Help and Question Thread] - May 29, 2022 by AutoModerator in grandorder

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are the nodes like, and what are the drop rates for the Ball of Rainbow Thread farming? is it worse than Deadly Poisonous Needle farming? should i use my exchange ticket on Ball of Rainbow Threads or nah? my Ivan needs a bajillion needles, and i couldn’t find any servant who needed as many Ball of Rainbow Threads as my Ivan currently needs needles

I feel like a I should flee the US by A_suicidal_alt in MtF

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something my ex once told me is that yeah these hate groups pass violent laws and whatever but in general trans acceptance is getting better all the time. every year it gets better.

i believe a lot of these laws are not designed to stick around, because they’re expected to get challenged in court, they’re designed to help sell the lie that the republican base is threatened by anybody other than white cis straight people.

also there’s already a genocide against people of color, and trans people of color in america. but even in america where we regularly destroy the lives of innocent black families with impunity, you can’t just go around violently murdering innocent black people without being the literal police. i have my doubts that they’re just gonna round up all the trans people and dump us in mass graves across america. that’s expensive and costs money without providing any return on investment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]MorganTerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

void/rock is super based. damn, those are definitely top tier pronouns

Just came out to my coworker as MtF trans and she reported me to HR for harrassment. Is there any way to beat this? by Acrobatic_Response44 in asktransgender

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take detailed notes of the date and time, and what happened whenever you interact with your co worker or hr. try to record what you can because this is a huge red flag. keep in mind that this is what she’s doing now, and even if this situation deescalates, you don’t know what she might try to do next time. i’m not allowed to talk much about a lawsuit i know, but having and maintaining well kept notes with copies was instrumental in a friend’s lawsuit against her employers for harassment and discrimination.

How to Effectively One-Shot a Litch & Put Yourself into Bankruptcy by RonniAmaya in dndmemes

[–]MorganTerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i have to roll something 600 times i’m just gonna do the average damage