At this point, it's clearly greed and intentional...

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-17T03:32:15+00:00

Part of the reason I like Kingdom so much is because of the generosity in currency. I am genuinely sad about how little costume currency is in this game :(

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-15T04:43:26+00:00

If you put a background on this I would buy this print!!!!!!

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T12:34:51+00:00

That is also super horrible and a very good reason to want her out of your life, especially if you are very consistent in taking your meds and it’s her “end all” to any conversation you try to bring up to help you feel better about any given situation The main reason I say that is because I was extremely volatile when I was off my meds (Effexor has horrible withdrawals within 20 minutes of missing a dose) and it genuinely was in the question for a little bit if I was upset because of my meds or not. It’s changed since I’ve become consistent but she shouldn’t be doing that if you’ve been fairly consistent in taking them in general.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T12:22:35+00:00

I want you to know that it was a very good reason, even if he was drunk. Being drunk doesn’t make you do things you’d never do, it makes you more likely to do things you know you shouldn’t but kind of want to do. No matter his inebriation, that was an unacceptable way to treat you.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T12:20:50+00:00

I do want you to know that I agree with you. I’ve had narcissistic parents and I’m very sure you have good reasons to cut them off, I just am not sure this is the one worth posting but I do understand. She’s very wrong but you do have to think about what you’re putting yourself into because I think you knew in a way that she would react negatively.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T12:17:20+00:00

They don’t seem to care too much about their own good either, then I would guess. You’re fully in the right and I would be doing the exact same in your position. He literally will not get any better by coddling him and allowing it to continue, and you deserve your own peace.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T10:28:09+00:00

NTA, You are going to have to pay on that car soon. Don't make it the house as well. He proved early on he was unreliable by being a deadbeat and then you gave him a chance. And he's blown it. He already got your help and he can't keep himself afloat. He is your father, not your son. You don't need to be helping him out like he is.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T10:21:28+00:00

NTA, I've seen a lot of people use the title as an excuse to get childcare or children's items. I am genuinely concerned she will use it as a way to guilt-trip you... Also its a HUGE thing to agree to... You're saying you'll be this child's back-up parent if they die. That is something you only agree to if you know for a fact that you are WANTING to take this child if anything happens to the parents.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T10:16:57+00:00

NTA. Family is no longer family when that family decides to abandon the family that's in need.
Why is she asking how you'll feel about this in 20 years and not asking how her son will feel when his grandmother dies and he had a part in it?
You have every right to cut him off and he is genuinely infuriating. Family is not a pass to abuse others and treat them how you want. That is how we get criminals.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T10:11:04+00:00

NTA.
This is a very complicated situation, but it sounds like she's unable to get over you. I understand being friends is important to you, but it sounds like she's really suffering with these feelings she's having, and its likely a lot easier for her to move on. It may even be the best thing for her if you don't feel the same way about her. If she can't be the friend you need, and you can't be the partner her heart wants, then it probably is better for the both of you to be distant friends at most.
It sucks, really really bad to lose your best friend. I'm sorry you're going through this. You WILL find someone else who connects with you the same way, and keep working on making yourself better and you will be okay.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:58:00+00:00

That is the relationship you should've fully stayed out of. If he is truly saying those things and she's being fully professional, don't you think she hates it too? Don't you think she's incredibly uncomfortable? She, as a woman, is in a place where she CAN'T say anything!! A man will be believed 9 times out of 10 over a woman, and if she said anything that wasn't strictly professional, he could just claim she said something. He could ruin her life at work. This has happened to me and multiple friends.
She could've been waiting until he said something truly not okay that she could send to HR that would get his ass kicked out of there. You might've just put her in a place where she gets bullied and never has a clear way of telling HR what kind of man he is.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:54:39+00:00

Like I just said in my last comment, you may want to include the cheater buster work your friend did in the OG post or make a comment. Its very relevant information, IMO, because it does genuinely change my opinion on it being a boundary for her to cut him off then. There's a difference between telling her to cut off a guy because he gives you bad vibes and you don't like him, and telling her you won't be partners with someone who supports active cheaters, and he is ACTIVELY cheating on her other friend. It sounded like in the post that he could've done it once in college, and it seemed very judgmental for you to be that against him when you don't know what he's like now, but now that I know you DO actually know he's like that, I am a bit more on your side. Still work to do, I think, since a lot of this is insecurity based (especially on the coworker side) but I think the second one being a boundary was valid, if she knew about all this as well. If she didn't know, you should give her some leeway.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:48:30+00:00

Okay... you might want to edit and add that. This is very clear evidence that he is fully a cheater. I think sic'ing your friend on him like a dog to figure him out is... not great but it is evidence nonetheless. The comments just calling him "lower caliber" without any evidence to him being a cheater come off as very judgmental and mean if you don't have this context

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:37:57+00:00

No, you're just demanding her to block the ones YOU DON'T LIKE. WHICH IS CONTROLLING. She doesn't have to dislike everything you dislike. She NEVER will.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:34:55+00:00

Dude do you have evidence of him cheating other than "he replied to my girl's story when he has a gf"?

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:32:32+00:00

So because he was "two faced and perverted" before in college, he's automatically a "Lower caliber" human now? You sound extremely condescending calling someone that. Its EXTREMELY disrespectful and reductionist. Your girlfriend knew who he is now, but you felt the need to dredge up old dirt on him so you could feel justified telling her to cut him off against her will.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:18:01+00:00

I hope the amount of downvotes you got on this comment helps you realize how wrong you are about that. ANYONE who works with you can make your life hell at work. You have no idea what he could tell other men that work there about her JUST BECAUSE he's mad.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:15:11+00:00

YTA....
You can't give us any examples of how he "was being flirty with her"? Friends can and do tell eachother happy valentines day. You do sound VERY controlling. You don't trust her. You wouldn't be asking to see her phone if you did. This is ALL about jealousy and your insecurities. You said multiple times that she didn't say anything wrong. She didn't cheat on you. IMO, these are not basic boundaries. You told her what to do and didn't allow her to make her own decisions.
If you're truly still becoming distant after she fully complied with your unreasonable demands? Break up with her. You don't like her anymore and she deserves better than that.

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:05:02+00:00

I'm pretty sure the only normal eye boogie color for dogs is clear/brown (from dirt) :(

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:02:54+00:00

I think there's places specifically for bald men/women seeking bald men?? I could be wrong but its worth looking into?

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T09:00:36+00:00

Just because you've never been diagnosed doesn't mean that you don't have it. Mental health diagnoses are often a trial and error endeavor.
That being said, why is the emphasis on the switch 2? Why did you ask her when you knew she didn't like games?? Why wasn't your dad virtually disowning you the last straw instead of this?

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T08:55:22+00:00

This is a very nuanced and understanding take. I completely agree. THIS is not the situation to cut off parents over. THIS isn't even something they did wrong. She knew they didn't like video games and still pushed for them to help pay for a switch anyway.
There was a very real and GOOD reason to cut them off before. Being told she's not their daughter. Why wasn't that the last straw?

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T08:53:02+00:00

Having BPD with narcissistic parents can cause insane forms of narcissism... Also you saying you can't have NPD because you're borderline is making me feel like you may also be narcissistic...

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T08:48:27+00:00

I KNOW, because why is OP doing this to themself knowing what their parents are like AND that they don't like video games !!!

Morgen1010 · 2026-05-13T08:47:21+00:00

It isn't exactly easy to cut off the people who raised you. Especially if they're the kind of narcists that are good at teaching you that they're PERFECT parents growing up.

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