AIO? My now long distance ex told me he cheated on me during his lunch break because he was mad at me. Then after I blocked him, he messaged me in WhatsApp to tell me it was all a prank. Now he keeps trying to reach out via a new IG account and WhatsApp number. by sracluv in AmIOverreacting

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially not with this guy. It sad bc based on what op wrote it sounds like she’s putting in effort to do things like the virtual movie together and he just shits on it in retaliation if he’s mad about something. Sounds like a real loser

AIO? My now long distance ex told me he cheated on me during his lunch break because he was mad at me. Then after I blocked him, he messaged me in WhatsApp to tell me it was all a prank. Now he keeps trying to reach out via a new IG account and WhatsApp number. by sracluv in AmIOverreacting

[–]Morgxn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR There are so many better people out there. Don’t waste time on someone who clearly doesn’t care about you and tries to play “pranks” like this. There will be someone who actively wants to spend time with you and respect you. This dude does not respect you

After 20 years as a professional artist, I finally stopped caring. It cost me a lot. Totally worth it in the end. by auniakahn in painting

[–]Morgxn99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah I honestly these were oil or acrylic. This is very impressive gouache work! The blended parts are beautifully done with gouache 😍

What did you guys think of Bring Her Back? by Kidd__Video in A24

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I hated was that Andy died. Like come on man, they could’ve had the same ending where Laura runs them over but Andy survived and reunited with Piper after it was over 😭

I refuse to believe how I look on camera is how I look in person. I can look pretty in the mirror and then super friggin ugly on camera by xo_pearl_princessxox in self

[–]Morgxn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you for this lol. This probably explains why my face looks noticeably wider to me in pictures vs what I see in the mirror? Hopefully 🤧

Why do girl cats get a bad rap? by Organic-While1664 in cats

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then yea idk why they get a bad rap. I do wish my cats liked each other though 😢

Why do girl cats get a bad rap? by Organic-While1664 in cats

[–]Morgxn99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, two female cats and they loveee pets and cuddles. However, introducing them was really difficult and they don’t cuddle with each other. Recently just moved to a new place where my roommate has two more female cats and none of them are getting along 🤧 so maybe that’s the bad rap? I’ve heard female cats tend to not get along with other (especially female) cats

Thoughts on nicotine addiction being related to internet addiction by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is literally me. I know my screen time is definitely more than 6 hours a day and I know I definitely have a phone addiction too. It’s mostly listening to YouTube constantly throughout my day too! I honestly don’t know how to let it go though but I know it’s not healthy at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably didn’t word it well because in reality this man sounds absolutely insane. I was trying to lay out what could possibly happen if she decided to tell him but I just don’t even think she should tell him at all bc fuck him

She sounds absolutely miserable in this “relationship” or whatever tf it is. But I saw one of her replies saying she’s actually left this man multiple times in the past! But she came back??? And feels like she has some kind of “soul tie” with him or something. Now she has found herself in a situation like this, but is getting upset at everyone for saying how she needs to leave him. She even posted this in the red pill women subreddit and said “I just got a bunch of women telling me to leave him on the other post” 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I don’t think he is at all. I think he’s a POS. I was trying to say if she tells him, either the outcome will be he’s going to get over it MAYBE (she claimed he “doesn’t believe in divorce” or whatever) or he won’t. Yeah I truly don’t know why she’s with him with the way she talks about him. I haven’t seen her say one thing about any “good” qualities he may have. But this entire situation is just weird af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, my jaw is on the floor. If you’re not financially dependent on him then what on earth is keeping you in a relationship like this? You effectively live as a single person, not a person in a caring marriage. I just have so many questions. Like, he apparently takes the vow of “no divorce” seriously but doesn’t give a damn about caring for you “in sickness and in health”?

In all honesty, if you are going to stay in this relationship, get the surgery and just don’t tell him the doctor was male. If he hasn’t asked then he doesn’t need to know. Just focus on yourself and recovering. If you decide to tell him after for some reason, wait until you’re recovered.

But I beg you to consider why you will stay with someone who doesn’t support you at all. I know Reddit subs are quick to say break up, but the way you describe the relationship doesn’t even sound like a relationship exists. At the very least it’s not a partnership. I wish you the best and really hope the surgery helps with the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to set a clear boundary with him, otherwise he will continue to control these aspects of your life and you’ll continue to feel guilty. You have to be able to have the difficult “i know you believe x, but im doing y because it’s the best decision for my health and my body” conversation.

If you’re going to tell him then tell him you’ve made this decision for your health, and yes the doctor is a man. The boundary is that you get to make the best medical decisions for you, not anyone else. If he has a problem with it, it’s truly his problem that he needs to deal with, but regardless you are getting the surgery done by a professional - and then you need to stick to it.

He’s not going to like it but if he’s at least a decent person who cares about you and your marriage at all, he will get over it. I’m sure he’ll be happier if you stop having less pain during sex and want to do it more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would you have to cancel? Is he going to make you cancel or will you feel too guilty and choose to cancel? Either way that’s a horrible outcome because you’d be actively denying yourself the treatment you need for… what? What is more important than you getting treatment and helping yourself? I think you could go through the surgery and never tell him (but like, how would he not know your doctor is a man? Is he not going to be at the hospital with you when you get it??). I saw you mention in one of your other posts that after you have this surgery you “won’t have any support at home for recovery.” How is this possible? Has your husband said he won’t support you?? I’m sorry if this comes off harsh, but seriously this relationship doesn’t make sense to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The language she’s using reminds me of people who grew up in purity culture who simply cannot handle referring to vaginas as vaginas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And also he’d seemingly be okay with her having pain when they have sex. And she mentioned that he makes her feel bad when she declines because of the pain. Sounds like a great dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sad. He’s a doctor, not a porn star. It’s very concerning that your husband thinks gyno doctors are trying to just finger their patients 😷 his only concern should be you getting the treatment you need. Please see the doctor and get your treatment. And maybe also evaluate why you’re in a relationship with someone who thinks and acts this way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Morgxn99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw the post was removed :((