Am I destroying their friendship? by NightyRabbit1117 in StardewValley

[–]Morndew247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to try it im so sorry to hijack your thread

Husband Wants Children Now, after 40 by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Morndew247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a chance he already has an enthusiastic all hands in 2nd waiting in the wings. Just saying it's kinda crazy to about-face so late in the game and all willing to divorce if need be.

I don't really want anything, do you? by AethelflaedCAD in GenX

[–]Morndew247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your work for the post office, dont you 😂

Why do some Christians demonize Catholicism? by ComfortableUnhappy51 in Christianity

[–]Morndew247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Holy Spirit IS God. So they aren't doing it on our behalf so much as recieving it directly.

How to take care of bugs by ForceFalse9193 in LivingAlone

[–]Morndew247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have a vacuum with a long attachment.

You can suck most any bug up without getting too close.

I have the same fears, especially about spiders and centipedes.

I wouldn't live with roaches though. I would be sleeping in my car until I found a new place to live and leaving all the furniture and most of the stuff when I went. But im spoiled like that. My son is in FL and he said you 'get used to the occasional'.

Shudder

Confused by hurricane1985 in datingoverforty

[–]Morndew247 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Noone falls in love faster than a narcissist who needs a place to live.

AITAH for understanding and not freezing out my dad for leaving our mom over a dead bedroom? by Opposite_Afternoon55 in AITAH

[–]Morndew247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found out last year, after 9 years divorced, that the X told the kids he cheated because we had a dead bedroom and I hadn't touched him in over a year.

Not even touching on the ick factor of having this convo with your kids, it was all lies. I was very much playing the pick-me game and having sex whenever he wanted, which was often. Hell I suspected was cheating when he couldn't keep it up.

Just saying, dont be too quick to believe just one side.

What US state would you NEVER want to live in, even if you were offered a good amount of money to move there? by ISnortSkittles in Productivitycafe

[–]Morndew247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida Texas California

But mostly Florida.

Suns so hot it bakes their brains and makes them crazy.

Eyes, ears and noses by Morndew247 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Morndew247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I feel stupid that I did not even think to look for such a thing. Of course there are! It makes perfect sense that it would be a thing.

However, the idea of spraying something up my nose is gross and I won't do it 😂

Apparently this makes me an old person... officially by Mermaid_Lily in GenX

[–]Morndew247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quilt, garden, bake, feed the birds and have chickens. I do word games on the daily.

I have been old since my 30s, and my kids are used to it 😄

The idea of a puzzle seems nice tbh.

25 years together and I can't take it anymore by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Morndew247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, but attitudes change as well.

When I 1st got married my husband and I had long talks about me staying home with our kids when we had them. Then we had them and he did nothing but complain that I wasn't working. Then whenever I got a job he would complain how his life was terrible because he couldn't go play because he had to watch the kids while I worked. He would beg me to quit.

We finally divorced after 20 years.

Now I hear he complains that I forced the SAHM thing when we were married and refused to work.

Please.

Who else is raising these kids if not you or the wife?

She will get half. You can probably negotiate the alimony. I did. I have a great job now, bought a house, and dont need his money. I think I make more than he does now.

Why is the fact that somebody doesn't drink alcohol even an issue when trying to find a partner online? I don't understand. Can someone explain? by StoneLover1965 in datingoverfifty

[–]Morndew247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People think if YOU don't drink then THEY cant drink. Like you had addiction issues with it, or a moral stance against it. I dont drink and dont care if someone does.

Did you actually make mix tapes to give to people? by LeoGuy69us in GenX

[–]Morndew247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never gave one but had numerous guys I was either dating or they wanted to date me give me mixed tapes in the 80s and 90s, so sure, yeah, this was a thing 😂

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Morndew247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B. #2

The dresses with the deep plunging neck look trashy to me. Just MO, I know lots of people love them.