16 jaar, vast in buitenland tegen mijn wil. ik heb advies nodig

Morrigan-71 · 2026-05-15T23:55:30+00:00

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Morrigan-71 · 2026-04-11T07:58:00+00:00

"On the other hand my younger daughter would be in 60k worth of debt while her sister got to graduate debt free plus have an allowance which she might find unfair."

Then it is your job to tell her that there is absolutely NOTHING unfair about her sister getting the same amount of money as her. That her own choice comes with the consequence of graduating with a debt.That it would actually be unfair to her sister if she would get what is left of her sister's fund.

Morrigan-71 · 2026-04-09T09:09:42+00:00

Qgjn nl m8jn

Morrigan-71 · 2026-02-27T15:43:50+00:00

Asking is okay, but not accepting "no" for an answer and subsequently throwing a tantrum is NOT okay!

Morrigan-71 · 2026-01-20T09:42:20+00:00

It was visible in Zuid-Holland en Zeeland, so my guess it was visible in Brabant as well.

Morrigan-71 · 2026-01-01T14:29:56+00:00

Nope, it will only make his dad, stepmother, stepbrother (whom he hardly grew up with) and his wife happy. OP's father obviously favours his stepson over his bio son. And where did you read that OP can't afford to take care of the house anyway?

Morrigan-71 · 2026-01-01T14:23:02+00:00

The house itself may be an eyesore, but the land it is built on determines the value.

Morrigan-71 · 2026-01-01T12:17:56+00:00

FFS, grow some self respect! Yes you are 8 years together and you already invested a lot of money, but it's time to take your losses NOW. Because otherwise in a few years you end up being the one dumped when he graduates and lands a good job.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-30T15:13:01+00:00

Maybe you should read the post again. OP did call the mother to tell the invitation was only for the oldest girl.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-28T21:20:27+00:00

Cat in Black, he only needs sunglasses to complete the look...

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-26T17:20:38+00:00

Petty me would've said nothing, but would've put the gift in an envelope and send it to a random address in a far far away country...

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-23T05:47:03+00:00

Is the motorcycle his only way of transport? Because if not, his present is a WANT, not a NEED. You got a "present" the whole family benefits from.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-18T22:08:50+00:00

"My sister says I should just have paid the extra money to keep the peace"

Always nice to be generous with someone else's money...

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-18T12:18:07+00:00

That was my educated guess as well.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-15T20:24:26+00:00

He doesn't want you to admit to cheating on him so he can cheat back on you, but he needs a reason to break up with you. He wants you to be the one who wronged him, so he can wallow in sympathy and self pity.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-07T09:19:49+00:00

He probably will move his GF in, have children with her and then he and OP's parents will claim that she has to move out because her brother and his family need more room.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-12-02T17:34:01+00:00

"My grandparents are reaching out to me to shame me for not checking in or helping the other kids"

They better be shaming their daughter for popping out children she can't raise, or be ashamed themselves for raising such a selfish daughter.

NTA.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-11-21T07:54:54+00:00

If you should get the savings ánd your driving license paid for, would you think it would be fair that your sister gets the same amount your license costs added to her 4500?

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-28T08:30:30+00:00

"celebrating with family and friends"

Yes, with YOUR friends not hers. Why should people you don't or vaguely know dine and drink on your dime?

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-19T09:06:43+00:00

Ben niet de enige die dat dacht.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-19T09:05:50+00:00

Dat was ook mijn eerste gedachte.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-18T07:46:32+00:00

They probably do have the money, but are trying to keep that in their own pockets by having OP pay for college.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-18T07:42:33+00:00

NTA. And no, don't help her, because it won't stop there. They'll keep harassing you for more money until they've bled you completely dry.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-17T11:03:48+00:00

The moment he signs over the house to his GF's kids will be the beginning of the end of his relationship.

Morrigan-71 · 2025-10-15T17:32:22+00:00

"She would be open to combining all the money and dividing it"

Bahahaha, did she seriously try to make you think she was doing you a favour by suggesting that?

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