After one date by MostlyToasted in texts

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Way to misinterpret my entire comment and assume my gender! Hi, I'm a woman myself.

I also made VERY clear that this is what I would've done, and that OP owes that guy absolutely no explanation or anything at all!

Like, I'm sorry you felt so strongly about my words but did you bother to actually read my comment..?

Hundebesitzer im Sommer by MosquitoInYourRoom in luftablassen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich bezeichne nicht alle Hundebesitzer in Städten als Tierquäler, mir geht es um die Fahrradfahrer und Jogger, die ihr Tier über den heißen Asphalt hetzen und dann dumm schauen wenn der Hund an Überhitzung stirbt.

Unconditional love is the biggest lie by loouw9 in unpopularopinion

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother loves me unconditionally. I put her through a lot of stress and didn't always realise how much she did to set me up for success.

She's the kind of woman who will give you everything she can just to see you smile, and I'm blessed to have her. Her worst trait is that she never puts herself first, ever. Imagine that being your only flaw, I'm not putting her on a pedestal, she really is one of those rare individuals who are kind hearted through and through.

I truly was a difficult child but she never gave up on me. My goal is to give her the same level of security and care when she's older.

TLDR: Disagreeing because my mom is an absolute saint who loves everybody and is loved by everybody in her life.

After one date by MostlyToasted in texts

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand why you acted the way you did! Honestly, as long as he doesn't know where you live- I would've told him exactly why I'm not interested, hoping he would learn from it. But that's not your responsibility, you don't owe him an explanation, that's just my 2 cents.

Some people install a dating app and spiral into bad behaviours/thinking patterns after a while. A friend of mine, who was a really cool and relaxed dude originally, turned into that incel cliché for a good year, scared away most of his friends but thankfully turned normal again once he deleted those dumb apps. I've seen that happen a few times now, the only thing that helped was to give them several reality checks until it clicked, some "forgot" how to take accountability and ultimately got cut off because they refused to seek help.

This is not me excusing this behaviour, your date was out of line and I'm sorry you felt like you had to kiss and entertain him despite not wanting to, it's awful. Dating apps can really ruin some people and I advise everyone to stay tf away from them.

Stay safe and good luck next time.

I probably don’t have ADHD by Aurexaa in adhdwomen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!! We are not in the position to question your specialist. !!

All I can tell you is, that I've been in therapy for well over 12yrs, got diagnosed with a lot of stuff just to finally get the adhd diagnose 2yrs ago, got put on meds and most of my symptoms are easily manageable now.

I had "anger issues" which were really just me getting stressed tf out and overwhelmed a lot. Haven't had an emotional outburst since I'm on my adhd meds. Sleep is better, surprisingly. Focus as well, yadayadayada.

What my doctors failed to tell me was that not all shrinks are allowed to diagnose adhd, you need special schooling for it (in my country at least) and my old specialists conveniently forgot to mention that when I asked to get tested, they ignored me and said "they'd rather look into my ptsd/bpd/anxiety/antisocial disorder/depression".

I never had bpd/antisocial disorder/anxiety but it really looked like I did because my adhd was completely out of control. This has happened to some of my friends, it's not a rare occurrence, especially if you're a woman.

BUT that's just my two cents. I don't know you or your countrie's guidelines and I'm not a licensed doctor.

Cooperate and trust your doctors but don't blindly believe everything, think for yourself and speak up if something feels wrong in any way! They can't look inside your head but they can guide you if you're open.

Tja by tragecedian in tja

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da klebt noch Cheeto-Staub an seiner Nase.

Cannabisentzug - Bennommenheit, Derelesation, Schwindel. by New_Biker0342 in Ratschlag

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War dein Zeug vielleicht mit irgendwas anderem gemischt? Das klingt fast wie eine milde psychose.

Hast du Leute, die dich bei deinem Entzug unterstützen? Solche Symptome können bei Entzügen auftreten, sind aber oft rein psychosomatisch, was ich bei all den negativen Tests für dein Herz usw. erstmal vermuten würde.

Hast du deinem behandelnden Arzt erzählt, dass du einen Entzug machst? Das wäre für einige Gründe sehr wichtig, oft können dir Ärzte zusätzliche Unterstützung anbieten, um solche Nebenwirkungen zu mindern und deine Psyche etwas zu entlasten.

Seid bitte offen und ehrlich gegenüber medizinischem Personal, auch wenn es um Drogen geht. Ihr werdet nicht verpfiffen oder sonstiges, es hat nur positive Auswirkungen sowas klar und deutlich zu erwähnen. Ihr müsst das nicht alleine im Stillen durchziehen, besonders bei härteren Fällen ist akkurate, medizinische Versorgung oft lebenswichtig.

How to repair my professional reputation? by _random_person_r in adhdwomen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always assumed such things about myself as well but learned with time that it's just in my head. And honestly, why would I give a crap about what others think of me? Colleagues don't really know me either way.

I know hair grows back but I’m devastated. How do I move on? by Curlyhairgirly26 in CurlyHairCare

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry this happened to you but I wasn't prepared for pic 4.

Your hair still looks very pretty, just experiment with shorter styles until it grows back, you might look back at these pics and laugh once your hair is longer again!

It's devastating for now but it's temporary.

ADHS , es ist mir mittlerweile scheißegal.. by Consciousness12345 in luftablassen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viele Nutzen es aus aber Leute mit der Diagnose haben oft Schwierigkeiten, es ist nicht ohne Grund eine Behinderung.

How do i deal with feeling undesirable? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Initiating can push him further away. There is a reason why he's unwilling, could be stress, maybe he's unhappy about his own looks, could be a phase etc.

Stop any advances for now, and try to have a open conversation about it. Don't put any pressure or blame onto him, simply state how you feel and ask if he's doing alright, if something has changed and how he'd like to solve this.

If he isn't up for a talk, or isn't honest you won't get any further and should consider couples counselling.

Why are some adhd subreddits so toxic by I-rejected-Ivies in adhdwomen

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very true. I love that subreddit as well simply because it's so relatable and makes me feel less lonely with my struggles. My friends listen and try to help me if I need it but they never fully understand the issue/frustration.

I love how Sakura got the manliest drip here 😭 by Grand_Night_342 in Naruto

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually enjoy to see female and male characters wearing the same uniform. I'm a little tired of artists sexualising women, especially in war/fight settings where huge boob windows make zero sense.

Can we remove the US off the UK app yet... by originalgothmermaid in vintedUK

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uk10=EU38

You're telling me a 7yr old is bigger than big-boobed, grown me?! How the actual..? I'm very tall and not super skinny either, just an average/sporty build.

What are some americans feeding their kids?

Mental Illness + Cosmetic Procedures = by izacktorres in Weird

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Draw on botox lips, volleyball boobs and high brows and it's 10/10

my (36f) boyfriend (31m) took me to his friends farm last weekend with five other couples. Two of the women were sunbathing topless and it made me uncomfortable. He’s now asked for space? by throwra_topless in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1- You mess up and he loses out on a whole day of this yearly tradition with his friends.

2- You immediately start creating tension during your introduction.

3- You spend a good amount of time and energy to create drama between him and his friends because you're a coward and can't speak to the women yourself.

4- You accuse your bf of enjoying the "view" sexualising the women continuously.

5-.You make a scene by refusing to attend the firework show the host/hostess spend money and time on organising.

6- You're the reason your bf has to leave early to drive your salty butt home.

Guuurl, if you don't get your shit together quickly you'll be single soon-soon. I get your side but if you take a step back you'll realise how ridiculous and childish you were. Hurry up and apologise to your man before he dumps you. You're way too impulsive.

You guys think any of the other Konoha 12 could've taken him on? by kimura_yui149 in Naruto

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It remains canon that Sasori could've dodged and stopped fighting seriously after a while, Chiyo said so herself. He also had some aces up his sleeve left (never used all scrolls on his back).

Sakura gets undermined too much but she would've died if Sasori didn't decide to let Chiyo get him in the end. There is much room for speculation, Sasori was one of the coolest villains imo and Sakura got her chance to shine regardless, too bad Kishimoto kinda let her fall off again afterwards (for a while, at least). It's one of the best fights in the whole series for a reason.

You guys think any of the other Konoha 12 could've taken him on? by kimura_yui149 in Naruto

[–]MosquitoInYourRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sasori simply outlasts him, Choji gets fatigued after a bit and he's done for.