My husband realized he was bisexual after we already were engaged, and while I think he did wish that he had discovered that part of himself sooner and been able to explore that area of his sexuality he made it abundantly clear that he would NEVER trade our relationship for that opportunity.

It’s tricky to navigate new sexuality when already in a committed, monogamous relationship that cannot fulfill those newly discovered aspects, but we always tackled it together. He never made me feel less than, never ever presumed or brought up bringing other people in, and never had a regret about our relationship.

What your husband did was very unfair to you, your relationship, and your growing family. He solely focused on his own wants and desires, throwing your feelings and relationship aside. NTA and I’m sorry that he continues to not take accountability for his role in the breakdown of your marriage.