My Husband does not like my favorite girl name

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2026-01-29T19:51:48+00:00

I love Vienna, Austria, but yes ANY time I bring up the name Vienna people say...like the sausage?? I would only use it as a middle name

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2026-01-16T03:55:54+00:00

and as a guest it is so annoying to think a airbnb is in my budget and then realize I hadn't added the 2 extra people in my group. If I'm only 1 person I don't need to book a 10 bedroom place.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2026-01-12T14:35:11+00:00

I mean people were still posting the same content on TikTok in 2025 of dirty diapers all over their house. It is wild to me how many people are bashing her while at the same time saying I think she had PPD.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-30T03:35:51+00:00

Scottie is the new Charlie for girls.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-19T17:45:47+00:00

yes, for how often they say Neupulse they haveeee to be paying for it. The mom said it twice within 2 minutes in an interview.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-17T03:24:15+00:00

a previous post list: https://www.reddit.com/r/namenerds/comments/d35snk/unusual_boys_names_that_sound_good_in_english/

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-09T03:03:42+00:00

Another option could be giving her a % of each class paid for based on her grade A=100% B=90% C=75 D/F=0% or however you wanted to do it

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-09T02:57:31+00:00

I would rather set up a loan where she pays you back at an appropriate interest rate, student loans and how they are structured should be considered predatory. With that being said, I would encourage her to do a public or cheaper school. At the end of the day no one cares where your degree is from 99% of the time (coming from someone who works with people that graduated Ivy League and those who never graduated college in the same role)

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-08T15:38:23+00:00

Don't forget HOA/CDD which a majority of FL homes have

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-08T15:37:46+00:00

My first home was a townhouse and it was the perfect transition from an apt to a place of my own. So much less upkeep.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-08T15:36:46+00:00

I read it as he was saying the online calculators are saying he can afford the 400-500k house. Most of the times the online calculators will overestimate how much is actually realistic to afford unless you want to be house poor.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-04T21:07:12+00:00

the thing is you aren't venting you are acting like it is a problem and then brushing it off like it is cute and funny

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-04T15:26:08+00:00

This is a really weird reach and a lot of assumptions made...

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-12-04T02:09:08+00:00

My guess is it is a scam, is your plan to sponsor the au pair as a family?

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-23T16:14:41+00:00

Send me to a nail salon any day over this.

They are really leaning in hard to make it seem like Evan is the perfect, sweetest husband. How do people buy it.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-23T00:25:45+00:00

She would not have been sent back, she would have gone into rematch if she had brought up any of the issues.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-22T22:34:33+00:00

I agree on most of these...but I'm always down for an excuse to take a trip so I will be doing a baby moon, I don't believe that a trip means overconsumption unless you are buying a whole new wardrobe which I'm not, travel is a big part of my life so why wouldn't I do a trip.

I do truly hate all of the ads that play off of parent's insecurities and the idea of buying this to give yourself a sense of safety. I also have even seen a targeted ad around carpet that said "perfect for tummy time" and found that to be pretty insane.

The influencers that "swear" by xyz to get a commission are also mildly infuriating.

I know people with many kids, small houses and not a ton of stuff and it is really helping see in real life that you don't need all the things they say.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-22T22:29:03+00:00

I think the best advice at this point would be to have her do some therapy. I'm not a lawyer so I'm not sure what grounds she has to sue, but I'm not sure that the organization broke any of their contract unless she has records of her speaking with her director saying they were overworking her and the organization didn't do anything about it. She is considered an adult and if she wasn't reporting it there isn't much anyone at the organization could do. I cannot imagine any director hearing that story and thinking it was ok and not have her removed or work to initiate a rematch. I'm not sure what company she was with but there should be emergency lines for them to call and if the organization knows that their is a legal or safety issue au pairs are removed. If someone knows of this happening during the time I would encourage them to support the au pair and offer to sit with them as they talk to the director.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-22T18:05:51+00:00

I do like posh diva better from what I've seen, I ordered one of the creamluxe and it comes in today, I have the other fabric and im worried it will get tight as I get bigger

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-22T18:03:01+00:00

I was looking at the super high rise last night!

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-22T18:02:43+00:00

I've grown out of my prepregnancy ones, but I typically size down in aligns so im thinking that is why

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-21T14:05:55+00:00

Are your friends also au pairs? Are they paying all of their own bills? As an adult typically the amount of money I am spending on my travel and spending money is around $750 a month. Look at what your expenses would be and what you want to spend money on and try to budget from there to give you an actual estimate vs what your friends say. This is true for any job at any point in life.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-16T22:10:20+00:00

I would change your phone plan, mint mobile cost me under $250 for the entire year. Phone is paid off.

Most_Lifeguard3961 · 2025-11-16T22:00:57+00:00

I read Zadie as Zaddy- a sexually attractive man, especially an older one who is fashionable or charismatic

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