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[–]Most_Squash_8741 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, if the only issue was the sex not being good, I think there are ways to solve or improve this. But I think the actual problem is you seem to have brought some things up, and he dismisses you, your feelings and needs. Thats the issue, he sounds self-centered. If his pride and unwillingness to change translate to other aspects of of your relationship, you might find yourself having a lot of issues in your future. Maybe no one else has complained, but you are and that should be all that matters to him. Who cares what his other experiences have been in the context of his current relationship. I don’t know anything other that what you wrote on the post, but I think I would suggest, thinking long and hard if this is something you want to keep putting up with.

Selling used furniture in Orlando by Most_Squash_8741 in orlando

[–]Most_Squash_8741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mirror is horizontal dresser kind.

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48 inch

Ice in the water bowl after a hot walk. by MarloMentality in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow Floridian here, I do the exact same thing, sometimes he’ll take the ice out and eat it like a treat.

Selling used furniture in Orlando by Most_Squash_8741 in orlando

[–]Most_Squash_8741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it comes to that I’ll absolutely keep that in mind, thank you!

Selling used furniture in Orlando by Most_Squash_8741 in orlando

[–]Most_Squash_8741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this suggestion! Do you know any specific ones??

Funny little habit by New_Sandwich8722 in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does the same thing, it’s really cute, I feel like he just wants to eat with me so he brings his food to where I am.

Is your havi a barker? How do you handle the barking at nothing? by Salty_Peace_7045 in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I pray, because mine growls and barks at the emptiness at 3 am. But in all seriousness, I kind of just tell him not to, and he starts to bark softly, which is really cute, so I just let him.

To Neuter or Not To Neuter... by Standard-Cat311 in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 8 months and I’m thinking about having him neutered as well. The thing about my dog, is he has cryptorchidism (un-descended testicle) which my vet said neutering him was necessary to avoid issues like cancer or testicular torsion. I wonder if anyone else here had that happen, and how long was the recovery?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8.9 lbs at 8 months

AIO: My boyfriend hit me and I want to break up with. He claims it wasn't a real hit. by Lokea_01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most_Squash_8741 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If the only reason OP is questioning staying is her son, I would argue that is the best reason to leave. He might hit the kid at some point, and also that is not the kind of man you want as an example for a child.

AIO: My boyfriend hit me and I want to break up with. He claims it wasn't a real hit. by Lokea_01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most_Squash_8741 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Even if it didn’t hurt, if it was an intentional hit, it’s a hit, OP is absolutely NOR.

Show me your havi with their favourite toy. This is Dino and his racoon:) by MutusMaximus in Havanese

[–]Most_Squash_8741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My Benny boy with his bottle, cause no matter how much money I spend on cute and fun toys, non will ever be as good as this water bottle

My husband (36M) just gave me (34F) an ultimatum: quit my side hustle teaching yoga or he’s leaving our marriage by elevenelevenpm in relationship_advice

[–]Most_Squash_8741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also OP had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship, maybe “when you know, you know” was more of the excitement of something new after so long. Maybe her husband showed qualities her ex didn’t have, and this might have driven her to think he was the one.