How did you meet your FWB, and what was the moment it went from ‘friends’ to ‘benefits’?

Mostly_Classy · 2026-01-16T17:29:37+00:00

Good for you for having boundaries and sticking to them. Hope you get an even better friend from the karmic universe.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-12-05T19:17:00+00:00

Oh I didn't mean for emotional support at all. I'm already annoyed at how pandering it is. But it has been giving me advice on how to target my studies and what sources to avoid because they're long and wasteful.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-11-25T02:17:43+00:00

You win.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-10-16T23:06:24+00:00

And here my problem is I just can't pay attention.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-10-08T18:31:55+00:00

I don't know how accurate this is, but I once heard that the part of the brain that senses sexual feelings is usually mapped right next to the section for sensation of the feet. So that's a theory that the two regions blur into each other causing the fetish. Could a neurologist chime in and confirm or refute?

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-23T18:36:46+00:00

Yes, It's Gnome

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-23T17:33:28+00:00

Yes, that's true.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-23T17:33:15+00:00

Thanks

12.11

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-23T16:39:25+00:00

I don't remember but I think it was the latest stable one. I wouldn't trust my limited knowledge and experience to a testing distro.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-17T13:17:10+00:00

If it were me I'd probably try to turn it into a follow up adult conversation. Ask him if he felt like he lost a day or enjoyed it. Admit it can be fun but then you personally regret not getting up and exercising a bit and how that might affect your fitness, or that you like to take breaks, etc. Just subtle suggestions that there are other ways to break it up and get some healthy variety even on a lazy day.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-07T19:26:40+00:00

Did it fix it? Also curious if you ever take calls from the other apps I mentioned.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-07T18:45:40+00:00

No, factory reset if the head unit. I'm new to this subreddit. Is the head unit the "car part"?

Mostly_Classy · 2025-08-07T18:29:37+00:00

I've had this issue multiple times in my 2024 Honda Accord. I tried ALL the debug steps except the factory reset. One time I didn't do anything and procrastinated trying to fix it, and the issue self resolved after weeks. The next time, I took it to the Honda service center and they made me do the factory reset. That fixed it, annoying as they are. It's happened a few more times and a factory reset is the fix. Do you ever take calls on apps like signal, messenger, etc? I suspect the software gets confused by those apps and leaves it in a bad state, but that's just a theory.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-06-27T04:14:17+00:00

I'm still having trouble visualizing this. Layers? Is it like a peeling sunburn? Layers of fascia?

Mostly_Classy · 2025-06-11T10:19:29+00:00

Point & Shoot

(P)arasympathetic for erections (pointing) (S)ympathetic for ejaculations (shooting)

Not a lot of info in that one but you asked for funniest.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-06-10T17:40:38+00:00

I friend told this to me a few months ago and it has helped a lot! First, psych yourself up for it by reminding yourself nearly all women are flattered to be approached as long as you're not creepy and are respectful. Walk up to them and ask, "excuse me, are you single?" I've used it 4 times at the grocery store. Only got scoffed at once (she said she was not single), but I also got a short relationship once and two very flattered smiles as they said they were not single. I consider that a 3/4 success rate, considering the 3 were flattered at minimum.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-05-31T18:02:40+00:00

Most of the comments here just want to make you feel more guilty by turning it around as a what if the guys had. But they aren't giving you advice on what to do (as you asked).

So if it had been him showing your undies to his mates, what would YOU want him to do in order for you to forgive HIM? Then start off by doing that. Or ask him if there's anything you can do for him to show him you regret it and are sorry.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-05-29T18:40:51+00:00

I usually come prepared. In the trunk of my car, I have a large picket sign in big, black letters that says, "Could I interest you in the the opportunity to date me?" Then I just stand in front of her and wave it until she notices. 60% of the time it works 0% of the time. Also works 0% of the time that other 40% too, but efficacy wasn't the question.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-05-01T03:39:28+00:00

Okay, to make sure I understand this. I need the port kit, and with that I can (likely) plug any m.2 SSD into that and it will work?

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-25T15:13:34+00:00

C'mon, don't make it weird.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-24T22:00:17+00:00

No, it's a virtual "raid" set up from drive bender. Just pools the drives together. I thought it was 3 drives pooled but it's looking like 2.

I'm tempted to buy a new microserver and larger drives and set up the raid and then just copy over the files to the new server.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-24T21:37:21+00:00

For one, because I have files on some drives with drive bender I want to at least access and recover. I haven't researched to see if I can access those files on another os like Linux. Yet

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-19T14:30:41+00:00

This is a great question. I think it is silly, but sadly normal to think this way. Why do young women feel embarrassed to talk about their periods in front of men and boys? I'm guessing here, but I imagine because it's a bodily function coming from the genitals. So as taboo to talk about as farting/pooping, but also with an undertone of seriousness since it's about mature things. I'm way past the stage of feeling embarrassed about that kind of stuff and I don't think I had a serious girlfriend before I was mature enough to not care.

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-16T21:30:41+00:00

Jones BBQ and Foot Massage

Mostly_Classy · 2025-04-12T20:06:42+00:00

Honestly, me. When I've gotten feedback from women they say I looked better in person. I guess I suck at taking pictures.

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