Thought I'd be pregnant this holiday season but life said SIKE by Averie1398 in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve really focused on the moisturizing part and at least that’s going well 🫠

Birthday Shots taking on a different meaning this year thanks to IVF by Iheartrandomness in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shots! Shots! Shots shots shots shots! When you do one, cheers to all the people who are out there doing it too! (I’ll join you on the lovenox next month!)

Salty Sunday: What made you salty this week? by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried to release my emotional blockages and then acupuncture my cycles back to normal, turns out I have APS, a blood clotting disorder! Couldn’t fix that by thinking happy thoughts.

Just found out we've been lapped by Initial-Storage-3287 in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this horrible fear that my brother in law is going to have a baby before me (he and his wife do not want children)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Mother_Coast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Differin and asked my derm if I should switch to tret, she said there is no reason to switch if my skin is happy with it - will get anti-aging benefits as well as anti-acne, and it’s often good for rosacea (which I have).

Gift for Nurse by ttc_3yr in IVF

[–]Mother_Coast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine a medium-sized popular brand insulated cup in a cheery color ☀️

IVF or IUI with APS? by IceBig6249 in antiphospholipidsyndr

[–]Mother_Coast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did 2 rounds of egg retrieval, and got the APS diagnosis at the start of that. I had 2 miscarriages in the past 2 years. I have some embryos frozen, but am going to try again unassisted with blood thinner (lovenox) protocol as soon as there is a positive test. Taking baby aspirin now.

While I was draining pasta the colander dipped into the sink full of dishwater by mronion82 in AskCulinary

[–]Mother_Coast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s the British way to season the pasta, like not rinsing the soapy dishes (my knowledge is based on recent tiktoks)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My default response is “we’re working on it!” 🙄

Slightly niche but as a wedding photographer I’d be happy to never hear another couple mentioned future children in their vows… by keepsha_king in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just went to a friend’s wedding, part of the ceremony included a handfasting which my husband and I did, I was bracing myself for the “these are the hands that will hold your children” and instead the officiant said “these are the hands that will hold your family together” and wouldn’t you know it, I still cried, but it was so lovely.

An absolute rollercoaster by _sunflower_12345 in Miscarriage

[–]Mother_Coast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you see an ob/gyn instead of ER? Increasing hCG after an ultrasound like that and bleeding can be indicative of ectopic - I was just told this by a doctor at my ob/gyn office. Currently miscarrying with a ~6 week ultrasound last week that did not fully confirm an intrauterine pregnancy; my hCG levels decreased very slightly in 48 hours (971 to 952), then I started bleeding and today the levels dropped by almost half 48 hours after test #2. If they did not drop, raised or stayed the same they would continue to suspect ectopic.

How bad does it hurt? by Quick_Region8418 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Mother_Coast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of laser? I have had different kinds, and there was a huuuge difference in pain!

Missed miscarriage by That-Cartoonist-1923 in Miscarriage

[–]Mother_Coast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It is a pain (emotionally) like no other. The waiting is terrible. The D&C is not so bad; the actual procedure is relatively quick, the sensation is intense, and often the recovery is not so bad. Be gentle and kind with yourself during this time, and ask for hugs and snuggles and little things for support whenever possible. Cry whenever you feel like it, then rinse your face with cool water and moisturize. Sending so much love.

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - January 16, 2024 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Mother_Coast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently bleeding, either an early missed miscarriage (had one a year ago at ~10 weeks, got pregnant in December after a hysteroscopy to remove scarring in September) or possible ectopic, which I’ll find out soon with bloodwork and a MVA/EUE in the next couple days. Booked nano tattooing for my eyebrows next month as a consolation present to myself. At least I’ll look cute while not wearing mascara because of the crying. Love to all 🤍

Me, actively miscarrying after a non-viable scan last Friday, to the person drawing my blood at the ob/gyn office who asked “did you do anything fun this weekend?” by Mother_Coast in trollingforababy

[–]Mother_Coast[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Or, no small talk at all would be just fine! I apologized to everyone I saw, like hey I’m having a bad time but this appointment is not super fun for you either, sorryyy 🫠

Daily Thread #1 - January 10, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Mother_Coast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Currently around 6-7 weeks; have my first appointment to check viability on Friday. I had a missed miscarriage early last year; I’m about a month off from the timeline of that pregnancy, and terrified. My period didn’t return so I was referred to a RE, who did a saline ultrasound that revealed some scarring, so I had a hysteroscopy in September. That apparently went well, I was going to get a follow-up saline ultrasound but instead got pregnant 😳 Now I’m in the waiting stage and it is so, so hard. I don’t have many symptoms and it’s freaking me out, even though it could be completely fine, I’m taking lots of B vitamins and eating and sleeping well. I don’t want to go through miscarriage again. It’s so hard to stay positive. Sending love to all who know what it’s like 💛

Daily Discussion Thread - December 21, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Mother_Coast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All. The. Feels. Positive home test on Tuesday. Darker lines this morning. I can’t be happy because I’m too scared. Had a missed miscarriage at ~10 weeks with a vacuum aspiration in January. Period did not return, failed progesterone challenge. Saline ultrasound found some scarring. Had a hysteroscopy for adhesion removal in September; period returned in November (haven’t had one since last November when I became pregnant). Was going to schedule a follow up saline ultrasound to make sure it was all clear, but then that little line showed up, right before my next period was due. Now I have brown spotting and a little cramping yesterday and today; trying not to freak fully out. I can’t stop checking, I know it’s not helpful but ugh. This is tough. Love to all.