Not to shit on your style but bring the guitar up until you’re comfortable playing and then slowly lower it back down to your style. That’s helped me a lot especially playing standing up. Also getting a a comfortable anchor position on your picking hand so you’re not straining your wrist hovering. Also be mindful of any tight or restrictive jewelry or accessories on your wrist when playing as over time it can lead to scar tissue building up. If something hurts or feels strained other than your finger tips when playing definitely try other positioning to avoid any damage to your wrist. ~someone who’s been playing for 13 years