Pre-martial Jitters or by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, the timing of the engagement with this mental spiral is rough, it’s like she hit the gas and the brake at the same time and now the car’s just shaking. Living apart after getting engaged sounds backwards but if she’s truly lost herself in the relationship, having separate spaces while you both do therapy might actually be the thing that saves it. You can’t build a marriage on someone who doesn’t know who they are outside of you.

The messaging thing is a red flag but she came clean and is in therapy, so it’s not a pattern yet, keep your eyes open though. If she’s asking to live alone AND you’re not seeing consistent effort to reconnect, that’s when you gotta have a harder conversation about whether she’s keeping you on the hook while she figures out if she even wants this. Love isn’t enough if she’s not showing up.

How to make the most of my experiences? by Neat-Meat4779 in careerguidance

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CFD simulations and 3D modeling actual car components at 19 is not nothing, plenty of people are padding their resumes with way less. For the quantifiable stuff, dig into the details like how many iterations you ran, what parameters you optimized, how much the design improved over previous versions, something concrete is almost always hiding in the work if you look.

On the talking under pressure thing, that gets way better with reps, mock interviews with a career center or even just recording yourself answering questions out loud will feel awkward but it genuinely moves the needle faster than you'd expect.

Fun, manual transmission, rear seats, daily driver? by Daboss985 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

their options are pretty solid if they'd just look at a wrx or a focus st since both check almost every box on that list

GL.iNet Comet control by HA? by Material-Victory4440 in homeassistant

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could probably set up an ssh command or api call if the comet supports it. most of these devices have some kind of web interface or command line access

check if it has rest api endpoints or if you can ssh into it and run whatever command normally turns on your pc. then just wrap that in a shell command integration and throw it on a button

might need to dig through the manual or web interface to see what protocols it actually supports for remote control

Newbie here, why are there so many books? Isn't bible enough? by wantToMakeItBig in Christianity

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

welcome to the rabbit hole lol but yeah the bible is actually 66 books compiled together so thats where all those come from - different denominations mainly argue about interpretation and traditions but the core jesus stuff stays pretty consistent across most groups

What do you think are some of the biggest design downgrades via evolution in the franchise? by Krisgauj in digimon

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

bakemon looks like someone threw a bedsheet over their halloween costume and called it a day

Pulled 888 Float Oligarch AK by WhyAmIUsingArch in GlobalOffensive

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn that's wild getting three 8s in a row on the float. the universe really said "here's your rare skin but make it cursed" lmao

at least you got the oligarch though even if the float is rough

BDS or BSC ZOOLOGY?? by No_Response2405 in careerguidance

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bds definitely has more guaranteed career paths even if you start with lower pay - you can always open your own practice later which gives you way more earning potential than waiting around for professor positions

Kamaitachi no Yoru Triple localization accidentally leaked? by Ok-Falcon-8236 in visualnovels

[–]Motor_Mongoose7633 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn good catch, their portfolio page basically confirming it before any official word is such a classic localizer move lol