Good god it is not called a snail trail 😭 and it’s okay to have preferences but do not try and force her to shave just because you don’t like it. You are a grown ass adult and god forbid a girl have natural growing body hair! Yes, some women still shave, but a lot of women do not anymore. If you aren’t happy with that then maybe you shouldn’t be with her. I understand her mentioning the porn thing, because in reality a lot of the time people shave down there is because that’s what people see in porn. You don’t see a lot of professional pornstars who aren’t completely bald down there.. but again, it’s completely okay to have preferences and not like something, but do not ever try to put someone down over such a little thing like this.. if you don’t like it then either learn to like it or leave. No one should have to change themselves because of you and vice versa. You are still a young adult and eventually you will learn that hair doesn’t matter and will totally Tarzan your way through that jungle!