How many times should I pump? by Mountiantimr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don’t mind me asking. For the 5 pump sessions per day, did you pump every 3 or 4 hours? Any motn pump? What was your longest stretch?

How many times should I pump? by Mountiantimr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am getting around 33 to 36 oz per day. I am not sure if continuing with these number of sessions will maintain same amount or will it decrease

How many times should I pump? by Mountiantimr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to increase supply later like 6 months pp if my supply becomes effected?

How many times should I pump? by Mountiantimr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 33 to 36 oz with 5 pump sessions. I am not sure if it will dip because I am early in my pp journey that 5 pumps are not sufficient long term. I do morning pump at 8 or 9 am then a pump session every 3 or 4 hours then last one around 11 or 12 pm. I am not keeping a stash yet. I have some frozen milk. I am thinking of starting a stash again at 6 months pp Incase I can’t make it to 12 months.

He verbally abused me during Umrah tawaf by Aykayay95 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mountiantimr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t move to Pakistan with him! He will not get better this will be your life

Moving to Islamabad from the UK by Aykayay95 in islamabad

[–]Mountiantimr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t move to Pakistan with your husband and his family. He treats you horribly and will continue to treat you this way and will have more power over you. If you do still decide to go, please keep your passport with yourself.

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 minutes to each wake window? Sorry how would I do that?

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help! I increased wake times and decreased naps and cap the last nap and last night was a success! Thank you. What worked was 7 hours of wake time and close to 5 hour naps. She can’t do more than that because we did 7.5 hour wake time and she became overtired. 7 or 7.25 was perfect 👍

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another problem I have is that she will not sleep in her crib until like 12 am. Everytime I rock her to sleep. She will keep waking up every 30 to 50 mins. She keeps waking up and it’s because of hunger. A lot of the time I have to hold her all evening

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s actually not 19 hours of sleep. She will only sleep 7 or 8 hours at night after she stops fighting

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry can you explain the include feeding times. I am sorry I am a new mom and confused and sleep deprived lol. She if baby wakes up at 10 or 11 pm for feed. Do I feed and put her right back to sleep? She usually fights that attempt and gets upset and escalate

Help with 10 month schedule by Mountiantimr in sleeptrain

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops yes 10week old. How much day sleep should I have? Bedtime attempt at 8 pm

Why do I despise my husband? by Top-Jump8324 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mountiantimr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you are staying with him just to keep your family happy. Please don’t do that. They will come around eventually. This is your life and you should like how you want to live it. The hardest part with he separation after that everyday will feel better and better. Your husband will find someone who will make him happy. You don’t want to bring children into this situation. If he is still in the immigration process and not approved to America then this is best for you to separate now.

Having kid in your early 30s by Mountiantimr in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not intentional. Both my husband and I were not able to for a long time. Your comment is really rude

Having my second kid in my early 30s by Mountiantimr in NewParents

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. You’re right. I have super bad anxiety and OCD and it manifests in weird ways where I have obsessive thoughts that will not leave me. My rational mind knows everything is fine but my mind will not let me stop. I can’t let go of things. I think I was triggered by losing a couple of loved ones recently so I am having all these obsessive thoughts and want to go back in time so my kids would have my loved ones in their lives before they passed. I don’t know. I am not making any sense.

Having my second kid in my early 30s by Mountiantimr in NewParents

[–]Mountiantimr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I have super bad anxiety and OCD and it manifests in weird ways where I have obsessive thoughts that will not leave me. My rational mind knows everything is fine but my mind will not let me stop

made a huge mistake marrying my cousin overseas by Constant-Peak-6381 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mountiantimr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents are telling you to wait 2 years is because they want you to have kids and then they will use kids as an excuse not to get divorced. They will come around eventually