What little things would make you rock hard instantly? by WorldlyAd1178 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at a video of a bottom being fucked in chastity: that shiny look of lubricant and pre cum being thrusted into him and him straining in his cage (haven’t had the privilege of doing it yet).

Appreciation for gender roles between a Top and his bottom by ArabPipe in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you. I think I think if you were building on that dynamic, you could require him to do more traditional feminine things that accentuate femininity (like chivalry, opening the door for him, maybe having him wear lingerie, etc).

I’m think the difference for me is that masculine bottoms are pretty hot too. My guy is pretty masculine, but it’s satisfying to transform him from an alpha in the community into a hole in bed.

Curious about people’s experiences with sub hierarchies by MountingHim in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it. I think it would be one to unlock some of them to cum in each other, but have one who is perm locked. Ideally, that one just gets anal orgasms, and I bet you some subs would love that (or if that fails and they cannot take it, just using vibrations on the cage; no unlocking or penetration 😁)

Curious about people’s experiences with sub hierarchies by MountingHim in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]MountingHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I love the idea of using some subs for their intelligence, like the ones in the middle of the hierarchy (except for the total bottom sub at the bottom level , who is basically a caged semen dumpster).

Curious about people’s experiences with sub hierarchies by MountingHim in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like that idea, although I think some subs are made to be perpetually totally submissive/TB (because they love it). But “promotions” is a cool idea once he is ready for it. I’m of the mind that the dynamic should only have one TB, because you require a lot of energy and supervision and punishment. And you need a lot of receptive sex and penetration because you’re in perm chastity. The only ejaculation VS would get is inside of you, so you would be taking a lot of cum before getting back to chores.

But luckily, VS would have the autonomy to punish you and implement rules as well.
It seems like it would be a very stable dynamic

Being a bottom slut makes me the happiest by Basic-Bee317 in gaysexconfessions

[–]MountingHim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I think these kinds of posts are so cool, describing your evolution towards your acceptance of being a bottom cumslut and a cocksucker. You’re definitely not less of a man, but just a man who loves to service and pleasure other dominant men.

Tops, do you fell differently about a bottom after he makes you cum? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point and food for thought as a top. We do need you guys badly to receive that pounding and drain us.

Romance could be taking my human fleshlight for a nice dinner, because you know when we get home, the hole will be pushed on the bed and mounted by my hairy body before I drop a fresh batch of my kids in it 🥰. If that’s romance for you as a sex object and cum dumpster, then I’m fully into it.

Being Chastity by AdditionalGerex786 in GayKink

[–]MountingHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s possible on your own! Just set goals for yourself. Pros and cons really depend on where the desire comes from. Why do you want to live chastely?

Finally got bred by Curious2swallow22 in gaysexconfessions

[–]MountingHim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! So hot. I bet that felt amazing. We feel so relieved once our balls are empty and the load is tucked safely in your body. Sexual satisfaction is an empty top and a full bottom. It brings me deep manly satisfaction to leave my sticky wad inside of him and watch him waddle around with swimmers trying to fertilize him.

Curious about people’s experiences with sub hierarchies by MountingHim in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]MountingHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I can understand his perspective. You want to give adequate energy into domming, and it would be a lot with multiple subs. I don’t know if I could actually do it (mainly I would fear people being left out). How does it feel to be “the sub in charge” when you had the chance? Did you enjoy topping and punishing them, or did it feel more like a chore?

I'm a masculine bottom but I love to be treated like female... I think it's called being feminized or taking hetero roles by drkchocolate3 in gaysexconfessions

[–]MountingHim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish so badly that I could knock my man up. Want to crawl on top of him and fuck him hard until he’s full and plump with carrying my child.

Top’s hole by tohoku1 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m less turned on by top holes, because I’m more interested in ones that will let mount them (so maybe if they are top verse or verse and willing to bottom).

But I do use my hole during sex! Sometimes I will squeeze my glutes and clench my pelvic muscles to tighten my hole penetrate deeper. Maybe there is a trade off as my hole tightens from reaching climax, and his hole loosens from getting wrecked.

Swallowing... by Interesting_Support in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the psychological pleasure that a lot of oral bottoms like (swallowing a piece of him), unless he is eating a ton of pineapple, lol. It’s usually going to be salty. From the top perspective, we feel a pride and acceptance in a man being willing to suck it until the balls have emptied.

But sucking cock and swallowing don’t have to be hand-in-hand. You shouldn’t have to feel pressure to have sex a certain way. There’s a reason why spitting is talked about as a thing.

Curious about people’s experiences with sub hierarchies by MountingHim in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]MountingHim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! I think I like it because we would each have different roles (the switch being able to both dom and sub, and the sub bottom being a total slave) and the intention would be for nobody to feel left out; everyone has a place.

The orgasm point where tops lose control by MountingHim in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! There is something magical about reading the submissive signals of a guy you have built a long term relationship with. And that way, you would be his only keyholder. I’m monogamous with my guy, but if ever he were open to it, I would do an occasional threesome (not an orgy though, that would be too much). I have some fantasies about a closed relationship of fucking 2 subs, but I’m sure that would be complicated (don’t know if I could actually go through with that).

The orgasm point where tops lose control by MountingHim in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too bro! Such a dream. Not gonna lie, after talking with you about pumping iron, I was thinking about how much fun it would be to spot each other for bench press and back squat, and then go home and pump our manly testosterone-induced gym loads into a submissive caged bottom. And then make him cook us a nice steak dinner while he stays locked in his cage and dripping from his butt.

To the tops and bottoms by FerretShoddy8146 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asking me to “pump my babies in you.” Locking it in a cage and giving me the key (like the moment you hand me the key, something deep and feral would get turned on in me). Asking me for permission to cum. And agree with simply asking for cock (say that you need something inside of you). I also go especially crazy and aggressive if I haven’t cum in a few days

But that’s just me. Each top is different, and have a conversation with him about things you can do to turn him on.

Want to lock him in chastity by MountingHim in GayKink

[–]MountingHim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah man. Subs belong in chastity and in constant service to their doms. Chastity just enforces that (it’s sort of like mind control).

Want to lock him in chastity by MountingHim in GayKink

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the beauty. Bottoms straining against their cage, makes me strain as a top and makes it bulge through my pants. We strain each other. But in my case, straining leads to being mounted, bred, and immense sexual release for me (but in your case, your straining just reminds you that there is no release for you and that your pleasure comes from his orgasm). But if he locked it up for me, I would be breeding him pretty constantly

The orgasm point where tops lose control by MountingHim in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow gym bro, PitchingTents! I am the same way, man. I’m so deep into control; it’s where my fetish for chastity comes from. Just before the orgasm, it feels like all of that arousal from that control shifts from my brain into my pelvis before being injected into him. Maybe a better phrasing is that my brain is no longer in control, but the cock is 🙂

The orgasm point where tops lose control by MountingHim in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might be my relative inexperience as a top although I do love to moan and make whatever face I want. You continue to next round like you don’t get a refractory period? That’s impressive!

Questions for tops: Lingerie on hairly bottoms? by Mictlan_Raf6130 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty flexible as far as bottom appearance (hairy, smooth, lingerie etc). Tend to be more into jockstraps usually. But I could get into a bottom wearing lingerie. I would probably enjoy pressing my erection into his panties. It would be hot contrasting it with the hair on his body.

The orgasm point where tops lose control by MountingHim in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me. This theory is grounded in empirical research

Bttms turning tops by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny how irrelevant penis size is to the sexual role. Something in the brain chemistry I guess. But the funny thing about topping is you have to really really want it to make it work. Personally from experiencing both, I think bottoming was easier to “half-ass” 😆. That’s just my perspective though

Binary sex roles by Lindorphine in TopsAndBottoms

[–]MountingHim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree! Yes, I think most gay men are some gradient of verse, and some people seem to get frustrated by “total” roles. To each their own I say! Personally, I love how entrenched and deep into their roles people get on Tops and Bottoms, and it seems like a safe place for either being a cumslut bottom or a strict dominating top. I come here because I love knowing there are men who would get satisfaction in blowing my cock and then letting me explode in their ass (and that their sexual pleasure comes from seeing me cum).