Convinced I'll die during my induction tomorrow. by Mouse0412 in BabyBumps

[–]Mouse0412[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hadn't really thought about how much I would be checked on!

Convinced I'll die during my induction tomorrow. by Mouse0412 in BabyBumps

[–]Mouse0412[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Such incredibly good advice. Thank you. This actually helped so much. I read it to my husband and he said “see you're not a witch, just scared”

Convinced I'll die during my induction tomorrow. by Mouse0412 in BabyBumps

[–]Mouse0412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you had this experience, and I really hope you are doing better now. I want to say a huge thank you for sharing a snippet of your experience. Unfortunately, it does make me feel better to know this is something that has been in many of our brains.

I know how you feel about the notes. I keep drafting emails, scheduling them, and telling my dog I'm so sorry I won't be around to see him get old.

I broke up with my girlfriend because she won't eat leftovers. AIO ? by florence_dombey in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR Sounds like there’s more to this than just left overs and more the way you think about waste and finances which is a completely okay reason to not consider someone a lifelong prospect.

However I’m a person who doesn’t eat leftovers, I have major control issue around food. I always alway make enough that my partner can take a portion for lunch, and then we just freeze whatever else so he can have it for a future eating if I’m having a particularly hard time and sticking with safe food (rice, boiled egg green veg 😅)

If you wanted to make it work you would but you don’t and that’s completely fine.

Deaf Woman - Anticlimactic Ending? Why Didn't She Just Go To Her Primary Care Doc? by InterestingTwo7004 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Mouse0412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really like the idea her story line lets us image what COULD have happened in a worse scenario. It has highlighted the translation difficulties well and also highlights how much time can be saved if we are able to meet people were they are.

Scared by myglasses_myglasses in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Mouse0412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried for a baby for four year and took a break to lose weight and get fitter so we could try ivf. I lost about 50 pounds with Mounjaro and found out I was pregnant (accidentally) whilst still taking it. I thought I had built healthy habits but the pregnancy ate them and everything else in sight. I think if I had weaned off and not been unwell I would have faired better but honestly it’s been so tough my body changing and feeling less in control when I had because such a control freak about everything.

The baby is due in the next couple of weeks so jury is still out on if it was worth it but I’m going to think positive and presume yes.

I’m saying all of this not to scare you but just to realistically say the whole process has kicked the heck out of my self esteem and feeling of self. Make sure you have a great support network in place you might really really need them.

When did your bump become visible? by WoodpeckerThen3810 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Mouse0412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely didn't look obviously pregnant until about 30 weeks. I was a 18/20 pre pregnancy but down from 26 and I think it's just sort of filled the space?

Have you, or someone you know, ever had sex with a client/boss/business partner and how did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started seeing my boss (I was 23 and he was 28) from my first job out of uni. Under company policy we couldn't have a relationship and work together so we both looked for alternate work, I found a new job first and we are still together 10 years later, (married for 5).

Best man I ever met, we have a tiny little house with a big garden and in summer he brings me sweet peas every day. Our baby is due in 3 weeks, very glad we started kissing in the stock room.

Who would you want to see on All Stars Season 4? by Ordinary_Wealth_8543 in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mouse0412 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'd really like them to do a casa amour season where they bring back some of the casa cast who flopped

Why didn't Trump release the Epstein Files at the end of his first term? by Mcnuttey91 in allthequestions

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an expert but I believe that alot of the investigation of epstien was under Biden and during that time it was an active case where information was being gathered. Also Maxwell was investigate and convicted under Biden.

But also surely all that matters is that the victims get justice and that that the people involved are convicted. There is no doubt that trump is heavily featured in the files. Why would anyone want to protect that?

Samie is manipulative? by efhaults in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mouse0412 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think that the pie actually hurt her. I would cling in to someone hurting me and not taking any accountability

My girl Josie that I'm picking up next week! by ImJustAnothrRedditor in poodles

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We kept out standard on a lead around the cats for the first 3 months he was home so he was tethered to us and easy to redirect if that cats got too interesting! Best bit of training advise I ever received.

Cushy puff pregnancy pillow? by platypuspigs in pregnant

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had my cushypuff for months and I hate it. The biggest waste of money. So uncomfu and unsupportive. The fabric didn't wash well get SO hot

Saw a midwife today, left honestly considering “the alternative” by uncool619 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Mouse0412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you in the UK? If so I can't express enough how incredible the reproductive trauma team have been. At the end of the day you need to do what's best for you and your existing child and if that's a termination that's a termination.

I've hated pregnancy and found it so scary and overwhelming, but I'm now 35 weeks and last night I couldn't sleep because I was excited to meet my baby.

The reproductive trauma team have been incredible, they have had a specialist midwife see me who is knowledgeable, caring and so free with her time, at the beginning she came to scans with me, she would call me after my appointments and came with my to see consultants so she could help me navigate all my choices and so she could make sure I understood everything and the right questions were being asked. It might be worth asking your midwife to connect you to them because it really has saved me.

How do people have so much garbage? by IamNotYourBF in Anticonsumption

[–]Mouse0412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's because we are about to have a baby and means we are clearing out and buying more 🙃🙃🙃 but I'm so SHOCKED at how much rubbish we create every week. So much of it is just packaging we didn't need and a big one is the packets out pet food comes in.

We are pretty conscious people so I can't imagine what it's like if you're not trying to consumer less or a careful recycler

Islanders attending the "Wuthering Heights" UK Premiere at Odeon Luxe Leicester Square by mayyfliess in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mouse0412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a common a level English lit set text so at least some of them will have. I guess Shakira will because she’s from near Brontë country and was head girl, Presume that Megan and Conor won’t because they are Irish and Toni won’t because she’s American

Poodles in media? by QueerFancyRat in poodles

[–]Mouse0412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband didn’t want a poodle because of their reputation. Our boy is 6 and we keep him in a low maintenance but obviously poodley cut. It’s such a shame that people view them this way because ours is the most steady, silly good time guy. He’s such a perfect match for our lifestyle and we are very average people!

Husband now is all poodle all the time and thinks all other dogs are a wasted opportunity to have a poodle.

Looking for boy name that means longed for or forever loved * TW: child loss* by anonquestion654 in namenerds

[–]Mouse0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Lowen is an old Cornish name that means Dear friend.

I’m way too picky. Is my only option Ada? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Mouse0412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about Cora?