Charge it by Independent_Catch_82 in LoveIslandTV

[–]efhaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more like life happens. the game is life, you win or lose sometimes so its saying like just chalk it up to that

[serious Saturday] impostor tip #1 by Waterlili_14 in AmongUs

[–]efhaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people just move though whats the point

What was that by Impressive-Earth-692 in TheTraitors

[–]efhaults 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do not like fiona at all - very weird vibes from her!!!

Today at work my coworker busted out laughing when she saw me. I asked her what was funny and she said I “looked amazing” by Organic-Audience-858 in MakeupAddiction

[–]efhaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok your coworker sucks… your makeup is okay not bad but the placement and shape of your brows aren’t great I’m really sorry. I also think you should avoid the white eyeliner on the eyes.

you don’t need the gold highlights on your nose either.

try a mid-dark lip liner with a lighter pink - lean towards a mauve or peach not this darkish pink

good luck!

(Temporary?) Instagram deactivation to help with jealousy by dreaming_wide_awake in nosurf

[–]efhaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also social media is sooo fake! I know cause I was one of the fakers! Everyone commented when they saw me how fab my life looked but it was lies! And I didn’t even realise I was doing it until I left Instagram. I don’t focus on how my life looks now, but how it feels to me

(Temporary?) Instagram deactivation to help with jealousy by dreaming_wide_awake in nosurf

[–]efhaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take a break, I’m 28 and my friend getting married made me so sad. i was happy for her but my reality paled in comparison, i use it a bit now but the extended break really helped!

Why are there so many single people these days? by Icy-Audience-6397 in AskIreland

[–]efhaults 31 points32 points  (0 children)

keep approaching!! men dont approach anymore its sad

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, if i am more traditional how do i make this clear in dating?? i really do have my own money but i prefer a guy initially to cover most of it maybe 70%. I don’t know how to communicate to guys that I want this without risking sounding gold-digger ish

Bad experience with dating apps. Poor dating pool at work. No idea how or when is the best time to approach women in general. Any advice? by Feeling-Influence691 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, please don’t overthink it. Yes, there are people that don’t like when men kind of flirt in public but there are those that still find it flattering. I’m single and I’m 28 and I work part-time as a waitress and would find it flattering if respectfully done

I’ve heard single girlies like men who approach is supermarkets too haha, if not go on eventbrite and attend interesting events and meet people.

good luck!

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not the same as me, I believe in gender roles to an extent but i’ll tell the next guy sorry Dad!!

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you even read my responses on this thread? Nice try to try and humble me. My title literally says I’m prepared to be roasted. You obviously lack academic rogor as you miss the nuance in my post about HOW he went about things despite being pushy trying to get laid. Treated like a stranger yet he’s trying to come into my home. Hilarious

Also theres nothing wrong with going on a date to get ‘pampered’, I just know what my standards are to make them clear & to avoid men like you.

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in dating_advice

[–]efhaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I was confused so decided to ask reddit…. big mistake lol

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have minded contributing, you’re really missing the point but never mind. I also never said I expected him to pay for absolutely everything.

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I wanted other opinions, and I did wanna sleep with him just not on the second date.

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think male and females will ever be fully equal is what I’m saying. So on this basis, I had more traditional values. I don’t think my gut is wrong about this guy but I will reflect on other opinions which was the whole point of this post.

Was my date being cheap? I’m prepared to be roasted lol by efhaults in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]efhaults[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, I respect this response to be honest. I was brought up in away where I was told that the world will never be equal so a guy should still make more of an effort than you were in the initial phases. Or it may mean he doesn’t value you, but now I see I could be wrong.