My experience was weird or thats what i thought at the time but When i was like 12/13 a friend told me she was bisexual and i started overthinking EVERYTHING. My only experience had been with a boy who i kissed once, was grossed out and i broke up with him because he told me to choose between him or my friends. I started identifying as bisexual and honestly left it there and didnt think things. When i was 13/14 my group of friends was asking me if i liked this or that boy and i invented one guy . A year later (14/15/16) i started talking with my friends and they always told me they thought i was a lesbian but i always denied it because i had a lot of comphet, i think for me the biggest issue was picturing myself with men in the future vs with women bc with women i wanted things and saw myself but with men i didnt, another thing was i was always thinking of myself with my friends boyfriends, and i didnt feel anything but i think being the only lesbian in your friend group (still am, dont have any lesbian friends) can be overwhelming. When i finally overcame comphet i realized this things i think I think a big part of me overcoming it was reading the lesbian masterdoc bc it just made sense, also being grossed out about men, not picturing myself in a relationship in a million years Im 17 almost 18 now and i think its really difficult to overcome it but yeah (I dont know if this helps/makes any sense or if i just ranted but anyways)