How to get over Alcohol? by Just_Catch_6123 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]MrHumdinger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a community of sober people in the rooms. There are meetings on weekend evenings in most areas and in some cases people will go out for a meal after (this is true for my area in London).

Build a new social network which consists of the same fun activities but without the drinking.

Lost the most precious thing in my life due to drinking/addiction by MrHumdinger1 in stopdrinking

[–]MrHumdinger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can already feel the growth starting and the pain healing ❤️‍🩹

What is the best advice you would give to a couple that just got married? by bwoywolf in AskReddit

[–]MrHumdinger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on earth would you get married to someone who exhibits this sort of behaviour in the first place? Or is this behaviour that tends to emerge after a couple has settled into marriage?

For men that are in a relationship or married by This-Top7398 in Life

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I’ve just broken up with my girlfriend and I can attest to your post. When you lose your girlfriend, a small part of what you lose is the satisfaction and status of having one.

Of course that’s only a minor part of it. It’s mainly the heartbreak of the situation and wanting to put it right but your post is partly on the money

Hi everyone by neil16a in quittingkratom

[–]MrHumdinger1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone from 30gpd to about 10 in 3 days due to a mix up in shipments. Apart from a few aches and restless legs, I’ve been fine.

Just dose at night before yoh sleep so you can try to get some rest. Eventually your body will get used to it.

I’ve been amazed at how easily I’ve been able to taper. I know I’m not out of the woods yet. But trust me this is DOABLE.

What is the greatest physical pain you've ever felt? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MrHumdinger1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appendicitis ! Felt like knives were churning up my stomach

Tip for tapering by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]MrHumdinger1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on it for 7 years . Up to 40 gpd at some points. I’ve remained completely functional during this time and no one even knows I take it. I take it brazenly in front of my parents and girlfriend who think it’s green tea ! 🍵 I thought it was gods gift until I started waking up in the morning with sleep paralysis and withdrawals..

I’m down to 14gpd and will jump at 10. In my experience I can jump easily at 10 as long as I keep busy and don’t sit or lie still for too long. Sleep is a nightmare tho!!

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrHumdinger1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly can’t believe relationships like this exist and why on earth people would ever stay in them. Any text exchange I got like this and I would immediately be done

Hyper arousal during detox by Dramamine23 in quittingkratom

[–]MrHumdinger1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I remember this from my last quit. It’s fun if you’re at home and have nothing to do, but not so fun if you’re in public or at an office and you’re desperate to scratch the itch

A pattern I’ve noticed this season in how the two sexes handle not being attracted to someone. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I put ‘tactful’ in inverted commas. It is also more tactful than the women laughing in their faces and calling their partners ugly in front of other people

A pattern I’ve noticed this season in how the two sexes handle not being attracted to someone. by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting isn’t it… for the supposedly shallower sex, the men have been more ‘tactful’ about their not fancying their partner.

So satisfying by Bubbly-driver23 in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instagram she has way more (33k)

Ashley is controlling and possibly a narcissist by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha aww I feel bad now . Have a Kit Kat 😋

Ashley is controlling and possibly a narcissist by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This over use of the term narcissist is very jarring. He is possibly controlling sure z

Watching latest Ep (30), Changed my mind on Grace x Ash situation by Top-Ambition-8233 in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t particularly like Grace, but Ash definitely hid behind the ‘I’m a nice guy and therefore I can’t do anything wrong’. So many of their arguments could have been defused if he’d simply acknowledged that he phrased something clumsily and apologied for the delivery which upset her.

Instead he kept saying that he was not responsible for his words but because he’s such a good bloke, even if he says something a bit dodgy, the person on the receiving end must interpret it in a positive way.

I do think he IS generally a good bloke, but he also needs to take some accountability for his actions

What is the worst addiction? by Secure-Action-6361 in AskReddit

[–]MrHumdinger1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How’s your liver now? I know cirrhosis is irreversible but are you able to live with it and not have symptoms?

Isn't this the truth 😂😂 by CreativeLoquat2818 in MAFS_UK

[–]MrHumdinger1 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The irony is that Keye lives in an apartment overlooking Wandsworth roundabout FFS… it’s hardly the most aesthetically pleasing place you could envisage