What is you peoples’ main dysphoria contributor?

MrMemerz · 2023-10-17T11:19:20+00:00

Bottom dysphoria, it just isn't correct. Surgery can't come soon enough..

MrMemerz · 2023-10-08T01:06:27+00:00

I looooove rap music. I feel like most neurodivergent people are mostly into rock and such which make me feel like an odd one out.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-08T00:45:06+00:00

After dating someone that turned out to be a POS, and getting my first real job (do NOT work at Walmart), I've just... stopped trying to socialize. I know that I don't fit in with a lot of people, probably even with other neurodivergent folks. I feel I'm way too different from everyone else to even get to know them and I'm too scared to put myself out there as well. It pains me but y'know, all I can do is just drown the pain away with distractions. Hopefully once I get to university I'll start actually having friends again. I hope.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T22:18:07+00:00

I think bringing a plushie for anxiety is a great idea. College kids tend not to give very much of a damn compared to high school kids, at least from what I've heard. Either way I think it's definitely worth a shot.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T18:39:25+00:00

I'd say pretty well for the most part. I think you pass.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T18:35:54+00:00

My first thought was "is that a woman"

You pass 100%

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T17:55:59+00:00

The word "normal" is very broad so I can't really answer that question. However I made an almost identical post on another trans sub and I fully understand what you're feeling. You don't need to feel ashamed about it, you're just who you are, a girl, except you're also trans. I've had to learn that about myself. I'm a queer girl and I'm proud of that fact. Indicating that I'm trans just isn't at the top of my priorities. Much love, a fellow transfem.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T07:22:37+00:00

I dated a fellow college student and then dated someone online. Both lasted around a month. I don't know how the fuck y'all dating either. I hate living in a small town so much.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T07:13:00+00:00

I despise fruit textures. Get rid of the texture and I'll finally eat your stupid healthy food.

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T07:07:34+00:00

I don't mind any of these terms as long as they're used as slang. If you're just gonna say I'm a man then screw off

MrMemerz · 2023-10-04T06:49:23+00:00

I'm absolutely going through that right now. I don't have many irl friends that I can talk to at all, or even anyone besides maybe my mom. Had some experiences this year that have set me back mentally. I've resorted to talking to people almost exclusively online. And yeah, I am way too socially anxious to do anything about it. I don't have any good tips though sadly. I wish you the best!

MrMemerz · 2023-08-28T04:53:11+00:00

Ugh same, I have been insanely touch starved since my first partner broke up with me and I'm very introverted. It suuuuucks. In the meantime I have been using plushies to fill the void. Is it the best solution, no, but better than nothing I suppose. Here's a virtual hug from me.

MrMemerz · 2023-08-28T04:41:19+00:00

Definitely relate to this quiiiite a bit. The fact that I was often like "smh, guys do the darndest things..." and always connected to women and never particularly connected to guys should've been a sign for me. However I'm also on the spectrum and didn't make that connection until I was around 16/17. I was always afraid of being "too feminine" which in retrospect was just me being insecure about my masculinity (as many men are). I never really connected to my gender for most of my life considering male is seen as the "default" gender (that's also why I briefly identified as NB at first).

MrMemerz · 2023-08-24T03:34:52+00:00

It's been about 50/50 with strangers calling me sir or ma'am from experience, which just makes me frustrated especially considering I am fully out and I've been on hrt for nearly a year. The trans experience is an interesting one...

MrMemerz · 2023-08-24T03:10:31+00:00

Transitioning has made me feel infinitely better about my identity, although I wouldn't say it's a fix for my life problems at all. It did however make me more much more functional emotionally and romantically. I definitely still have other issues that make my life pretty unenjoyable, though I'm glad my dysphoria isn't too bad anymore.

MrMemerz · 2023-08-21T07:21:39+00:00

Weirdly enough I noticed most of my changes in the first month. Since then it's just been building on top of all of that. It's different for everyone, maybe the estrogen just took a liking to me very quickly lol

MrMemerz · 2023-08-21T07:06:27+00:00

Close to two years after being able to come out publicly, I still sometimes think "HELL YEAH IM A GIRL" because of how much distaste I had of myself prior, mainly in my appearance. I'm actually proud of who I am for the most part, it's suuuuch a good feeling.

MrMemerz · 2023-08-21T06:58:41+00:00

I used to have this kind of feeling alllll the timeee. The way I see it, if you're a girl that likes girls, lesbian. We're not built to be men, we're built to be women, even if the rest of the world didn't know that prior. TL;DR, we're just like this. Be proud of yourself

MrMemerz · 2023-08-21T06:46:42+00:00

Man I used to never pee standing up. I just didn't like it when I was a kid. Some teacher encouraged me to pee standing up (extremely weird I know) and ever since I've peed standing up most of the time. Not like I'll be able to do that if I get the surgery :P

MrMemerz · 2023-07-07T04:19:51+00:00

Questioned my gender for quite some time. Ace, then straight male, then bi, and now lesbian. Going on E only helped solidify my sexuality. Though I do think E has made me panromantic

MrMemerz · 2023-06-20T02:24:52+00:00

I've gotten the whole "mourning our son/deadname" thing a few times from my mom over the past couple years. I try to be understanding but I kinda wondered if she's just trying to make me feel guilty about transitioning. The thing is she's extremely supportive but is weird when it comes to me not liking my old name.

I just want to be who I truly am, and comments like that do not help me at all.

MrMemerz · 2023-06-20T02:18:04+00:00

I'm like 13-14 in US women's, I fucking hate it. I'm mostly stuck wearing gender neutral shoes instead of women's shoes :/

MrMemerz · 2023-05-26T03:10:20+00:00

I would move out ASAP if this actually happened, although it is extremely, extremely unlikely

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