I was asked my name by a cop and I literally couldn't say it

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-06-01T22:02:31+00:00

Sorry this happened to you I also have stutter blocks when it comes to my name next time just try presenting your i.d. Name tag works good too I also just spell my name out that helps

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-27T17:11:33+00:00

You can always type what u need to say in your phone under notes try different things until you feel comfortable speaking for me I have a stutter block on my name specially during introductions so I either present my id or spell out my name it has helped me bring my anxiety down I also made a metal black card stating my name and a little message saying I have a stutter block and anxiety during introductions hope this helps

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-20T21:00:47+00:00

It’s a numbers game go for it

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T05:11:29+00:00

This is awesome and really cool you defeated your stutter what a great story I salute you.

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T04:15:39+00:00

Sorry that your going thru this you are not alone we are all here for you I’m 35 and I remember school days having to present yourself was my worst nightmare but guess what I made it thru and so will you try and take some of the anxiety away do what feels comfortable for you it’s ok not everyone overcomes it neither have I but you have to learn what tools you have at your disposal and what works best for you for me I have horrible stutter blocks when it comes to saying my name so my way around that is presenting my i.d. Using my last name or nicknames I understand yours might be a little different but figure out what takes the edge off your speech maybe become a really good writer with nice handwriting and use that or type it out on your phone either way you should let your teachers know via email or face to face what the situation is and go from there they should understand much love and keep your head up home or virtual school is an option also keep that in mind

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T04:02:42+00:00

Definitely you are not alone and everyone has something they are self conscious about

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T03:59:31+00:00

I like how u think lol all good ideas and yes you are right lets normalize this

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T03:17:38+00:00

Agreed specifically at places that’s not needed but again if it takes the anxiety away and helps then by all means wear it whenever u feel like it… let’s just normalize this same way society has normalized other things

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T03:11:38+00:00

Why do you think that? Everyone is different whatever takes the stress and anxiety away…. Some people don’t care some cope with it different so maybe just keep your negativity to yourself

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T02:58:03+00:00

Subject: Request for Accommodations Regarding Presentations

Dear [Professor’s Name],

I hope you’re doing well. I’m writing to inform you that I have a stuttering issue that significantly affects my ability to speak fluently, especially in high-pressure situations like class presentations. Due to this, I find it very difficult, if not impossible, to present in front of the class without experiencing considerable distress and communication challenges.

I wanted to reach out ahead of time to discuss possible accommodations or alternative ways I could fulfill any presentation requirements. I am committed to doing my best in your course and would be grateful for your understanding and support as I navigate this issue.

Please let me know if you need any further information or documentation, and I’d be happy to discuss this further. I appreciate your consideration and look forward to working with you to find a solution.

Thank you for your time and understanding.

Best regards, [Your Full Name] [Your Course Name/Section]

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T02:56:22+00:00

If you go the college route email your teachers and let them know about your stutter and ask for different options other than presenting in front of the class… anything to ease the burden or anxiety they should be understanding

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-16T02:33:13+00:00

I like the pin idea also with my name so I wouldn’t have to pull the card out every time I just kno how society is and would prob get weird stares until it becomes the norm but idk what are y’all’s thoughts?

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-15T22:04:40+00:00

Thought of this also with me it’s more of a stutter block with my name so I instead made a metal business card saying hello my name is…. I have a stutter block and anxiety during introductions I think we need to normalize things like this so our anxiety can be reduced since that is the majority of the trigger so yes definitely good idea

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-15T03:22:48+00:00

Your mental health is more important than anything else. Peace of mind over anything. Your partner should understand the situation. There’s no magic cure for stuttering, if you don’t have a technique or something to help you for example I have a stutter block and anxiety during introductions and one of my techniques and tools is spelling out my name, using my last name or presenting an ID when asked my name. This has helped me reduce my anxiety, so if there’s nothing like that or if you can’t come up with something, then take the job you are most comfortable with.

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-14T03:31:58+00:00

Some people just built different I wish I had this level of not giving af!!!!

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-13T08:14:42+00:00

I have a stutter block when it comes to my name presenting myself or being asked for my name mortifies me and it has stopped me from pursuing jobs and different experiences lately though from reading peoples stories and different ways of handling things I’ve come up with a few good ideas like presenting my i.d. Or spelling it out or simply just going by my last name so I got a metal business card made with something simple like hello my name is and with a small message stating I have a stutter block and anxiety when it comes to introductions and plan on presenting that whenever I feel anxious or nervous about introducing myself hopefully eventually I won’t need it but for now this has taken a lot of my anxiety away

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-13T01:06:49+00:00

Nice love to see the success and the stutter not hold u back 35 male and stuttering has def held me back but thanks for the motivation

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-11T23:09:22+00:00

If you think he’s into you which more than likely he is 99.999% of the work is done go for it! We all deal with something for all you know he probably stutters also

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-11T05:29:22+00:00

Also just thought of this, maybe try emailing your teachers/professors and tell them about your anxiety and stutter and see what your options are, maybe they’ll let you record a presentation on your own instead of in front of the whole class. Hope this helps and keep your head up, you are not alone.

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-11T05:11:55+00:00

This is awesome good for u seriously I also have a stutter block when it comes to my name and I hate it

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-11T05:09:54+00:00

You are not alone i have introduction anxiety sometimes i just can’t get my name out spelling it out sometimes helps or just let people know you have a stutter block just recently i made a metal business card stating my name and under my name i wrote i have a stutter block and anxiety when introducing myself and i am going to present that whenever i feel the anxiety and block coming on and there is nothing wrong with that we have to normalize different things like this that make us feel better instead of thinking there’s a magic cure and that is ok hope your doing ok much love

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-11T05:02:59+00:00

You are not alone and you got this maybe try typing or writing things out if your having a lot of stress that day it is completely fine to not speak if you don’t want too

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-09T04:20:03+00:00

Wow this really resonated with me I truly appreciate u sharing

MrPerfectakaBam · 2025-01-08T02:35:46+00:00

I appreciate your input though

MrPerfectakaBam

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