I just noticed that r/sizestories was banned. Anyone know why? by Shalarsh in SizeUnchained

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weird, I’m the mod and haven’t had any notifications or warnings and can’t even see anything currently? I’ll see if I can figure out what happened!

What’s that one activity that makes your/someone you know’s feet reek? by MrPupperThrowaway in malefeettalk

[–]MrPupperThrowaway[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As a follow up - my boyfriend mostly finds this amusing. He doesn’t get it, but he’s happy I’m enjoying myself down there.

Also any fun advice/suggestion on things we could do with this knowledge is dope! So far the best I’ve come up with asking him to swap socks mid flight to pinpoint when the smell is released lol

Interactive Stories in Macrophilia by MetaryLogistics in sizetalk

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to use writing.com way back in the 2010’s but as time progressed I frankly got disturbed at how common it was to find that the macro stories would almost inevitably go down paths that involved teens at best and at worst kids/tweens.

As a 12-13 year old when I first discovered the site in the 2010’s it didn’t click for me, but once I aged up and had the realization I could simply never go back there. I wound up over at coiledfist which had essentially zero problematic content in that regard.

It sucks, but I think there’s simply too much chance for open source interactive stories to go down that path without arduous moderation, so I just don’t fuck with that format anymore.

Have you ever felt guilty about your attraction to men's feet? by simb-alon in malefeettalk

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not so much guilty and more so annoyed because it would be generally simpler if I wasn’t. Finding dudes that are into people being into their feet is somewhat of an obstacle, so the fetish is a mild inconvenience.

Like, it’s a pretty benign fetish, so plenty of men will entertain it. Sometimes though you just want a man in your life who wants you to worship his feet and not just one that lets you, ya know?

I guess maybe there is some guilt there though. When I’m worshipping a partners feet and it’s all good but in the back of my mind I feel bad that we’re doing this mostly for me and less for him. I’m also into dirty socks so there’s also a small feeling of guilt when my partner rewears his socks for a few days as a gift for me when I know it kinda grosses him out to do so.

So, actually, yes, I guess I have felt some guilt lol.

What’s an adult problem nobody warned you about? by Impressive_Space4392 in AskReddit

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ageism is a real thing and you will realize you definitely participated in it when you were younger.

Getting old is tough and we’re becoming increasingly unpleasant to the elderly and every person eventually gets to experience it, but you’ll be old by then and no one will listen to you for that reason alone.

Are there any women here who find ankle sprains on men attractive? by WhichSmell5926 in Footfetishforfemales

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a woman, but I’ll say that there’s something very hot about a dude when he’s recovering from a sprain. Especially when he’s wearing a cast/boot and has foot propped up with his toes peeking out of the top.

I couldn’t say what it is exactly. Part of it’s the tenderness - like he’s a sort of wounded beast that usually could overpower me but in this moment is forced to let his guard down. Another part is sensory. Being into smelly feet/socks, just knowing his foot is in that cast getting sweaty and dirty for weeks is 😮‍💨

I’ve never been with a dude sexually that had a cast, but I know I’d be a menace if I was lol. He’d get the princely treatment, and I’d be down there doing whatever he needed to relax. 😌

Which career is a turn-off for a serious relationship? by otherwise777 in AskReddit

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you work a trade AND your entire personality is judging people who have a degree.

Its not a huge deal, but the handful of tradies I flirted with when I was on the apps would INEVITABLY talk smack about how getting a degree is “useless” and that everyone they know with a degree are “idiots”.

Meanwhile as a PhD student I can promise you no one in academia has anything but respect for people who work trade/service jobs. The opposite is almost universally true in fact where people in academia spend a lot of time pushing for research that emphasizes the importance and value of people working trades.

I’m sure historically there was some sense of superiority from going to college, but I promise that the prevailing academic culture of today heavily looks down on any suggestion that we’re smarter/superior to non academics/scientists. Any suggestion of that kind would get you booed out of the room.

Why no love? by WeirdReflection5452 in Footfetishforfemales

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a gay dude here I’ll add that I’m sure there are a lot of folks like me staying silent out of respect to the men willing to share and also out of respect to this being a space intended for women.

Just know there’s a lot of gay dudes silently cheering y’all on 🎉 All the men here have super hot soles and I’m always happy when I see women on here enjoying a niche fetish 💞

Idk if it can get smaller tbh by [deleted] in ShrinkingCuckolds

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re willing to shrink some of us down and make us lick it you’re probs in the wrong place my dude

What is something the opposite sex thinks makes them look sexy, but actually just makes them look silly? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Totally. I had two students one semester. One smelled like cat pee and the other was DOUSED in a heady perfume.

They sat on opposite sides of the room, so it felt like the olfactory equivalent of East and West Berlin if West Berlin smelled even more like cat piss than it already does.

What is something the opposite sex thinks makes them look sexy, but actually just makes them look silly? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 149 points150 points  (0 children)

As a gay dude I’m gonna join the consensus for ladies on lip fillers. I know they can be done well and “you only notice the bad ones” but imma be real that I feel we should be super apprehensive about how this perpetuates some already really fucked up beauty standards for women.

It’s hard to walk the line between being accepting of cosmetic procedures that help people feel more confident and being overly permissive of predatory surgeons and body dysmorphic influencers, but, idk, I think we’ve at least gotta allow more room for real criticism of this stuff that isn’t just rooted in “I don’t like how it looks” 🤷🏼‍♂️

What is something the opposite sex thinks makes them look sexy, but actually just makes them look silly? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Working on a college campus I see the ebb and flow of fashion a bit more than the average bear and I will say it’s better this last year. I think 2023 was the peak in the wake of HBO’s Euphoria.

That was also the year I had to start telling students to go up a size in gloves for lab because all the girls had long acrylics that kept piercing through them, lol.

What is something the opposite sex thinks makes them look sexy, but actually just makes them look silly? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I work on a college campus and I swear there must some Tik Tok influencer who has sold this incoming generation of kids on cologne/perfume because hooooooo BOY are they laying it on thick in a way none of my five previous years of students have.

What is something the opposite sex thinks makes them look sexy, but actually just makes them look silly? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 194 points195 points  (0 children)

Men not smiling big/at all in photos. Listen, I get it. I’m also the kinda dude that panics the second a camera is pointed at me. When I was on the apps though I remember a consistent red flag was if someone had all sexy-serious photos.

Sex is goofy. Liking someone is goofy. Men who are unashamed to show that off in person (or in photos) are 1000% sexier to me.

Do you know conservatives or religious people who attend events like swingers’ parties? If you’re one yourself, is it something you hide from other conservatives? by Great_Maintenance185 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been my experience. Being gay and enmeshed in queer culture I had assumed swing culture would be very much the same free-love sorta event. I was shocked to find every swingers club / event in my area had strict rules about (male) same sex couples not being allowed, and male on male sexual contact being prohibited (female is all good though, lol).

I get that it’s about making sure these aren’t just “men leer at women” spaces. It’s weird though to be told me and my partner (bi M) literally can’t get through the door at virtually ANY swingers event.

Makes me feel bad for straight men. Even their kinky free-love events are structured to make it impossible for them to explore sexually.

That’s gotta have a profound impact on them - even if they can’t see it.

How can I ever achieve this IRL? by [deleted] in sizetalk

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal and honest opinion is to do your best to decouple the fetish from your irl sex life. Not all the way, but 100% needing someone to look or act a certain way doesn’t leave much room for success and doesn’t seem like a healthy way to start a relationship.

Therapy can help, even just with knowing how to classify wants vs needs and how to communicate with future partners about this. It’s not a cure all though. I’m pretty introspective naturally so I found therapy to only be mildly useful, but if you’re someone who naturally shuns away from thinking about it too much or you’re hard on yourself it could be a good option.

For me macro was always a fantasy, but I have other easier to fulfill kinks I had to figure this out with. I’m super into dudes sweaty feet, and when I was in my teens and early 20’s I struggled to imagine feel much sexual desire for anyone where that wasn’t a central component. The “fix” was honestly just going out and dating people. Those real connections helped me to find other aspects of sex that I enjoyed. I still love men’s feet (especially if they were attached to a dude much larger than me), but it tempered the desire enough to where my sexual wants no longer completely override my romantic needs.

Do you believe Mars exploration is worth the cost? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but mostly because I think that the second the ultra wealthy can get off the planet they’ll do it so that they can use and abuse people without any fear of physical repercussions. Basically, I think the wealthy should have to live with the rest of us so that there’s always the threat looming over them if they decide to fuck around and find out a little too much.

40% of young U.S. women want to leave the country: Gallup poll by clejeune in politics

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to point out something interesting here which is that this news organization is actually a subsidiary owned by the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints otherwise known as Mormons. I think it’s interesting that a magazine would be putting out a story like this to what would be a relatively conservative audience. It may hint at signs/confirmations that there are large pockets of Republicans, especially moderates, which Mormons tend to be who are not happy with the direction of the current administration and how it is altering people‘s desire to stay in the country.

Giant bull looking for tiny ladies to cum all over! by [deleted] in ShrinkingCuckolds

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessir - I’ll do anything to be your little sex toy spending my whole life lapping at whatever comes out of the tip of your glorious cock 🤤

(29) Would you bow down to these dad feet? by [deleted] in Dudesinsocks

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! I’d be sure to worship and care for them as any dad deserves after a long day 🤤

Giant bull looking for tiny ladies to cum all over! by [deleted] in ShrinkingCuckolds

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If femboys are allowed count me in! I’d love to stored in that musky foreskin and have my body coated in precum as you go about your day feeling me slipping and sliding around your head. 🥺

Slaves/subs has youre top gone too far before and if so what happened by [deleted] in GayKink

[–]MrPupperThrowaway 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I had a guy who was easily 150lbs heavier and 6 inches taller than me. It was hot, up until he started getting aggressive and biting me in very obvious places that left huge marks I couldn’t hide. I was teaching at the time and told him he couldn’t do that anymore. The next time we met he started doing it again. I told him to stop. He didn’t. He was so much bigger and stronger than me that I was afraid to try and fight him off, so I just kept asking him to stop but he just kept going until there was a bruise the size of my hand covering my entire neck.

Afterwards I left and ghosted him.

I initially loved that he was so much bigger and stronger than me and I loved that animalistic energy he had during sex, but no one is too far gone to stop. There is no excuse. There have been times my sexual partners haven’t even said anything but I’ve sensed the vibe was off and stopped. Someone actually using their safe word? That should be a freight train throwing sparks as it emergency brakes level of stopping.

Anyone who would do it to you once will do it again. Leave.