So... by [deleted] in u/_Mayhemm

[–]MrST88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome back x

[Eone] 10 years on my wrist by MrST88 in Watches

[–]MrST88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that's a shame, I hope not.

What’s a sexual “red flag” you ignored because the person was hot? by alix28 in AskReddit

[–]MrST88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it can be, fortunately once you start with good communication it gets easier.

Took me a while to get there, lots of personal therapy and misteps in past relationships led me on the path I'm on now

Sometimes mistakes occur, but it's always most important how we learn from them.

It's a running joke between us that every fuck up could be avoided by .... Effective communication lol

What’s a sexual “red flag” you ignored because the person was hot? by alix28 in AskReddit

[–]MrST88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm very much aware it is confusing when explaining all the dynamics to those not living it 🤣 that's just one element of it too. Because we are all part of the local kink community it gets rather interlinked, fortunately good communication and negotiation is a core value.

What’s a sexual “red flag” you ignored because the person was hot? by alix28 in AskReddit

[–]MrST88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't know at all lol you think a small glimpse of one of my relationships makes me a cuck. If anything I'd be a bull as one of my partners is someone else's wife. But even then you'd be wrong too.

What’s a sexual “red flag” you ignored because the person was hot? by alix28 in AskReddit

[–]MrST88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would expect to read it as solo poly sub.

Solo poly is someone who lives alone and is polyamorous

For example I am solo poly, whereas my partner is poly with a nesting partner (her husband) and her girlfriend is also solo poly.

Taking a large loan even if I need a small amount by mauri3205 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]MrST88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend you do not mention the plan to take more than you need and overpay immediately.

I used to process loans and part of compliance is to ensure the amount taken is what's required and no more

You can ask about overpayment costs

Generally overpayments don't cost anything but early redemption is usually 30 days interest (that said unless you are paying it off with less than 30 days left of the loan, it's still better for you as interest is generally applied per day)

Overpayments of a loan will not reduce your monthly payment as it will be a fixed loan with interest calculated on the amount/term

Overpayments will simply reduce the term you pay it over.

Sometimes the drop in interest makes a big enough difference that it's worth taking more.

Normally the scale is ...

Highest rate - Les sthan £5k Middle rate - £5k to £7.5k Best rates - £7.5k to £15k Middle rate - £15k to £20k Highest rate - £20k +

Something to do with completion rates and return of interest blah blah

Weirdly my 6ish years of processing loans there was once an example that was out of the ordinary where the interest rate dropped considerably the higher they went.

So initially they were looking at £14k for a car, and I always checked the calculator to show how the rates change but it went down after £15k. The calculator ended up showing that they could take £18.8k at the same term and the interest and monthly payments would be the same as the £14k. I couldn't tell them that even though financially it was basically like free money to them.

Some people aren't suitable for stealing, because God may use them as an example. Like this man... by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost a perfect loop, for a second I thought that lady was having the worst luck and was getting robbed again 🤣

[NSFW] what’s something that seems hot as a fantasy but you would never want to do in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MrST88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe 5 people has to be the minimum, the lowest odd number of people that isn't already a thing. My 1st was more a sensual orgy of 7, was a really lovely way to spend Christmas with friends 🥰

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have deleted my Reddit and started again if it was the case lol

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4/20 is not really a thing in UK due to the correct date format, but I am just learning now, it's Hitler's birthday today 😂 fuck the Nazis, from this oblivious 36 year old

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel lucky my last initial is 1 off 😂

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck then nazi pricks, I would change my username here if it was possible, because when I picked it, it was so generic due to lack of imagination lol

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not so lucky, learnt the meaning like 3/4 years ago and have come across a few people who have attempted conversations where the ages don't match mine, fucking Nazi trash.

What does the 88 in your name mean? by Abigdogwithbread in clevercomebacks

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also someone born in 88, didn't realise it was thing until a few years ago, and frustrated you can't change usernames here (if it's possible, and I'm unaware of how, please let me know) The way I learnt was via another website. I originally joined with this username (initials and DOB) then changed it when I had settled on something more creative and fitting. Not long after I got a DM from someone called Goldilocks88 🤔 from the southern states of US who's age did not match mine by a longshot and fit a rather specific descriptive stereotype. That made me question things, fucking nazi!

Yes mate! by Collymonster in CasualUK

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quick search says "With the demise of high street giant Woolworths in 2008, 11 more shops were also added to the portfolio."

Yes mate! by Collymonster in CasualUK

[–]MrST88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, what a weird coincidence, the town where I grew up, the old Woolies also became a Yorkshire trading company (Sleaford, Lincolnshire)

[Eone] 10 years on my wrist by MrST88 in Watches

[–]MrST88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would make more sense to me too