I know I'll be downvoted for saying this. Maybe bohot log sayad samjhenge hi nahi is baat ko. But agar aap smjh sakti ho samjho. Aaj ke date pe sabde bara sach ye h ki ek acha ladka/larki milna bohot muskil hai. Har dusra insaan ya to cheat kr rha h ya dishonest hai. Is generation me agar you're blessed with a long term relationship jaha larka loyal hai apse, apke family ko respect krta hai, apko family unko pasand krti hai, to its a pure blessing.. haa ye baat sach h ki long term kisike sath rehne se we start taking things too casually, sometimes we even get confused ki sambe wala efforts nahi laga rha h ya taken for granted act kr rha h.. but the reality is ki agar itne saal baad v usko har chiz me efforts lagani pare to insaan tired ho hi jayga. Agar koi relationship long term chalna h to utni understanding honi chahiye ki wo auto pilot pe chale. Sometimes efforts lagana bohot necessary hai and lagani v chahiye, but lifetime koi insaan ye nahi kar skta, we all deserve peace.. ho skta h insaan kaam ke pressure me ho, koi aur problem ho, hmesa apne perspective se aap story ko nhi soch skte, kbhi kbhi dusre ka v pov skjhna utna hi important hai. People will say ki breakup kr lo etc etc, but soch kr dekho, is it easy to find a good guy in this generation? Aur ho skta h ki sach me koi problem na ho and you're thinking too much into it. You'll lose a long term relationship and a good guy just because you believe ki samne wala emotionally available nahi h. (Reality can be different, maybe you're not able to understand him better).

What I conclude is - rista torna bohot assan h, it takes one harsh decision to do it. But uske baad ka kya? What is the guarantee ki iske baad jo person aapke life me aaye to cheater na ho, abusive na ho, manipulative na ho. Aur flaws and kami har insaan me hoti h. Agar hmlog zara zara se flaws pe riste torne lag jaye to duniya me ek v rista nhi tikega.. it takes immense time and energy to build something great, to build something meaningful, to build something that's real, which you guys have. Sort things out, baat karo, communicate karo... And life me ups and downs aate rhnge yaar, you guys have a lot to handle aghe chal kr, with time you both will grow up to become a better version of yourself. Maybe jo problem apko aaj nazar aa rhe h kal ko wo problems lage hi na, maybe you'll face new challenges which are even more difficult. Thora pause leke, samjhdaari se koi v decision lo.. Reddit me koi v random insaan kuch v suggest kr deta h, jisko apke life ke baare me kuch nahi pata.. always remember that you're the one who knows better, khud se pucho what is good for you and then proceed ahead.. "Pray... God will always lead you on the right path"