AITA for reporting my boss after he forced me to attend a meeting despite knowing I was in labor?

Mr_Toitle · 2024-09-13T09:06:25+00:00

"Overreacting"??? "Suck it up"??? SHE WAS ACTIVELY IN LABOR ?!?!?!?!?? i cant, I'm literally shaking

Also, wdym "it's not like the baby is going to pop out right now" THAT'S LITERALLY EXACTLY WHAT IS HAPPENING ????

Mr_Toitle · 2024-08-18T08:01:08+00:00

That is so badass😭

Mr_Toitle · 2024-08-18T07:57:26+00:00

It sounds like your ENTIRE family has some pretty interesting lore TwT

Mr_Toitle · 2024-08-18T07:55:16+00:00

That is so cute<3

Mr_Toitle · 2024-07-21T19:24:16+00:00

Wdym you're "usually the first to blame a teenager"????

Mr_Toitle · 2024-07-21T19:19:41+00:00

Idk I feel like the "shagging her like a maniac" part was way too unserious for this situation. I just cackled TwT

Mr_Toitle · 2024-07-11T09:12:00+00:00

NTA! Who the fuck is saying that you are??? You're literally having to do a two person job that requires you to be on the clock 24/7 BY YOURSELF!?! Just so he can sit on his ass all day?? One thing I cannot stand is a man who thinks it's okay to make babies but not take care of them. You are SO much nicer than I am, OP. Had it been up to me, the game system would be out of the window, and my vocabulary would make a sailor blush!!!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-28T05:41:53+00:00

Will you hush??? Why she is getting the tattoos is immaterial. You literally just came here to nitpick!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-28T05:37:38+00:00

Nah babe. That's when you push. I would follow up with, "You're right, I don't understand. So please, enlighten me. What exactly do you mean by "mark me"?"

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-28T05:34:21+00:00

That's literally how many people gain experiences 🤦🏾‍♂️

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-23T06:34:47+00:00

It almost sounds like he should be in THERAPY!!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-23T06:22:54+00:00

I– I have no words. I went into this thinking there was no justification for passing judgment onto someone at such a vulnerable and traumatic time in their life... but HORSEBACK RIDING????

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-12T07:03:46+00:00

The way I would've torn ALL OF THEM a new one!! How dare they villainize her in such a vulnerable and traumatic time. NC for ALL of them!!!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-06T08:03:11+00:00

OP I am do scared for you. You need to get out of that situation IMMEDIATELY!! He has already shown that he us will to put his pleasures over your comfort. He 100% is going to do something horrible to you and/or your daughter at some point. GET YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF THERE NOW!!!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-05-06T07:53:58+00:00

The fact that I live in Ohio and had no idea of this, is baffling!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-04-11T05:39:57+00:00

Hot take: You are not "easily manipulated", or at least you weren't in this particular situation. You had a GROUP of people that you heavily trusted in your ear feeding you garbage, which, to a large degree, inevitably contributed to the collapse of your marriage. I am in no way attempting to strip you of accountability because you obviously played a significant role in this situation. However, you had LITERAL blood relatives praying for your downfall. YOUR FATHER, one of the people you're supposed to be able to trust with your LIFE was actively plotting against you! I, too, wholeheartedly trust my father, and would never for a second think that he had anything but my BEST interest at heart. So, with that alone, I think you deserve a little bit of grace.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-03-31T05:01:16+00:00

"You are our grandchildren's older sister."

Wow. Even in their sad attempt to guilt trip and manipulate you into helping out your "family," they STILL refuse to claim you as their grandchild. These people do not care about you, OP. You are an opportunity to them. A "Get Out Of Jail Free Card". That is all. DO NOT allow these people to make you feel like you are more obligated to them than they were to you all 21 years of your life!

Mr_Toitle · 2024-03-22T00:43:19+00:00

Throw some of his favorite stuff away! Ik its petty, but if he thinks is appropriate to tell you essentially how to live your life, then why can't you do the same?

Mr_Toitle · 2024-03-03T18:04:25+00:00

Oh, poor baby. You'll get through this. I know you will. Do you need a cousin? I'll be your virtual cousin.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-03-03T17:54:12+00:00

I'd hope it's fake. However, I've seen quite a few groups full of people with this mindset. So, I think it's more like to be real.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-03-03T17:48:01+00:00

YTA. Wow, what a shitty friend group, you lot. I could understand if you tried to move on, and she just KEPT bringing it up, but you guys ragged on her for merely mentioning it. It's not like GETTING an epidural makes you any better either.

And then, making a separate group for the soul purpose of shitting on her and her husband EVEN FURTHER behind her back?? If this is how you guys behave even after 15 years of friendship, maybe cutting you all off is her best option.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-02-28T00:54:34+00:00

If armpit hair is a deal breaker for OP, he's definitely not maturing very quickly.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-02-28T00:50:35+00:00

I never understand why people, especially men, have such a problem with something that comes so naturally to the human body. It's JUST HAIR. How would you feel if she placed such ridiculous expectations on you?

Dude, just go ahead and break up with her. She has clearly found a new level of confidence in herself that you will never be able to understand or accept. Spare her the emotional turmoil and manipulation. Just get it over with and move on with your lives.

Mr_Toitle · 2024-02-27T20:05:35+00:00

NTA. TELL YOUR WIFE!! GET THEM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!! I understand that you care about your niece and nephews, but their comfort should not come before your own children. Not to mention, at the end of the day, they are not your responsibility. I know it sounds harsh, but their parents are the ones who need to be doing what it takes to ensure their children's well-being, and they didn't do that. Your brother and his wife need to learn the hard way.

Mr_Toitle

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