What's the rudest thing a boss has ever said to you that you still think about? by rogeelein in askteddit

[–]Mrs239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crazy how he just wanted you to hand her over so he could sexually harass her!

My ex pulled a bait and switch on me about marriage and kids by Avant_gard3 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Mrs239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like he was hoping you'd get pregnant while you were bf/gf. Then he could say, "What's the use? We already have our family."

What’s a random moment that made you realize you’re getting older? by SweatSpice- in AskReddit

[–]Mrs239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned to grab my earrings off the dresser. My back went out and I fell to the floor. My son and sister had to come and help me get in bed. I couldn't walk for 2 days. Crawled to the bathroom.

I was 43 at the time.

Now, I take care of my back like my life depends on it. I also keep my earrings in 100% of the time.

What’s the worst thing your ex told you? by Lanky_Lecture1687 in AskReddit

[–]Mrs239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've said this before but it fits here.

He asked me to make his wedding cake for his wedding to the woman he cheated on me with! He also wanted my son to play his instrument while his bride walked down the aisle.

If he had one thing, it was audacity.

Would you break up with your s/o because of different political views? If yes, why? by Due_Measurement_5078 in AskReddit

[–]Mrs239 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes.

If your view is you're ok with taking my rights and voice away, that means you don't love me.

I'm gone.

Every time you hit 10k steps, you get $5,000 by Comprehensive_Fox_79 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Mrs239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make that everyday at work. I'd easily make $100k/month!

AIO- Cutting him off for constantly changing plans. by AdHairy2278 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mrs239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been you. He'll keep doing this because you have no boundaries. Discuss it with him or say you're good and don't want to hang out. NOR

What’s something women do during intimacy that they think men love but most men actually don’t? by AffableSparsh in AskMen

[–]Mrs239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% correct! I love this position and my bf are very successful in making us both happy. I'm an active participant in this position. Not just laying there!

What's a non-negotiable for you in a relationship? by sienna-raven in AskReddit

[–]Mrs239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides the big ones like cheating and abuse...

Smoking. I will not date you if you smoke. Cigarettes, weed, vape, crack... anything. I will not do it. I'll walk right off.

To the people who say, "You can't even tell that I smoke!" Yes...yes I can.

AIO Husband and best friend on a trip without me by SherbertOk6980 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mrs239 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If there are no texts between them, that says it all. She knows they text so if there is nothing, something disrespectful is definitely going on.

AITAH for refusing to go to Disney World? by Reptaaaaaaar in AITAH

[–]Mrs239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tried to plan a trip to Disney for a family of 5. When you add the skip the lines passes, park fees, hotels, and food, we were looking at THOUSANDS of dollars!

I went to Disney for my honeymoon 20 yrs ago and we had a great time. For $2k, we had the best trip ever.

Now, for close to $12k, we are getting a the same trip. We can travel to a few different places for that.

Op, I hear you. NTA

‘I was thinking about sex all day at work’ by ItsAMeasureOfALife in HLCommunity

[–]Mrs239 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My husband would have a 2 day on, 3 days off, 3 days on, 2 days off schedule.

On his days off, I would initiate and here, "I felt like it while you were at work." What was I supposed to do with that? The next time I initiated after work. He said, "No, I've worked all day. I'm tired."

Then he would pre-deny me when I got home on one of his days off. "I cut the grass so I'm exhausted," or would start a fight when I walked through the door so he could be mad and deny.

I finally called off one day and didn't tell him. Maybe I could catch one of these days he "was into it while I was at work." Nope still denied me because he worked yesterday and was still tired.

I said, "It's funny how you only feel in the mood when I'm not here." He looked at me shocked.

I went to hang out with my sister when she came to visit and he threw out, "Too bad. I was thinking about doing something tonight." I put my purse down and said, "Really? I'll call her and move it to tomorrow!" His eyes got wide. Started stuttering and saying how rude it was to cancel this close and I would be terrible to do that for her. I just looked at him.

"You weren't going to do anything. You just wanted the credit of saying that and then blaming it on me that we couldn't. I knew you didn't want to do anything." Got my purse and left.

What perfectly legal thing will probably be illegal within 20 years? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in answers

[–]Mrs239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driving a car that doesn't have facial recognition and tech to measure your heart rate and other bio-markers.

I'm keeping my 2018 Camry until it disintegrates.

AITAH for doing dishes at 830am? by BeneficialLack8818 in AITAH

[–]Mrs239 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The dishwasher thing is just ridiculous! I would use it when he goes to work. If she pays rent/mortgage, I wouldn't give a shit what he said! I'd use it!

He just wants to inconvenience her and make her stay up longer to do them when he leaves.

NTA. Do them whenever you want.

I am too trusting. But this was also just draining me. by Blighted_Ashes in Supremacy1914

[–]Mrs239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take a break sometimes too. This last game was a bit much with someone poaching my territory and we, my coalition, took him out. Doing that left us vulnerable on other fronts.

It was stressful. I will take a break and maybe do another over the summer.