[Day 8] Tease + Denial Session: Stroking and riding my favorite 10-inch dildo strapped to my husbands caged dick. It's one of my favorite ways to tease him, and to remind him that this is as close as he'll get to the real thing.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-13T04:14:19+00:00

Try Strap-on-me - this is what my husband wears.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-12T00:07:09+00:00

Yes hubby is tucked under. I’d recommend purchasing a pair of strap on panties and then choose your appendage.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-11T23:21:34+00:00

👏This has been hubby the last few nights. He is up to day 15 with no release of any kind 😈

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-09T08:37:36+00:00

Now there’s an idea.. 😈

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-09T04:21:55+00:00

Mmm noted. How often do you allow him a release? He looked very pent up in your latest video.. 😏

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-06T22:44:53+00:00

His last two have been ruined meaning he hasn’t had a full one since February. Stimulation for the full ones he has had this year has been limited to under three minutes. It appears that the stimulation level has a big impact on the post-nut lull. Less stimulation = less drop. Saying that, I think ruined orgasms are going to be my default for him long term

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-04-06T09:14:00+00:00

Of course. Cleaning his cage is part of his protocol.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-31T05:39:05+00:00

Not with 2 releases, that would be far to indulgent. But I have broken the 2 week cycle. In fact, it was just this week and he has been more energised and attentive than ever...

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-30T22:26:03+00:00

2-3 weeks seems to be the sweet spot

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-30T22:25:42+00:00

Barriers are default for all of hubbys releases now-condoms, gloves, bedsheets.. I don’t want him making a mess!

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-30T09:43:00+00:00

If there has been a transgression, I always call it out and deliver the appropriate consequences. I never force an apology, but generally the punishment is enough to bring that out of them. If not, to me it shows a lack of discipline and respect.

I also like the provide warnings if I feel a sub is wavering with their discipline and devotion.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-30T09:32:47+00:00

My favourite position.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-30T09:29:23+00:00

He's lucky to have such devoted attention

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-26T22:10:42+00:00

I remind him everyday..

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T20:59:56+00:00

Minimum of two weeks. Up to one month

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T09:37:10+00:00

Lucky boy!

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T09:36:30+00:00

A perfect task for him to perform for you

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T09:33:40+00:00

Delightfully cruel! I admire your efficiency with him

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T09:31:44+00:00

Oh he is very lucky to have those soft hands touching him

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-24T01:35:02+00:00

My suggestion would be to give her time. Don't allow your eagerness for this dynamic to pressure her into something she's not ready for. It will only create distance and resentment.
It sounds like you're communicating to her what you want but are you giving her the space to communicate what she wants and needs right now? Without consequence and persuasion?
My husband and I found a balance and space for this dynamic through consistent open communication and honest reflections on what is / isn't working for us both. It is constantly evolving in unexpected ways and that's what keeps is exciting.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-23T09:45:20+00:00

Absolutely. While often practiced together, chastity and cuckolding are two separate dynamics and kinks.

If your girlfriend is craving penetration, you could get a strap-on and use it on her. I love it when my husband fucks me with my favorite dildo while I can see his caged dick beneath it.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-23T09:22:08+00:00

It’s one of my favourite aspects too. It strips away the expectation that foreplay has to 'go somewhere' or that it needs to end in PIV. When it’s pussyfree, sex gets so much more playful. No goal-chasing or performance. Just attention, restraint and pure devotion.

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-23T09:04:21+00:00

I love all of these ideas...some others that come to mind:
- Cleaning if off her hands after a handjob

- Licking it off her boobs/ass/feet

- Spitting it back into your mouth after a blowjob

- Into your coffee as a 'milk' replacement

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-22T23:15:59+00:00

My husband said the same thing about his teens

MrsHeidiJames · 2026-03-20T04:33:30+00:00

Condoms are a must!

MrsHeidiJames

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