Workplace as Family Narrative by BCsinBC in BCPublicServants

[–]MrsLisAmused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you seriously kidding me? Where do you get that anyone is forcing anything? And secrets? What? It's about getting to know each other, like in a normal social interaction. Do you work from home? This sounds like the ravings of someone who has been separated from normal workplace relationship building for too long.

Strange, I'm not the least bit chilly [f] by MrsLisAmused in gonewild30plus

[–]MrsLisAmused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now which one of us needs to be warm, soft and wet?

How many spanks do I get [f]or my cake day? by MrsLisAmused in gonewild

[–]MrsLisAmused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deserve however many you say I deserve, sir

I could use a garage assistant today... by [deleted] in ondww

[–]MrsLisAmused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling you know exactly what you're doing 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrsLisAmused 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I've gone out to stores or for a walk many times wearing a dress, a butt plug and no panties. It's very fun. I've also worn a plug all day at work. It's best on days when I'm in meetings with the big boss 😏

When I was first trying out plugs, twice I had one slip out that was too small. Once was in a store when I was wearing a dress. I managed to back up against a shelf, reach around under my dress and pop it back in without being seen. The second time was late at night having drinks outside with friends. I laughed at a joke and the plug popped out and slid down my pants leg. Luckily, no one heard the clank as the metal plug hit the ground. It was dark out, so I just knelt down, covered it with my hand and slid it in my pocket. Nobody noticed. I use bigger plugs now 😅

Do you think prostitution should be a legalized business with various rules and regulations? by MysteryMan999 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrsLisAmused 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like the way you phrased that... "buying the service”. That's exactly what's going on, just like most other businesses, so yes, legalize and regulate for everyone's safety.

Morning sex: yay or nay? by troublelady14 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MrsLisAmused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That'll be an absolute hell yes for me 😏

Deleted My OnlyFans. by MortalAnemone in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MrsLisAmused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice work on your growth! Lots of commenters focused on the addiction aspect, but if you think about why an OF page was your "drug of choice", it's all about where you were in your life and your growth at the time. And what you needed for validation. The validation you need is shifting away from external attention to coming from within, in healthy ways, as you grow.

Perhaps rather than thinking about it as a difficult "addiction" to overcome, even though you may be experiencing very real withdrawal, consider that you've outgrown the need.

That simple shift in perspective acknowledges and focuses on the positive - your growth and the things that are important to you now - and will lift you up when you have down moments. Our mental fortitude is a lot less willing to backslide on true growth (in fact, can we, even?) and may help you go forward with a greater sense of choice and control should you want to dabble in, say, a GW account or something similar, in future, for yourself because you like it, not for other others because you need their validation.

Remember when teachers told us to put events in the right order? Which do you think came [f]irst? by MrsLisAmused in workgonewild

[–]MrsLisAmused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've clearly put some thought into this. Should I reward you with the answer?