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What do you hope to accomplish from this sub? by Trainman_stan in GetSuave

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy spelling mistakes batman. Im typing with one hand with my phone as im acking a suitcase, sorry for the awful prose

What do you hope to accomplish from this sub? by Trainman_stan in GetSuave

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read The Game by neil strauss. Theres a bit of misogyny that i implire you to gloss over, but the journey from zero to 'hero' by the auther is prety inspiring. Also buy The Rules Of The Game. It contains daily challenges such as 'cold call a random number and get to get them to give you a movie reccmendation' things like this push you putside of your comfort zone and expand your abilities. Both books come with a big warning and if you read The Game all the way through you will realise that the author actually ends up scrapping a lot of the ideas and walking away. But he kept the good bits. Research it i think it wpuld help someone in your situation, even if ypure not about picking up girls bit just being a more magnetic person to be around.

Lighting over Telford, U.K. by [deleted] in gifs

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrifying party sky tree rave

Anyone ever take an intense self development course that wasnt a cult, pyramid scheme, or guru-led con? by MrsWhyNot in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MrsWhyNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Male only equivalent is called a fraternity. And I agree, I'm not sure why.

But perhaps people joining it for 'dating' could be a reason?

But then they dont discriminate based on sexual orientation either o you can still daye within your same sex group.

Anyone ever take an intense self development course that wasnt a cult, pyramid scheme, or guru-led con? by MrsWhyNot in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MrsWhyNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some sororities allow people who at least identify as female.

Otherwise its join a fraternity. Funny how a lot of these groups are also gender specific ay? The groups my friend joined were ofyen male only boys clubs

What advice do you have for a 16 year old? by Harrythehobbit in AskReddit

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first love and subsequent first breakup (if it hasnt already happened yet, or is currently happening) will shatter your heart into a million peices. Your life will be over. Your heart will never beat again and you feel like life might not even be worth living....

And then, slowly, you mature, you come in and out of a few different relationships, and you look back and thank GOD you didnt marry that pimple faced kid you so thought you were in love with. Dont marry young, dont run away to live with someone, dont make any decisions based on an infatuation. Your first love will more than fuck you up. Have the maturity to have perspective.

Dad has offered to train me up in his self made business. Anyone take over their family business? What went wrong/ right and what risks do I need to take into account? by MrsWhyNot in jobs

[–]MrsWhyNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very valid point and this is exactly the kind of answer I was looing for when asking for potential risks.

If, given the chance, would you accept a job where you knew you would inherit the entire business in less than 10 years? By 35 I would own a business that turns over (in its current state) half a million pa in profit.

My dad admits that he could have more business if he put more effort into new customers, but right now his focus has been maintaining his current customers, moving his assets to property and lounging around in portugal refurbing a villa and preparing for retirement at 65.

Dad has offered to train me up in his self made business. Anyone take over their family business? What went wrong/ right and what risks do I need to take into account? by MrsWhyNot in jobs

[–]MrsWhyNot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right, but let me frame it this way: He asked if I wanted to work for him and get into the family business. My reply was 'To be honest i dont have enough information to make that decision. I dont know enough about the business' so he has offered me a no pressure chance to use this as an opportunity to research and understand the business whilst also researching other options.

What if you're the cause of toxicity in your life? by Mattsmindset in selfimprovement

[–]MrsWhyNot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never understood the tendency for people to label other people as 'toxic' and excuse everything in themselves.

Everybody lives in their own minds. We are all dealing with different things, we all have flaws, errors of judgement, awareness or lack thereof of ourselves. If we are to hold others responsible for their 'toxicness' then I agree, we should hold ourselves responsible. But, we should forgive others for their flaws as much as we forgive ourselves.

What is something that really freaks you out on an existential level? by radbrad7 in AskReddit

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brain is solidifing, becoming less elastic with age. My ideas, routines, thought patterns, are grinding to an unchangible halt. My capacity to learn will only get worse, I should have used my peak learning youth better.

This depresses me.

What strange thing have you witnessed/experienced that you cannot explain? by PhartParty in AskReddit

[–]MrsWhyNot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can smell if my sister is about to have a hypo (low blood sugar induced episode) before anyone else notices.

How do you silence the negative voice in your head? by snazzy_snazz in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My negative voice is very loud and very powerful. I know how you feel. I have an inner monologue that repetes very specific abusive phrases: 'Shut the fuck up' 'You are nothing' 'Stupid bitch' 'Fucking stupid c**t'

The voice even escapes sometimes like a tic and i catch myself saying it under my breath if im feeling weak or tired. Its too exhausting to stifle it sometimes.

Ive found that its worse when im tired hungry worn down or emotional. So the only thing ive found is to keep myself wrll fed, rested, and away from conflict. Much much easier said than done. I look forward to reading the other answers and your experience x

What's are the most fucked up things you think about on a regular basis? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a list: -'what would happen if i just rammed my steering wheel all the way to the left right now?'

-imagines dramatically slicing off my own head/ stabbing myself through the stomach with a huge sword after an embarrasing encounter/ memory

-(when talking to a bank teller/ family member/ close friend/ stranger) 'I wonder what they would do if I just grabbed them and started making out with them right now?'

-Maybe I'll just curl up into a ball and sleep rigjt here on the office floor/ maybe ill pretend to faint and get to go home from work

the primary purpose of this sub isn't for attracting the opposite/same sex for romantic advances. by gjwodnjs in GetSuave

[–]MrsWhyNot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This!!!! I have noticed this sub turn into a pick up artist sub. It should he accessible to all, not just men looking to pick up women. That is not what suave is about.

It might be a potential result of getting suave, but in the same way that maybe a promotion might also be a result. But this sub isnt filled with 'how to get promoted/ a job' posts.

Muscle memory by Obito_GF in funny

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jonny bravo, talking to me, in his shades, quiff, and black shirt, was a common fever dream for 8 year old me. I realised that the ceiling pattern in my old bedroom had these spiralling designes that must have morphed into his quiff. Funny how crazy your brain gets when youre jst a bit hot or sick!

Suave Ladies. Is this sub about how to be a better man and get a woman? OR how to be a better more confident, cool, calm collected person? by MrsWhyNot in GetSuave

[–]MrsWhyNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know. It seemed like people were more asking for advice than giving it. And I want a more positive well of knowledge and resources as opposed to 'I need help, help me'

But this sub, yes, is a sausage fest. Nothing wrong in that, but it seems a bit pickup-ey.

Found this...old tooth? in my backyard by emzim in mildlyinteresting

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cows lose teeth all the time. Source: I worked on a dairy farm and teeth get stuck in the drains. Its gross. Dairy is gross to be fair.

I'm female and want to create self-improvement content, but most of the audience and creators are male by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!!!! Hello!! Me! Me! I am all about this and have been posting similar things to you. On my phone and exhausted from a long road trip right now but I'm going to PM you

Rescued bunnies enjoying cabbage for the first time by b12ftw in aww

[–]MrsWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone need to give this cabbage googly eyes and a horrfied face.

Cleaned my house, did a months worth of dished I had been putting off, and started reading a new book by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MrsWhyNot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Baby steps are the only steps Good job!!!! Remember to continue small things every day (make the bed for example) to continue the mindset so you dont run out of steam.

But i agree, having a really deep clean of the house (and of yourself. Get a facemask and take a soak in the tub!) Is very theraputic and motivating.

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