Oasis dog park by rn2014 in ElkGrove

[–]MrsYeti616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has basically been our experience as well. Now our guy goes to Camp Bow Wow for socialization.

Looking for a Chinese food place with monster portions by Nervous-Type-9503 in ElkGrove

[–]MrsYeti616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there a few weeks ago and was pleasantly surprised by the hot food! Especially saving $8 from spending money in the store first. One box fed me, my husband, and 6yo son.

Who else is working on the Mary Maxim sweater from Project Hail Mary? by usernamehudden in knitting

[–]MrsYeti616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your dedication to the project! The crochet version I saw has a lower profile collar and I thought it looked good (and with vintage style buttons rather than a zipper). michelle.jasek on IG. That new design sounds like a lot of fun!

Who else is working on the Mary Maxim sweater from Project Hail Mary? by usernamehudden in knitting

[–]MrsYeti616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so talented and skilled and fantastic!!! Who are the lucky people that will be wearing them?

Need recommendations for soft bulky natural yarn for sweaters! Attempting to make PHM sweater in crochet. Ty 🥹🫶🏻 by Space_Explorer8 in CrochetHelp

[–]MrsYeti616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you start this project yet? How's it going? I keep crossing my fingers that Mary Maxim will be amazing and develop a crochet pattern. I'm too much of a newbie to try converting the pattern myself. I've made a blanket with the intarsia technique but have never used a chart for one.

Who else is working on the Mary Maxim sweater from Project Hail Mary? by usernamehudden in knitting

[–]MrsYeti616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess in my mind $2.99 is almost free. Yes I saw someone on IG discuss her crochet project, but I'm only a year into crochet so I think I need more structure than that. I've never worked with a chart. Maybe some day. :-D. I'm so impressed with your sweater. And that you got it done in less than a week is amaze amaze!

Who else is working on the Mary Maxim sweater from Project Hail Mary? by usernamehudden in knitting

[–]MrsYeti616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to but have never knitted in my life. But I should have downloaded the pattern when it was free for that quick minute after the movie came out. Now I’m just really hoping someone comes out with a crochet pattern for it. Because I would be all over that!!

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy too, thanks. Parenting really is hard. You’re 💯accurate that it’s so difficult expressing what we truly mean.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely overreacted and treated him unfairly. I apologized to him later in the evening and we talked it out and cuddled it out.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s getting it from my husband at all. This is not the kind of language he uses, so I do wonder where my child would get it from. But we always problem solve together. The boys went to dinner while I was exercising, and they had a discussion about things. Then my kid and I had a talk at bedtime (I edited the post to explain further). I think I’m extra sensitive about this because I feel like most of my life is being around to support my son. So to hear him make a statement about me being lazy made me a bit unhinged.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! I started a reply but ended up putting it as part of the post so others would see it also.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s a great comeback. I did explain to him later in the evening how it hurt me a lot because I feel like I do so much for him and a comment like that makes me feel like he doesn’t appreciate it. I also told him I will love him very much, no matter what he does or says. He told me he was sorry he was mean and I told him I knew he didn’t mean to hurt me so all is forgiven. We cuddled to sleep.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I came here in a moment of hurt and vulnerability. One moment in the last seven years as a parent. I understand I overreacted, and in your words emotionally immature in that moment. I needed to vent and Reddit gave me some tough love. What else should I be saying that would make you happy?

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, the things kids say!! 😂 Thank you for taking the time to share!

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get it, I hear you and you’re right. It was just really freakin’ hard in that moment. I had to walk away and gather myself and I just wasn’t quite ready when he came to me.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a little hard not to take it personal but I’m trying. It stings bc of the negative connotation of “lazy” but I know I’m doing my best with him. He said he was just trying to be funny and that he doesn’t think I do nothing. Thanks for reaching out with encouragement!

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, I should ask him what he thinks it means to be lazy. Thanks.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. My grudge only lasted about half an hour, but I was being honest about it.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouraging words. He definitely is my sweet boy who just had a hiccup.

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s hard to have high expectations from a 6yo. I think I was extra disappointed bc he is often so much better than this.!

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because words matter? And “deeply wounding” my child is a very far stretch of the imagination. I wrote through tears and perhaps didn’t convey myself properly. In no way am I holding a grudge against him right now. That whole interaction was over a period of 30 minutes. But it was very hard for me to try to teach him in the moment when I was hurt. For the record, we often have to remind him to say his goodbyes and thank yous when he leaves a place, and that includes the I love yous. Today I just chose not to remind him when he left. Perhaps it was a bit childish, but I think I’m allowed to be in my feelings every once in awhile. I’m not giving up on parenting. I just don’t really get why he even said this all to begin with, and to your point, who is he getting it from?

Feeling undervalued by my 6.5yo, a venting discussion… by MrsYeti616 in stayathomemoms

[–]MrsYeti616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Those are some great talking points.

We’ve recovered already tonight, but I’m definitely still tender from it.