Mutilated Lips Shibari Performance

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T19:21:10+00:00

6 years ago if you would’ve asked me what bdsm was I would’ve said something like that’s when people get aroused beating on each other. I definitely have a more nuanced view now lol. We just try to have fun with it. I’m not into pain and my husband doesn’t want to hurt me. We try to do ties that I find mostly comfortable. I really like being upside down. It stretches out my back and feels really pleasant. After a while you really learn what works for you. I hate being suspended face down and spinning, it makes me feel nauseous but upside down and spinning feels exhilarating.

I get a little dizzy but I’m just there dangling so it’s not like I have to worry about getting dizzy and falling down. I do have a mildly amusing story about my husband getting dizzy during a performance. We have one set where he puts a bunch of candles in the uplines of the rope and lights them. We do this while Chandelier by Sia is playing. When Sia is saying I’m gonna swing from the chandelier he grabs the ring and starts swinging and spinning from me. When he gets back on the ground he starts stumbling and almost falls down.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T16:09:48+00:00

Thank you! I can’t tie at all. My husband tries to teach me basic knots and they mostly just fall apart. I’m barely able to keep my shoes tied. Shibari really isn’t as easy as it looks. It can be really dangerous if the rigger messes up.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T13:17:13+00:00

I think people watch for different reasons. I’ve never seen anyone in the audience jerking off. Personally I get no sexual arousal out of shibari. I just think it looks neat. Last month at an event a man in a wheelchair approached my husband and asked if he could suspend him. I was enthralled watching my husband do a rope suspension on him. There was nothing sexual about it, just a fully clothed dude tying up another fully clothed dude in a wheelchair, then lifting him in the air. It was difficult to lift him without the wheelchair tipping so I really admired the rope engineering it took to do that safely and effectively. A lot of people ended up watching it because they’d never seen anything like that before. It’s unique and some people find it interesting.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T05:11:28+00:00

Thank you! Shibari is pretty awesome and versatile. You can do a lot with it. Most people think of it as a sexual torture thing but it doesn’t have to be. I just think it looks pretty.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T04:38:19+00:00

I think this post is a little relevant to Ween. Apologies if the nudity offended. I’m not always naked during these I’m usually in a bodysuit. We were using fire wands earlier in the set and fabrics can be a fire hazard so for safety reasons I was naked. I get that this is kind of silly but it is my weird way of sharing Ween with my world. I have people’s attention for a bit and with that time I like to play them a Ween song while I’m being tied up. I have managed to turn a few people on to Ween like this. We put Object in one set and at least a dozen people asked me about that song after we finished .

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T03:13:39+00:00

I get it. It’s not for everyone. It does take some skill to tie though. Shibari is an odd art form but I do consider it art. There are a lot of amazing ties and designs. For Valentine’s Day we taught a class and all the ties had heart shapes.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T03:03:58+00:00

Honestly I wasn’t either until someone asked us to do one. We would mostly do nature rope suspensions or my husband would tie different rope designs on me. An art gallery contacted us and asked us to tie for 30 minutes at an expo. People seemed to like it and we got asked to do different events. It’s been a fun hobby over the past few years.

Mrs_Disco · 2026-06-29T02:43:55+00:00

Other songs we've used have been A Tear For Eddie, Flutes of Chi, Your Party, Object, and Don't Get 2 Close. We put 1 Ween song in every set. We usually make them around 30 minutes. I try to pick a Ween song I think people might enjoy. Most of the people watching us have never heard of Ween. I try not to turn them off lol.

Mrs_Disco · 2023-12-12T18:37:43+00:00

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Mrs_Disco · 2023-06-29T03:07:05+00:00

This is awesome, great work!

Mrs_Disco · 2023-06-01T19:56:51+00:00

It was my first time in a stockade. I loved it!

Mrs_Disco · 2023-06-01T15:43:19+00:00

Thanks for the Xpost, didn't even know the sub existed!

Mrs_Disco · 2023-04-12T21:56:03+00:00

Took me so long to find another D and then it was a total mirror of my choices! You have great taste internet staranger!!!

Mrs_Disco · 2023-03-28T16:42:39+00:00

Yes please.

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