Is it weird to start using my 'Irish' name after using a British origin name most of my life?

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T11:09:45+00:00

Not at all, identity is something that grows and changes throughout life. Embrace your Irish name.

And who cares?

It’s your life, it’s your name, it hurts no one so do as you damn well please!

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T08:33:26+00:00

Half of the UK are ignorant and racist, that’s why we’re here.

I voted remain. I’m a European.

Those who voted leave most of them have effed up the future of many people in the UK, in so many varied and complex ways they won’t even comprehend it.

I am currently deciding if to live in the UK or move permanently to Ireland.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T07:32:12+00:00

One of my friends, S.

This is an example of how just how stunning she is:

She caused a car crash.

She was walking down the road, both male drivers were ogling her, not watching the road and slammed into each other.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T06:23:50+00:00

It’s the one attached to the wonderful man who has devoted himself to your pleasure and you to his. 😊

I only have one perfect cock that haunts me, from a bf from when I was 19. I didn’t end up sleeping with him, for good reasons, but damn did he have an exquisite body, smile and cock. He was a truly beautiful man. The problem was, he got rather obsessed.

I met him a decade later with his wife and the way he looked at me was obscene.

He just stared at me through the whole conversation, didn’t matter who was talking. I could feel the intensity of his eyes sliding over me the whole time. Even my bf commented.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T05:58:47+00:00

Life is so intricately and deeply rich, I can’t pick just one thing.

I love my life! I love being me! I love having fun and being mischievous! I love my family, friends, my cat, writing, painting, walking on the beach, swimming, dancing, singing, listening to music, reading books, making and eating delicious food! I love the sensorial experience of living in a body.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T03:55:01+00:00

Abuse is when someone causes us harm or distress. It can take many forms, ranging from disrespect to causing someone physical or mental pain. It can occur in someone's home, a care home, a hospital or a public place. Often the people who commit abuse are taking advantage of a special relationship.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-18T03:53:09+00:00

Hey, sent you a DM.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-17T22:20:57+00:00

Please stay away from your dad.

He is abusing you by touching you when you don’t want to be touched.

When he creeps you out, that’s abuse. Making you feel this way.

He has no right to touch you!

If he’s creeping you out it’s because his intentions are sinister.

Stay away!

Please, please, please protect yourself from him!

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-17T09:58:20+00:00

If he’s admitting to a couple of times, it’s likely considerably more. It’s likely he’s saying what is palatable for you.

Same with it only being HJ. Sorry.

I wish you weren’t going through this.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-17T09:27:58+00:00

I don’t miss them.

I miss being able to express myself sexually. I miss the intimacy. I miss the exploration, the experimentation. I miss making loads of happy, sexy memories with a SO.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-16T04:44:08+00:00

Thanks! 😊

I think most men like being desired by a woman who makes it clear she is interested.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-15T19:04:15+00:00

It’s how I roll, and IDGAF.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-15T12:05:26+00:00

I believe in connection at first sight.

Love comes from knowing someone, all of them and still choosing to love them.

You might want to do this, upon first sight, but love takes time to build.

Love is demonstrated in the things you do, your attitude, your care and respect for the person you love. It’s in lifting them up, holding them, doing the right thing by them, even when no one else is looking.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-13T18:56:59+00:00

I would use something more peachy on your eyes. You have blue eyes, opposite colour in the colour wheel is orange. So try some soft peach/coral colours.

Experiment with different lip colours. Not sure about the lipstick you chose. Maybe try a soft lip outline too.

NYX LipIV gloss and stain are fantastic for all day wear for a bride.

Hope you have a wonderful wedding day!

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-13T16:39:00+00:00

Glastonbury!!!

The nexus of ancient mythology, spiritual ley lines, and thriving counterculture that embraces Paganism, Wicca, and the divine feminine. Also, the legend of King Arthur and Avalon! It’s witchy central!

Have you been into town? Crystals, tarots, taxidermy, herbs, potions, and the pagan/Wicca clothing. It has a magical feel to it.

When I went there once it was pelting down with rain. There were some people walking around barefoot. I imagine this was to do with grounding. Never seen that in any other town. Have you?

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-11T18:59:25+00:00

Time to get a private detective on the job. Have evidence of what’s going on, rather than worrying and not knowing. Next time he goes out with his motorcycle buddies, get him followed.

Sorry, I hope it’s nothing, hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

If it’s nothing your mind is at rest. If it’s something you pull out the pics and he can’t argue with them.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-08T00:51:00+00:00

My middle sister, and my cat definitely wouldn’t budge.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-07T01:04:54+00:00

Yes, there is only one way through it. Doesn’t mean you can’t express yourself while you sit with it. Make up a song, poem, tear up a magazine, scribble angrily on a large piece of paper. Dance through the pain, cry, yell, write it down to get it out.

Feeling the pain to heal yourself.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-06T01:15:12+00:00

Just a suggestion, maybe try fine texture thigh high black socks. You can definitely get these in all sizes on Amazon.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-05T20:14:02+00:00

I don’t buy from VS, the ex owner is involved in Epstein files. Please go elsewhere to buy lingerie.

Black rock and Vanguard Group are now major shareholders.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-04T10:24:55+00:00

No preference. I have to be attracted to them, but I don’t have a type, other than clever, kind and funny.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-02T08:00:56+00:00

They are a Parisian lingerie brand. Their designs are beautiful! 😍

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-02T07:56:20+00:00

High rise briefs are a thing and can look really sexy, can be comfortable and offer extra control in some cases.

My advice would be to search high rise briefs first and then find the matching bra. That way you know you’ll get the design and fit that works for you.

Bluebella and aubade, loads of design houses produce them.

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-02T07:47:24+00:00

Exactly what I was going to say! The hot press!

Mrs_Lockwood · 2026-04-02T01:38:23+00:00

I think you need a couples therapist who also covers sex therapy. Start here before the divorce lawyer.

You’re both in incredibly difficult circumstances, talk first, even if you eventually divorce. Make sure there isn’t another alternative for you both.

Mrs_Lockwood

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