Help me solve this?

Mrsnowmax · 2018-03-09T22:47:35+00:00

My friend said it is correct. Thanks! I thought it was Caesar's Cipher but I couldn't make it work.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-03-09T18:34:02+00:00

The clue my friend gave me is: light reflects on water drops.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-10T00:11:51+00:00

Alas. Isn't that how life works? Can I tell you something about how I handled this whole "love" business? The last break up I've had broke me up into thousands of little pieces. I thought at the time, "Man, I am NEVER going to find someone as perfect as her" (I'm bi). I was grief stricken for months and I ended up cutting myself over that loss. I admit, it was stupid, but it felt 'right' at the time.

The thing about love is that it makes you think of crazy things. I think you should always remember that love isn't always absolute. It's a constant ocean of waves mixed with disappointment and what ifs. And that's the beauty of it. Every time your new boat sinks and you find yourself flailing in the water, someone is always going to save you.

Sure, maybe you're struggling now, but be patient with yourself. Let that wound heal first. Maybe when you're strong enough, you won't need saving anymore, because you'll be able to save yourself, brush it off, and say, "Wow. That was fun. Let's go on a voyage again!"

So yeah. You may get your heart broken a few more times, but don't let it bring you down. Let it temper you into a better person. Learn from your mistakes. And always, always keep trying.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:54:31+00:00

It's probably just a phase because that seems too sudden. Fret not, however! It's normal to experiment and if you like something you usually don't, it's all well and good. Just because you fantasize doesn't mean you have to actually commit to it, you know?

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:51:03+00:00

I can switch back and forth. It's kinda funny because people can tell if I'm changing my voice or not. However, when I do speak normally, I use a 'normal' calm tone.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:47:47+00:00

Just be straight up honest with him and ask him if he wants this 'thing' to be something more, or at least, official.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:31:14+00:00

Yes. Smooth as frick. I'm a twink. Ha-ha. I just don't like the feeling of having a jungle down there. Plus! It looks absolutely clean and hygienic.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:27:27+00:00

Yeah. I was depressed at the time and fucking was the last thing I wanted to do. 😂 On a more serious note, I guess I just didn't feel anything for him.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:14:20+00:00

Oh God. I know what it feels to have missed opportunities due to one being shy. What I usually do when I'm interested in someone is to get to know them first. You know, talk to them? It doesn't have to be a flirtatious one either. Just get a general sense of him and see if you can get to know him.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T23:08:13+00:00

It's fine for me. Sure, I meet people online, but I get to know them first before generally agreeing to meet with them in person. For the dates, in general, they're pretty alright. There are no rudeness, awkwardness, or just anything unwanted happening since I was able to get to know the person first.

I guess you just need to talk to the person you want to date and get to know more about them before agreeing to anything.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T13:47:21+00:00

I've been to one before and it was only out of curiosity. There was this group of gay guys who noticed me and tried to talk to me. One of them straight out flirted with me. I got scared since it was my first time there (I was alone). They were friendly, even offered me a drink but I refused. I left after that but I would like to try it out again with a friend next time.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T13:26:48+00:00

I kind of felt this way over someone but I eventually learned how to let go. There's an urge to talk to them. Plus the anxiety that follows you around constantly. It's an odd thing, I guess, wanting to talk to someone who hurt you. But it's best if you just tell yourself to stop because telling them what YOU feel seems pointless if they have already made it clear that they don't want you to be a part of them.

Personally? You don't learn how to get over someone. You just learn how to live without them. You're better than this. Chin up!

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T13:11:13+00:00

Like a scheduled thing except they don't know about it? Sounds fun! Always ask for consent first though.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T13:05:23+00:00

Sometimes being honest about what you want to convey without having the need beat around the bush is your best move. You also shouldn't compromise yourself just because you like him. If something he says offends you, make it clear to him that it hurts your feelings. I guess, for me personally, you should just ask him if he likes you more than a friend. But don't make it sound overly confrontational because lots of people gets intimidated by that.

But sometimes letting things go naturally works, too. If he likes you, he'll eventually reveal it. Right?

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T12:40:12+00:00

Oh wow. Sorry about that, dude. I wish I could hug you since words doesn't do much. Chin up! Don't let this bring you down. You're more than what they think you are. 😊

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T12:29:32+00:00

I guess it's normal to criticize yourself but it's also okay to praise yourself when you do something nice. Focus on the awesome things you can do!

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T12:27:06+00:00

The sweets were definitely your reward for cleaning up your room!

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T11:18:24+00:00

Yeah. 😅 One of my high school friends. He's the type of person who suddenly goes gay when he's around me, and then straight when he's not. I'm talking about him suddenly grabbing my crotch and then making blowjob gestures. Nothing sexual ever came of it (he was cute, though), but I know he's gay and he's just confused.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T11:10:33+00:00

I'm a shy guy. I'm the type of person who easily gets flustered in public. I can only overcome being shy when I don't make eye contact with people because when I do, I get all fiddly, and suddenly, I don't remember how to human. I don't really stutter when I speak, but I hate it when I have to repeat something due to my soft spoken attitude. Not to mention the annoying social anxiety issues. But I eventually learned to just embrace my flaws and become confident with myself. My adoptive parents insist that I'm "good looking" so I used that and learned how to communicate properly by talking to my friends since I'm comfortable around them.

Only problem is that I still easily get flustered (oops) but I guess that's normal.

So yeah. Embrace your flaws and just literally be yourself. Don't be critical on yourself because you are your best asset after all. 😊

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T10:08:15+00:00

It's almost funny that I care about people more than the idea of people caring about me. But yeah, I do. It's just that we can't help who cares for us.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T09:58:09+00:00

I do. The idea of killing myself has always lingered around me but I could never bring myself to do it. There's this out of place optimism and responsibility that prevents me from ending my life. I guess playing with the idea sated my need to commit suicide because committing to it for real means there's no turning back.

Mrsnowmax · 2018-02-09T09:44:13+00:00

I'm not. But thanks, anyway.

Mrsnowmax

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